Question Posted Wednesday December 31 2003, 10:03 pm
I work for a junior high school and there are plenty of good looking kids in the school. I am only 23 so I don't think it is wrong to like these students, not that any physical atraction would take place. But, there was one time, last week, were the most popular person in my Language arts third period class fingered and physically touched me! I was actually turned on! So, I told him to meet me at my house TOMOROW! I feel like I owe him either an appology... or a thanks. (if you know what I mean!)
What should I do
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KrAzI_KaT_74 answered Thursday June 24 2004, 9:58 pm: i HIGHLY doubt u r a junior high student
but if u r, u r A SICK PERVERT, a 23 year old bein turned on by kids ages 11-14 u r a FREAK, and i hope u r a girl if u aren't then how in the #3!! did u get FINGERED, and if u were an ELA teacher, u would have better grammer, and u'd kno how to spell tomorrow, im a rising freshman, whose made straight A's for YEARS, i would assume that a 23 year old teacher would know how to spell the same word my 5 year old nayber knows how to spell, ELA teacher, YEAH RITE
and if this is true, u OWE THIS KID N APOLOGY, u should be in jail u sick pervert, u deserve to rot in then underworld when u die, lettin a child touch u, or was it u that touched the child?
i normally would give better advice, but im a freakin 14 year old, and know wut u r doin is SO TOTALLY WRONG!!! [ KrAzI_KaT_74's advice column | Ask KrAzI_KaT_74 A Question ]
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Saturday June 5 2004, 6:45 pm: Okay c'mon if your a teacher you wouldnt be sitting here telling us about it who are wayyy... younger then you.. and like.. you prolly would have reported and by when you said but there one time last were the most popular in my language arts 3 period class fingered and physically touched me.. thats not how you say it either you really are a Language Arts teacher and suck or you arent you should have said to be more real sounding is However this one time during Language Arts class the most popular person in my period 3 class touched me and it seemed more then just a friendly touch to me... get it straight dont be lying now! tell me how my advice is rate me good!! [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
MysticalSwirls answered Saturday February 28 2004, 10:12 pm: I highly doubt you are a teacher. You said you teach Language Arts? Well let me give you a quick lesson:
"But, there was one time, last week, were the most popular person in my Language arts third period class fingered and physically touched me!"
Thats very grammatically incorrect. You should've said:
"However, there was one time last week when the most popular person in my third period Language Arts class fingered and physically touched me."
dude, i'm in 8th grade AP english. i know how to talk if i am trying to make a point that i am capable of doing what i say i do.
and come on, if you are really a teacher, which i doubt, you would go to the administration and tell them what happened. you said what he did, which sounds like sexual harrassment. get it? tell someone!!! or stop impersonating teachers.
please email me and tell me what you think of my advice ;) [ MysticalSwirls's advice column | Ask MysticalSwirls A Question ]
Here-To-Help answered Tuesday January 13 2004, 4:31 pm: No way...put a stop to this now...unless you actually want to go to jail for some messed up reason. You crossed the line by not disciplining that kid by bringing him to the office right away. Now maybe he's going to tell his friends and then other teachers will hear and wonder why you haven't mentioned it. This isn't a good idea...and you do owe him an apology in a way...but you also have to bring him to the office right away...or see if it happens again and then tell as soon as it happens. This is serious.
That's disgusting...you shouldn't be turned on by someone that much yonger than you...If he shows up at your house tell him to leave.
Seriously...GAHHH! [ Here-To-Help's advice column | Ask Here-To-Help A Question ]
punx answered Sunday January 11 2004, 2:12 am: first off i hope your a girl .... second this i a strange topic. yea this kid is probly willing to fuck you but its kinda elegal he wont care but yeah .... if you arnt afraid of loosing your job go for it [ punx's advice column | Ask punx A Question ]
SunshineLvr91 answered Thursday January 1 2004, 10:04 pm:
hailebop answered Thursday January 1 2004, 1:08 pm: You need to stop this behaviour immediately. It is completely inappropriate, could easily loose you your job and is likely to harm the teenager in question.
However, it is also highly inappropriate for a student to touch you in such a way. It sounds to me like the student needs to be educated on what the boundaries are. It might be difficult for you to do this yourself, so it might be worth bringing it up with a senior member of staff who'll be able to talk to the student about his behaviour.
A part of me wonders how suitiable you are as a person for working in a school. As a teacher or classroom assistant, you need to remain professional at all times, as teenagers are essentially in your care. If you cannot remain in control of yourself with teenagers, then teaching at a Junior High School is not the right job for you, at least not at this stage of your life. Whatever you do about this scenario, please think carefully about what you are doing with your career, and whether it is right for you. [ hailebop's advice column | Ask hailebop A Question ]
MichiruKaiou answered Thursday January 1 2004, 8:07 am: Ehh, if you give him that "thanks", you could get imprisoned. Satutory Rate, He's 18 or under, you're over that, that's illegal. So I suggest not to do anything! [ MichiruKaiou's advice column | Ask MichiruKaiou A Question ]
snarfism answered Wednesday December 31 2003, 11:14 pm: Yes, it's wrong, not to mention ILLEGAL. You could definetly get fired. Break it off with this kid quick! You should definetly, definetly apoligize for your behavior!(!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) [ snarfism's advice column | Ask snarfism A Question ]
shay*shay answered Wednesday December 31 2003, 10:28 pm: Wait a minute! I thought you worked there. What was the whole "my third period class" about? Well either way you're too young or too old. A 23 year old person being turned on by a junior high student could lose your job and get you into big trouble. Or if you are a student there you shouldnt do anything you seem to young for physical contact. Maybe you two can talk or play a game.
-shay :-) [ shay*shay's advice column | Ask shay*shay A Question ]
Deanimal answered Wednesday December 31 2003, 10:25 pm: EWWWWWW!!! Okay, you are WAY to old for this poor child, and this all needs to stop NOW! You and him are both gonna get in major trouble. You need to tell him that it's not gonna work and that he isn't old enough for you. And I mean ASAP!!!! [ Deanimal's advice column | Ask Deanimal A Question ]
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