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Hey, i'm Nikki... just your typical 15 year old... i'm a sophmore..i play Basketball, volleyball, dance, track & i use to play softball but way to many politics...umm the picture pretty much describes me..although its kinda old..i have brown hair, brown eyes..about 5'3..hehe short girl!.. well if theirs anything you'd like to know..don't be afraid to ask:-D

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OK heres the thing me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a year, and hes a grade younger than me, so next year ill be in a different school an im wondering if othr people are goin to make fun of me and stuff, i rlly like him but im afraid that it might ruin my reputaion, also im afraid wht will appen if he was to brake up wit me? will my reputaion be ruined forevr? PLEASE HELP ME!! I RATE HIGH!!


Don't let what other people think get to you..i have a friend who went out with this girl one grade younger than her..( he was in 9th her in 8th) and they lasted and still are together..noone made fun of him..and if someone ever did he wouldn't care because he loves her so much...you shouldn't care either..it won't ruin your reputation if you go out with someone in a different school thats younger..don't worry.. all that matters is that you like eachother..

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hey

ok, well this guy and i r good friends we talk like for 3 hours every day. well i dont know if i should say he is my boyfriend because he never asked me out but he calls "boo-boo"(i dont why) and babygirl and all ways says i love so he acts like hes my boyfriend but i dont know if he is or not. plz tel me what you think thnx alot

~*~Emily~*~


i think you should ask him, if your the real thing..tell him, you've been talking so much ..you'd like to know if you can claim him;) if he says he thought you were already going out..just tell him, alright i just wanted to know if we were offical or what...

xoxo good luck!

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On Friday I was with this boy it was our first time hanging out we've been friends for almost a year. We made out and stuff and he went up my shirt. He kept asking to finger me and I said no and then he would ask again and again. I dunno I think this is a little werid don't you? We're not going out like bf and gf but I can see us doing that. I really do like him but should I let him?? and please don't tell me o0o wait until ur comforable bc I don't want him doing it then never talking to me again. sry if this is long


i think that you should wait til your gf & bf..because..if your going out..thats different then just letting him..but thats totally up to you..if you really want to, then go ahead..but..only you know whats right.

xoxo- hope i helped

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Brad: BETSY im talking about kaliey
Brad: hahahahah ok i dont.. okay i wont...
Me: ohh sry ...blonde remember ?! lol
Brad: obviously
Me: i get confused easily
Brad: AH HUH

Would this be considered flirting or not?? Can you tell by this conversation or not?? And if not flirting how can i flirt??


Thats not really flirting sorry,...but if you want to flirt with him or any other guy..just drop little hints in..like cute remarks..

Example...

Me: Hey, happy birthday:-d!
Him : Thanks babe
Me: ic your info says : all i want for my birthday is you"
Me: i never knew you wanted me for your birthday;)
Him: yes, how'd you find out:-p


kinda like that..i can't really explain it..but just drop cute little remarks and use lots of smiley faces;)...

xoxox!..

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ok me and my boyfriend have been having a bad month - he tried to break up with me the other day but knew i was sad and ended up not .. he told me he loved me still and was being an idiot and crap like that .. but it stil doesnt seem like he still likes me.. i dont wanna bother him but i want to know the truth! sry its long!

Try talking to him..a break might be a good thing..just talk to him..see how he feels..if he thinks you need to break up..give him his space..who knows, you guys might get back together when everything settles down..you could agree to just not hang out for a bit if your having a bad month..he prolly just thinks since your having a bad month it will be better to end it..but if you really don't want that..tell him, and say..if your willing to keep trying..so am i..you know stuff like that..but bad days are what keep people stronger..and get them closer..good luck sweetheart..

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Well..I wanna ask someone to the movies and go on a triple date wit my two friends. Problem is..they are both pretty and im not so pretty..im afraid my date will end up flirting with them or concentrating on them. I know that my friends would never like my otential date..and im confident he`ll say yes when i ask him to come with us..is there anything i can do to build up my confidence and get the idea out of my head that my date will flirt with my friends or that he`ll think "wow they r hot..wish my date was prettier"
thanks

don't worry bout it..Looks arent everything..if your date is willing to say yes, then hes going to focus on you:)..for your confidence..i'm sure your a really pretty girl.you shouldn't put yourself down..Cheer up babe,..you have a good personality & looks only get you so far..

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It seems like the only thing boys like me for is my looks. I mean there's this one really nice guy that likes me for my personality, but most guys don't even TRY to get to know me, they just like my looks. -.-; Anyone else have this problem? o.O;

I rate! ^_^

It happens to alot of people..but don't worry..they will see!!!..i'm sure you have a killer personality..and a guy will come around for ya!...one time..a guy told me i was to pretty to be smart..i about died..i was upset..he said he was joking but you know things get to ya..cuz i know that i'm smart and pretty..But if i was you..don't worry guys probably do see your personality .you just don't think they do..but a guy will come around!:-D..the other ones..kick um to the curb;) you deserve better! Guys gotta love you Inside and out..and they are missing out on getting to know a great girl probably;)! ..i know i draged on..but i hope i helped!..xoxo

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Is it dorky to roll up your jeans if their to long or is that in style? j/w


I think it depends on the clothes your wearing..it actually just might look cute;)! don't worry its not dorky if you have the right outfit to put it together..i say,..switching things around..makes you who you are..

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It seems like hoops are going out of style, am I right?


They are..but then again i don't think they ever good....personally i always wear my hoops..but now i'm starting to wear those really Dangely ones..they really stand out..and are very cute:-D!...try those;)!

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good and cheap makeup....what kind of brands?

umm.. Nyc , Wet n wild & Cover Girl..very good;)!...and believe it or not..if you go to the dollar store..they have name brand stuff ..like the ones i just named...and it last long..

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i know this is really long.. but i really need help.

okay.. me and my boyfriend of like 2 yrs just broke up about 3 weeks ago. we were always the couple that everyone said "are going to get married.. they belong together" and we were SO CLOSE! there was never a day that we didnt talk fool around or just love being with eachother. we broke up and things were a little weird for like a week.. but now its just like were best friends again. and its weird bc sometimes its even like were still a couple. we always talk and laugh and fool around.. and i miss it. sometimes i still want to be with him but other times i just love being single and i think maybe its the best for the both of us.. that maybe its just time to move on- and that doesnt scare me, bc in some cases i just want to move on.
okay- so a little while after we broke up he started fooling around w/ one of my "friends".. this got me really upset. not that it happened just the fact that my friend wud do that to me after that long of a relationship and she totally knew how much he still meant to me.
then i met this guy. hes like amazing. we became close and i got with him a couple times. its not like were BF/GF but.. i think we might be getting there. we both like e/o. my ex knows n all of our friends too. i like both my ex and this new guy.. do u think i should hang on to my ex bc things might go back to how they were before (like they have done before).. or should i just totally move on from my ex and be with my new guy. im so confused i just need help.. i like my new guy.. but i dont wanna leave my old love if there is still something between us.. what should i do?

i think that you should talk to your ex ,..also..sometimes if you hangout with other guys,.or even go out with them...it shows you that you can move on..or if you still have strong feelings for him...you guys need to take some time apart and just be free..if its true love it will come back to you...but right not you just need sometime..and you will find out how much you really love eachother:-)!...

" if you love someone set them free, if its true love..they will come back"

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What's a good way to get rid of pimples?

i use Neutragena products..they work very well for me..Clean & Clear ...its very sensitive so you don't break out...:-) try that and see how it works...lemme know how it goes;)

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okay i knoe alot of ppl are havin sex and all and i used to want ta have sex really bad but i was talkin to my friend and she really explained to me that its a really good idea to wait for mariage. so thats me new plan. but c i talked to alot of guys about having sex... and now i dont knoe how to turn them down..?? i mean will they think im dumb if i say i wanna wait till marriage??

a good guy will be there for you..Jerks will think its dumb..but beleive it or not..there are guys out there that wait til marriage...its all up to you and when it feels like its the right time..even if you don't wait til marriage..it doesnt make you a bad person...my advice is when it does happen be protected and make sure its someone you really care about..because you might regret it if not...XOXO

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I would like to thank y'all in advance before you read this. It's probably rather long just because I think you need a little backround information about me... Good luck and thanks if you give me advice... I'll rate you high for this one (That sounds like a bribe)... ANYWAY... I'm having kind of a friend/idenity crisis. First off.. I use to NEVER hang out with girls. I was always one of the guys until 8th grade (I am not going into 10) When I grew boobs, had a NICE body, and was the captian of the competition cheerleading sqaud of my middle school. I had everything I wanted... I was beautiful, and popular (Shalow.. I know) Then, I didn't even make the high school cheerleading sqaud and I was kind of at an all time low. It was one of the most depressing time periods ever for me. That summer I gained 30 pounds and had no friends except my boyfriend. Luckily, I had my boyfriend there for me, which is still with me. At the begining of my freshman year I told my boyfriend how I was kind of nervous about going back to school because of my drastic change. So he told me I should hang out with girls. And so I did. I found a group of girls to hang out with. Turns out the year before I had bad thoughts about them but once I got to know them they werent what I really thought... (big lesson you all... don't jugde) Anyway, So that year was okay. I had girlfriends and stuff.. But I was kinda over weight and feeling really crummy about myself. But I wasn't gunna let that get me down... So I decided to get in something to take the place of my lifetime love, cheerleading. I became an active member in student council. There I became class president, And now I am student body president. I kinda prefer this position over cheerleading. ANYWAY... back to my friends... This summer was kind of weird with my girl friends position. I was happy i had girls to talk to about girl stuff and do girl things with. My boyfriend was happy too. So this summer I started big with TONS of partys and tons of drinking. Me and my girlfriends had a riot. But then I went to 3 leadership camps and decided that I wanted to be a role modle. So i stoped smoking, and drinking, and the parties. Well after I didn't want to do that my girl friends kind of left me behind even though we were really close. We barely talk anymore... And if we do its because they don't have anything else better to do and they wanna chill because they're bored. I know my possibilities.... I know my position.... I know what I can do... But what do y'all think about my position? About me? And what I should do.. Thanks

hey girl,..Don't worry bout them girls..if they were really your friends they wouldn't of done that to you in the first place...i think that you should go out there and get some real friends..:-)..you deserve them..Being a role model is very important..im very proud of you for choosing that over drinking & smoking..i know i sound like a mother..but you did a very good thing.. if i was in your shoes, i'd prolly tell my friends how i feel..maybe they will lighten up...also, you don't have to drink or smoke everytime your somewhere..or anytime..but i know that leads to peer pressure..but enough with that..i just wanted to tell you that i'm very proud of you...and if i was in your shoes..i'd try to make friends with another group of girls..that way you have more...so you can lean on them for some things when you need someone to talk to..:-)..i'm here if you need me

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My first day of high school is coming up .. what should i wear ??? i wanna look cute n trendy ! for ppl who have already survived there freshman year ... give me a hint on what to wear first day of school =D

I say wear what makes you comfortable...i got threw with my Freshmen year...and i wore hoodies and pants all year..haha i was so comfy:-D..for the first couple days, you can dress up and look cute...but other that just be yourself..have fun..and be comfortable...Highschool is a blast & very exciting..

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