I've been through pretty much everything u can go through in 15 years: death, love, loss, betrayel, attampted scuicide, stupid attention ideas, dissapointment, led on, false accusations... ect. All these things (and more) are what make me want to be here. I have grown soo much since i went through all of this. I've learned how to deal with things in a rational and finalizing way. So I came here to help anyone who needs help with anything. I have always givin advice to people, started off with ym parrents when i was 9. If anyone needs any advice whatsoever... u know where to find me!
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Age: 15
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Member Since: August 10, 2004
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Ok my boyfriend and me had been going out for about...2 months...we had been pretty close friends for like 5 months before that. Well, he really was a sweet guy, but I kinda cheated on him with this dude...well not exactly, the guy kissed me. anyways, my boyfriend forgave me. but today he was like, "i think we should take a break. im not breaking up with u exactly, but i just think we should take a break for a while. i will probably want to get back with you in the near future." what do i do? wait for him??? im just confused right now. (link)
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there are two sides to this: 1) he needs a break to sit down and think things over. u kinda did betray him (in a way) so give him some time. if u guys are close, then u will be fine. 2) what happened really hurt him and he is trying to figure out way of getting through it. could be by eventually breaking it off. but u have to realize that u owe it to him to give him some time to think things through. u just have to sit back and wait and hope for the best.
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Just for the info, I'm the shyest girl in the grade. Okay well I'm friends with this girl and she has a tendency to brag...a LOT. Okay, she is not very popular but she is the only one I can hang out with because I can't get to the next "group" in popularity levels. Then I made friends with this popular girl but I don't know how to approach her and talk to her at school, they all seem in one tight group. So basically I need to make new friends, but I'm supershy and I have a big fear of being rejected. (link)
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first off, the only person that can reject you is you. I'm guessing your in middle school. could be wrong. u have to realize that the "popular" girls are no different than you other than the fact they they have more self confidance. U have to realize there is nothing wrong with being shy, but if it is really bothering you, then here's what u do. take the friends u have and.... hang out with them. the key to making friends is not to try to make them like you. true friends like you for who u are. if u are having trouble approaching people, then dont approach, just talk. nothing fancy. talk about anything (school, GUYS, what u do after school. just be yourself and dont try too hard. people like confidance, and the best way to gain it is to be comfortable with who u are and not tryy to be somthing ur not. if you are trying to get popular, then u are making friends for the wrong reason. popularity gets you nowhere...
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I just broke up with a longtime boyfriend. He didn't seem to care at all. How do I deal? What do I do to keep my mind from straying his way?
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First off, you cant let yourself go back to him, and u cant make yourself find another guy. Rebound can only hurt someone who thinks u truly like them. Just focuz on your life, dont worry about guys. Most of us are assholes, some arent, just depends on the guy. Be optamistic, never doubt another guy because u were hurt b4. I've been cheated on 3 times, but then i met my current gf, and now I am the happiest guy alive. just dont spend too much time wandering in your mind. It is ok to think about him, just dont let yourself make up scenarios, telling yourself what happened and why it happened, just let bygones be bygones and be thankful u had that in the first place! good luck! peace, love and happyness... -shea
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