Question Posted Wednesday August 11 2004, 12:25 am
It seems like the only thing boys like me for is my looks. I mean there's this one really nice guy that likes me for my personality, but most guys don't even TRY to get to know me, they just like my looks. -.-; Anyone else have this problem? o.O;
JustxAskMe00 answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 9:06 pm: well i know how you feel. a lot of guys have only become friends with me becuase they have liked my body or whatever. what i did was tell them that im not that kind of girl and im not gunna do anything with them. most of them started to talk to me a realized that i have a great personality to go along with everything else. if they decide not to talk to you its their loss, i suguest just starting a convo. dont leave it up to them boys are dumb. so dont do anything u'll regret and have fun.
Candy_Clouds_of_Lullaby answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 9:35 am: Yeah, i thin a lot of girls have this problem...most guys are pigs..TRUST me on this one..but if you want a guys to notice you for you and not your looks try just being their friend first and build up from there..thats what i've done in the past...BUt good luck with the guys who does like you for you! [ Candy_Clouds_of_Lullaby's advice column | Ask Candy_Clouds_of_Lullaby A Question ]
Nikkilynn21 answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 1:19 am: It happens to alot of people..but don't worry..they will see!!!..i'm sure you have a killer personality..and a guy will come around for ya!...one time..a guy told me i was to pretty to be smart..i about died..i was upset..he said he was joking but you know things get to ya..cuz i know that i'm smart and pretty..But if i was you..don't worry guys probably do see your personality .you just don't think they do..but a guy will come around!:-D..the other ones..kick um to the curb;) you deserve better! Guys gotta love you Inside and out..and they are missing out on getting to know a great girl probably;)! ..i know i draged on..but i hope i helped!..xoxo [ Nikkilynn21's advice column | Ask Nikkilynn21 A Question ]
Lena answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 1:03 am: yeah.. i do... it happens.. i usually tell them to screw off if they are fake to me.. like dont like my personallity and only like the way i look.. if they only like you for your looks.. they're missin out on the true *you* and thats inside, in ya <3.. =) [ Lena's advice column | Ask Lena A Question ]
LilMia811 answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 12:56 am: yeah it sucks... some guys are like that. they only want you for your body or looks and not your mind. but dont be discouraged, not all guys are this way. if you meet a guy who doesnt seem like a jerk then atleast give him a chance. [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
CheapChineseFood answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 12:54 am: No. I'm ugly. :D And when guys do like me, it's strictly on my personality...or they find beauty in me somewhere. Be lucky you are gorgeous though. It must be fun. I can see where the downsides occur though. Make sure YOU know who you are though. And then people will see that versus your angelic face! :D. I know that didn't really help you. But I felt like saying it anyway. [ CheapChineseFood's advice column | Ask CheapChineseFood A Question ]
soljette answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 12:38 am: yeah.. sometimes i dont know if guys try to talk to me because they like me for who i am, or because they just take me for my looks. guys like that should be punched in the lip.. but i guess we'd never know what guys really like us for until we give them a chance and see. so if youre having that problem, just try to find a nice guy that doesnt seem to be an asshole and give him a try. [ soljette's advice column | Ask soljette A Question ]
xxoBriannax answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 12:33 am: yes i do!! it sucks ass.. but hey a typical guy..
bRuNeTtExdUdEtTe answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 12:32 am: haha...cuz MOST guys are shallow retards. maybe your just lookin at the wrong type of guy...do you hang out with like mostly popular guys? cuz all they care about is their reputation and getting action. maybe try getting to kno a few of the not as popular guys....youd be surprised at how nice they are! [ bRuNeTtExdUdEtTe's advice column | Ask bRuNeTtExdUdEtTe A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.