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boyfriend troubles
Hi.. My name's amy! Ohh I'm female lol.. And I've kind of had a problem my whole life, and it's the whole ideal of being shy. I'm 14 years old, and I have yet to make out with a boy or any of that sweet stuff. I've hugged and pecked guys. But its just.. Everytime I would kiss my boyfriend, the next day I'd come into school slapping my head and saying, Why would I do something like that, I feel so stupid, and then my face turns red. Also, the other night, I was hanging out with my boyfriend, and he hugged me like we were watching fireworks, and he just put his arm around my neck.. and I just stood there motionless. I had no idea what to do! I just started laughing. Many guys have broke up with me for the reason that I am shy. Is there a way I can change? Because all boys think I start laughing or being shy because I'm using them, or that I don't like them. What would you did in my situation..? Thanks alot!
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it's ok that your shy .. a lot of girls our age are! you just have to loosen up a little bit and go with the flow .. i mean hugging your boyfriend or seeing him the day after you kiss shouldn't make you feel embarrassed .. if i were you i would just try to loosen up =)
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Iam 18 years old and in a way just like you. Im a very shy girl when it comes to guys. Without doing anything that your not ready to do, you can still show them that you care. When he puts his arms around you, lay your head on his shoulder or put your arms around him. But, dont let him push you into anything. Talk to him. If he really cares then he will understand.
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Amy,you're afraid that when you kiss these guys,you're gunna suck. You feel insecure for whatever reason and when you laugh at these guys,it really gives off the impression that you're laughing at he notion that you would like us. How would you like it if the guy laughed at you? I say don't slap yourself in the head if you kiss a guy,pat yourself on the back. There's nothing wrong with making out with a guy and it's normal. Just open yourself up and don't be scared to get hurt,it's gunna happen anyway.
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i am shy too..really really shy but like sometimes its not always a horrible thing..if you just dont like abuse it..if you are friends with your boyfriend first before going out wit him..just act lik friend jsut wen he puts his arm around you lean over..i know you want to kiss him..so dont b afraid and if you dont want to ksis him which it doesnt sound like then theres no rush..take your time..but let your boyfriend make the first moves then..jsut dont totally ignore them..hopedd that helped . . KaT *
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okay well you need to get some confidence. but you know some guys think a shy girl is cute. if you are not ready to do stuff yet, that is fine, you are still very young and have plenty of time to get to know yourself better and feel more comfortable around guys. and im sure if you stay with the guy you are with now, you will beocme more and more used ot him with time. all of this "grown up" stuff takes time. be happy you are not growing up too fast. to me you are right on track.
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start talking more.. theres nothing to be shy about.. i get shy sometimes but thats only when im talking to people i hardly talk to in person.. sorry if that didnt help much but, just try your hardest not to be shy!!
-xXoBrianna
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