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Location: Maryland
Occupation: Nanny
Age: 18
Member Since: August 10, 2004
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Last Update: August 31, 2004
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I transferred to a new school and my friends that i already know ignore me and i try to make new friends but im not good at that stuff. So at lunch everyone is saying ohhh talk and i dont know what to do or say. (link)
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Just be yourself, ask them about themselves and what they like to do. Tell them more about you because it seems like they want to know more. Let them know what you feel comfortable with them knowing.
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ok well im really bored so0o i've decidd to ask u pplz to pick one out of this 2*
1. lindsay lohan or hilary duff
2.jessica simpson or ashlee simpson
3. purple or pink
4.tongue piercing or bellybutton
5. blond or brunette
6. paris hilton or nicole richie
7.dogs or cats
8.beach or pool
9.thongs or boy briefs
10.mom or dad
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1. Lindsay Lohan
2. Ashlee Simpson
3. Pink
4. Tongue Piercing
5. Brunette
6. Paris Hilton
7. Dogs
8. Beach
9. Thongs
10. Dad
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My boyfriend and I haven't been going out for that long. When we're kissing and really into it, he tries to finger me and I really am not ready for that right now. How do I explain/tell him I very much enjoy kissing him, but I don't want things to go too far just yet? (link)
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Just tell him to slow down. Let him know the things that your not ready to do. If he truly respects you, then he will understand and not pressure you to do it. Communication, you need to be able to talk to him and tell him exactly how you feel.
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im 18 and my sister is 24. me and my sister dont get along much. once in awhile, were fine, but other than that, shes always screaming at me. a lot of my friends dont like her, nor does my guy. as the years gone by, ive learned to adapt to the way she treats me, but lately, it has gotten too out of hand and it makes me cry a lot. i told her plenty of times before that she hurts my feelings and shed apologize, but the next day, she still treats me like shit. i know that sisters are supposed to be there for each other through thick and thin, but its more like i have her back and she just brings me down, because basically, she does. she makes my parents go against me, which causes me more pain. what should i do? ive tried talking to her numerous times, but that doesnt ever seem to work? help.. because its literally killing me inside.. (link)
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If she wont listen to you and always treats you like that then just dont let her speak to you. When she comes up to you tell her, until you learn to speak to me like a mature adult, I dont want to speak to you. Talk to your parents and ask them to speak to her. Dont let anyone ever put you down that badly. Walk away from her, if you dont say anything, she will eventually realize your too mature for this, and quit. GOod Luck.
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whenever i use a tampon or take it out theres this extra skin.. its not like u can pull it off its thick.. n i dont kno what it is and im worried.. i dont wanna go see a doctor tho! Help me i rate high! (link)
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Does it hurt when you put the tampon in or take it out? Are you sure your using them correctly? Exactly where is this extra skin? You may need to see a doctor even if you dont want to.
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i no this may sound really stupid but my 2 nans are really arguing and they are soon gonna kill each other.i love both nans and my mum is in the middle of it all.she loves both of them and she starts to cry which i hate coz i hate my mum crying.my nan is 92 and she keep threatening to kill her self and im so scared plz help i rate every reply thanxs alot (link)
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Talk to your Nans and let them know how you feel about this situation. Let them know that you are scared and dont want anything to happen. Talk to your Mum and let her know that you are there for her if she needs someone to talk to. Good luck! If you need anything else, just ask me.
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You see, whenever I fly on airplanes, I usually get airsick, and I begin to throw up. But just a few months ago, I didn't throw up, so I was pretty happy. But last week, I just found out that my bf's mom invited me to Las Vegas, so we're taking a plane. I'm really scared that I'll throw up. AND I don't wanna be ashamed. What should I do to keep me from puiking? It seems so uncool typing this on an advice column but no one knows who I am anyways. (link)
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Just talk to your bf's mom and let her know whats going on. Let her know that your not comfortable with flying. She'll understand and she might help you with not getting sick. Good Luck!
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I work for a junior high school and there are plenty of good looking kids in the school. I am only 23 so I don't think it is wrong to like these students, not that any physical atraction would take place. But, there was one time, last week, were the most popular person in my Language arts third period class fingered and physically touched me! I was actually turned on! So, I told him to meet me at my house TOMOROW! I feel like I owe him either an appology... or a thanks. (if you know what I mean!)
What should I do
Master Bater
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Im sorry but, that is really sick. You need to go see someone and get some help about this before you make a mistake that you will regret for the rest of your life. Right now, you need to quit your job and stay away from teaching or little children until you get serious mental help. This is disgusting. Get professional help NOW!!
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ive noticed that alotta people have questions on people they believe they are in love with and so on but sum of the people are realli young and i dont think that they notice that being in love and loving sum1 are 2 totally different things....well thats what i think i was just wonderin other opions on bein in love and just lovin sum1 (link)
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yea, i agree that there is a difference among them. They just dont realize the real meaning of Love, but if you try to tell them that, then you are in the wrong. Just let them think what they want to ans as they get older they will start to understand just what love means.
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i feel like my friends at school might not be the right friends to be hanging out with but i dont know many other people there beacause i'm new. what should i do to find good friends? (link)
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You can join school clubs and organizations and make friends that way. Join a community organizaton that a few good people from school are in and get to know them. If your comfortable with just talking to people, just walk up to people and introduce yourself to them. Always be yourself.
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whats a good name for a new fish?
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Think of a name that you really like. Or for something cute, you could use Bubbles. Depending on what color(s) the fish is, you could use something out of the color. If its orange, how about, Juice (as in Orange Juice)..lol..I know that ones cheesy. Hope I helped!!
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ok , i dont kno what to do anymore . im babyysitting this 4 yr. old little boy . i came at 9:30 this morning and like 10 min. after the mom left for work , he's throwing his toys at me , one hitting my chin , then he took some statue thing the parents hav and starts biting on it . nd i cant control this kid . can u help me pleasE (link)
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You need to talk to the Mother about this. Ask her what discipline you can use. If she agrees, make him sit down for 10 minutes, no tv, nothing. When you allow him to get up, and if he does it again, make him sit for 15 minutes. Take that toy away that he throws. You are in charge of him, and he needs to realize that. But you need to talk to his parents.
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okay so our next door neighbors moved and the new ppl that moved in just had a baby. how can i let them knoe that when ever they are confortable leaving their child with a bby sitter that they can trust me? i mean i havent talked to them face to face since they've moved in and their never outside. please help me asap
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When and if you ever see them outside, take the time to walk up to them and introduce yourself. Get to know them. Bring up the subject that you could babysit for them if they need it. If the baby is with them, show them that you care about the baby. Talk to the baby, tell them how cute he is. Let them meet your parents also. That will make them feel better.
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I want to start babysitting to raise money but there aren't many people i know that need a babysitter. how should i get started?
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Make little posters and put them up around your town. Ask your family to talk to people and see if anyone needs a babysitter. Put an ad in the local newspaper saying that you are looking for babysitting jobs. It'll all work out.
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wat types of things that guys do are concidered cute or sweet by girls? (link)
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When guys are completly themselves. Surprising them with little things. Cooking dinner, little gifts like bears or a flower or just a poem. Showing them that they care.
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I have had this problem for about 4 years now. My whole body except my stomache is in good shape and I like the way it is and the size. Only problem is my stomache makes me look like im pregnant. I'm 5'3'' and weigh 130-135. I'll try to eat healthy but then at nighttime I'll get so hunfry and want food that I end up getting something to eat like an icecream or sumthing. I know its bad but I don't know how to get over the cravings. Any help on how ot get over the cravings and how to get just my tummy toned. I know your going to say run and crunched but they dont see to help (link)
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First of all, crunches make your stomach tighten up as is. Instead of munching on icecream, eat yogurt or carrots or apples. If you want to burn fat, you need to keep your target heart rate up. Walk at a fast, steady rate. Jogging helps also. Find different exercise videos to work out to. If you dont want to crave certain things, then dont buy them and keep them out of the house. Good Luck!
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hey...i'm 17 and my b/f and i have been dating for 4 years. We really truly love eachother. I know it's true and i know he respects me. When we were 15 he wanted sex but i said no and he hasn't bothered me with it ever since. That's how i know he respects me. Also, i know he has never cheated on me so i know he's serious about this relationship like i am. I love him and i know he loves me. I guess my question is, i can tell he wants to have sex now and it's making me antsy. He wouldn't ever force me too but i'm afraid that he'll crack any second if we don't have sex. Should i have sex with him or should i stick with my morals and say no if it comes up. I really love this guy..what should i do? (link)
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If you seriously do not want to do it, then dont. You told him no once before and he stuck around. He seems like a great guy. If he is as serious about the relationship as you say he is, he will wait until you are absolutly ready. Stick with your morals. You will feel great about yourself if you do.
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what do guys like in a girl around the years 15-17? Liek how do they like girls to dress, act, personality..that kind of stuff. (link)
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Guys like girls that are themselves. Dont act like something your not. You will find a guy that is right for you, not because of the way you act to please them, but for being yourself.
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Has anyone in here ever tried smoking pot and their not a complete pt head? I want to try it cause it looks and sounds fun.. but I don't want to become a pot-head. I just want to know what its like ur first time.
I want to be able to smoke with my boyfriend.. and not like caugh and stuff.. but not like have to rely on pot to have fun.
Can anyone tell me what its like to try it for the first time?? (link)
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Honey, its not as fun as it looks or sounds. The first time I tried it I was terrified. When you are high, you become very paranoid and think you are going to get caught. Yes, its not as dangerous as other drugs, but you shouldnt start it just because of your boyfriend. If he loves you, he will try to keep you away from it and not let you start doing it. When you smoke pot, you do cough. Thats how you know your getting high. If you dont cough, then you werent doing something right. But, dont do it. Its not worth it. I was on it for about 2 years. I wasnt addicted. I could go days without it. But, its not something, you want to waste your money on and you dont want to do something that you are going to regret. My suggestion to you, dont even try it.
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does anyone know any good places that hire 14 year olds? i really need a job! lol (link)
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Depending on where you are from, the only place around my area that will hire a 14 year old is McDonalds. Go for it, its a starter job and you will learn to save your money. After your 16, you'll find better jobs that will hire you. Good Luck!
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