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How do I deal?
I just broke up with a longtime boyfriend. He didn't seem to care at all. How do I deal? What do I do to keep my mind from straying his way?
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keep urself bisy andhang out with ur friends. it will help u forget about it..HAVE FUN!
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First off, you cant let yourself go back to him, and u cant make yourself find another guy. Rebound can only hurt someone who thinks u truly like them. Just focuz on your life, dont worry about guys. Most of us are assholes, some arent, just depends on the guy. Be optamistic, never doubt another guy because u were hurt b4. I've been cheated on 3 times, but then i met my current gf, and now I am the happiest guy alive. just dont spend too much time wandering in your mind. It is ok to think about him, just dont let yourself make up scenarios, telling yourself what happened and why it happened, just let bygones be bygones and be thankful u had that in the first place! good luck! peace, love and happyness... -shea
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just hang out with your friends..try exercising..and meeting new people! =) he probably did care...and just doesn't want to show it! thats how guys are! my ex was like that! lol try to be friends with him..but if that don't work..then just meet some other guys and have fun with them! you'll get over him eventually!
<3*Chelsea<3*
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Keep busy!!! do anything to take your mind off of him! Meet new people...but the best thing is to stay busy with anything
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do whatever makes you happy. try not to think about him so much and go out and meet new people. im not saying to find a new guy, but just to get to know people you know? when im sad when it comes to relations, i always go shopping for shoes and underwear. do something that you like, and do what makes you happy.
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It's hard breaking up with a long term boyfriend that u absolutly love.. but if he doesnt care then hes not worth it,you deserve way better than him darling!Start to hang around with some other guys and flirt and see how you feel n if you dont feel nething towards any1 then just settle down for a little by urself and hang out with ur friends to try to keep ur mind off of it...i hope i helped and good luck hunn..xoxo
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concentrate on yourself. take yourself out shopping. pamper yorself, like go get a manicure and a pedicure or give yourself one. relax in the tub wiht some smell good and stuff. spend some time with you to just be good to yourself. the healing process take a while, but trust me, you will get over him and hopefully find someone new and better.
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get a new boyfriend and chat to people about love and ask them the same question.i have a boyfriend and i am afraid to kiss him.so get a new boyfriend
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That's a tuffy... if it's possible try getting back with him. If that doesn't help try getting another b/f. Hope I helped! Rate me!
xoxo, Maris
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go out and meet new people!!
-xxoBrianna
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He probably just wants you to *think* that he doesn't care. Guys hide their emotions. But if he actaully doesn't care then just forget about him. Hang out with your friends for a while before getting into another relationship.
To keep yourself from thinking about him try working out, concentrating on your job.. if u have one.. really just doing anything fun.. it wont take the hurt of the break-up away.. but it will help. good luck
xoxo ~ MaRiSsA
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Hi. if he doesnt care then you should worry about him...i know it's cruel but he doesnt deserve you if he doesnt care about who cares for him and who doesnt...just take some time out and think about some things and try to forget him. it's wont be easy but i'm sure you will be over him soon. i bet someones out there waiting for you . take care...I hope I helped! x3 SweetStar
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some things that u could do are play a sport that u like it will be very helpful it will get yo mind of those things. Another thing is to hang out wit yo girls they help to go to the mall or sumthin go buy sum clothes and try not to think or do things that remind u of him cuz that will juss make it worse. $M$
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if yu broke up wid him then it shuldnt bother yu as much either unless yu still have feelings for him... guys they alwaiz jus think as if thurr will alwai`z be grl`z ya kno wha im sayin... if ya dun have th0se feelin`z f0r him dun sweat it as much...
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just write things down talk to people and everything thats waht i saw cause it helps i think tahts waht i did when i lost one of my longtime bfs it helps but like me i got over it and hopefully you do to..Good Luck
-Cass-
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Did you break up with him or did he break up with you? Well if you broke up with him and he 'didn't seem to care at all' that doesn't neccessarily mean he didn't care ... guys often hide how they are feeling.
Well it is normal for you to think about him ... you said you had a long term relationship so he was a big part of your life and you don't want to completely forget him, but just hang out with other people and don't sit around regretting anything. **Kacie**
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think to yourself that you deserve better than what he had to offer!! think to yourself "there are other fish in the sea"!! :)
<3 .*.BeSs.*. <3
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