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i don't know what i should do
I have this friend and I have been friends with her for like 5 years, and recently I met this guy and I like him a lot, and I told her that. And this guy told me that he liked me too. Well now she is going out with him. He still calls me and say that he loves me and wishes he was with me. I don't know if I should talk to the girl or if I should stay a way from her since she stabbed me in the back. What should I do?
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Dear i don't know,
I think u should tell your best frend and maybe she juss become frenz with him
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Jerzii
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Ask her why she did this to you. It seems she was either jealous or she liked him secretly, too. Then ask this guy why he'd go out with her if he 'loves' you.
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Dont stop talkin to her... just dont trust her ever again... and i hate to tell u this... but that guy is playin wit ur mind... if he loved u and wanted to be wit u... why would he ask ur friend out... it makes no sense what-so-ever...
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The guy is either really confused, easily swayed, or a prick who is messing around with your head. Stop taking calls from him and tell your friend that this guy has been telling you he loves you. Sometimes, people just are attracted to other people and you can't really help it even though you know your friends like him, so I wouldn't be entirely angry with her, though you have some right to be. Do her a favour and let her know that this guy is a jerk and is telling you he loves you behind his new girlfriends back. He is crappy and needs to be kicked in the ass.
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no every girl gets one or two guys stolen by their best friends..no matter what the circumstances..i did that to my best friend int he whole world and theres nothing i regret more i meen at the time i didnt because i made excuses but sumtimes ppl do it for thea own self esteem..tell the guy if he realli luvs u then to dump ur friend and go out wit you ! but dont let htis ruin ur fvriendship . . KaT *
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well, the guy seems like a player to me. being that hes with your friend and hes telling you that he likes you and all that stuff. and with him saying that he wish it was you that he was going out with instead, if he really wanted to go out with you, hed leave her and go to you. but thats not what hes doing is he, when hes telling you that he loves you? i think you should tell your friend that hes saying those things to you, and you should just forget about him. because you know what? if it was you he was going out with, hed probably be doing the same thing to you; telling some other girl he loves her and all that bullshit. forget it, youre better than that
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Okay well 1st off this guy is a fuckin dick. he is playing head games with both you and your girl. yeah it was messed up that she got with him cuz she knew you liked him. but, hey be glad that you didnt get with him and you are not the one he is doing this to. even though i have a feeling that even if he was with you, he would still probably be doing the same shit, the tables would just be turned. if i were you i would tell your friend that he is telling you those things, and the both of you can kick him to the curb. he is definitelt not worth it, playing ping pong between 2 freinds.
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what a bitch.. talk to her
-xXoBrianna
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I know this is going to sound kind of weird, but here it goes. Even though this girl stabbed you in the back you were friends with her for 5 years, so i would say talk to her and let her know what this guy has been doing..she probally wont believe you and say your just jealous because he likes me.Im not saying be friends with her again, just tell her for the reason that it might make you feel better. <3
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