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welp i consider mahself to be perty outgoin n easy to get along wit at times...as long as u dont put me down or put down things i believe in...we will usually get along...alot of ppl come to me n ask me for advie n most likely i can help anyone out....i havent failed yet lol n hopefully i never do...one of these days i hope to make a wonderful career outta helping people with any problems they have

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i recently went on holiday and had sex with someone now im worried i might be pregnant what are the very first signs of pregnancy and what happens the first time you should get your period im 19

just look stuff up on the net...mostly u get sick...very hungry....tired...ur stomach will start to get hard...u can still have ur period for the first 3 months if ur pregnant...ur pee could be pink to....if ur really still unsure ya know just get a pregnancy test...hope everything works out for ya

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i have this friend who i met last year, and when we first met we liked each other.. now we're just friends and we are supposed to hang out soon cuz i havent seen him all summer. well, yesterday one of his friends asked me if i was still going out with my ex and i said no and then he was like "so, you're hanging out with matt soon?" and i was like yah and he asked if i thought we might start to like each other again and i told him i still like my ex....could that mean matt still likes me?

yep it could u should go for it...

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can you give me any ideas or anything on how not to be bored all teh time. and if possible to talk more and to get more sleep....( you dont get enough) :P



sn name: butch the slayer

hehehehehehe :P

um ya sure..talk to me more bout interstin stuff :-)

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Ok, I know that this is a really dumb question, but I'm gonna ask anyways.

I went out with this guy for about 5 months. We broke up for a while (about 6 months), and now we are back together.

While we were broken up, I hooked up with a friend's friend from out of town. My boyfriend doesn't know him, and there is an outside chance that they will one day meet, but I'm not all that worried about that.

For some reason which I can't explain even to myself, I feel as if I should tell my boyfriend. I don't feel guilty about the hookup, because, well, we were apart. I guess I just feel that he should know. But I don't want to mess anything up in between us.

So... to tell or not to tell... that is the question? (Sorry for the cliche, I couldn't resist.)

well if u know for sure they r goin to meet sometime down the road then u should tell him..just ask him if he hooked up wit anyone while u was apart n be like well i did but make sure he knows he didnt mean anythin to u and u wouldnt cheat on him wit the boy or anythin else...dont leave any ?'s in his mind if u tell him bout the other guy...

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Alright...I have moved away,but I still love this same guy and i an't get over him and I know deep down he still loves me too..he always tells me he misses me n thinks about me all the time..but he is talking/dating someone else..what should i do?

well tell him how u feel bout it...but ur always gonna love him...if he really does mean that much to u..ur always goin to...and u wont forget him either...but ya cant tie him down either...if u think u should really talk to him bout it...then do it...but if u want him to be happy then u just gotta let it be..n move on....but never forget he will always be there in ur heart..and u will always be there in his...n ya never know...later down the road..u guys could be together again

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Okay i have been with the same guy for the past 4 years all high school you could pretty much say, but anyway...All this time i have been a virgin yeah we do everything else and yatta yatta but i dont know i think that i want to have sex with him, i know that im ready but idk I love him with all my heart but what if i could get better or something? i mean i know hes awesome at everything else but what if hes not good at sex? then what do i do just resort to everything else that has kepted me happy all this time? please give me some advice
-Cass-

ya shouldnt have sex right now...unless u know ur REALLY REALLY READY!...i mean u may love him alot...but alot of relationships end over that...if u think u want to....then talk to him bout it....n see how he feels bout it...and if u guys do it...and hes not good...teach him...theres always room for improvement...but most likely u should stick wit what keeps u happy not what u wanna do becuz u love someone....

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Hey katy My name is adrienne im 16 and i am in love with this kid named chris we have been together 6 months this sat and about a wk ago he told me we needed a break not a break up jus time without seeing eachother to get are shit organized and see if we miss eachother and if we need eachother and i mean i love him to death but his brother has been outta town so he has been at his bros girlfriends chillin like 24 -7 and i mean i work 23 hrs a wk at a food store and lately he has been treatin me different jus like having no respect and the way he acts and talks and in any relationship even if it is a short or long u care about the other person and u care what upsets them and u dont do it if u kno it gets to them so much me and his brothers girlfriend used to be bestfriends so i quit dont trust her and whos always there and i dont kno am i over reacting ...should i be with him or move on? i love him but im sick of crying i was suppost to move back to florida but my love for him is to strong so i stayed and now i dont kno what to do i want him to wanna b with me how can i do that i tryed the jealousy thing it dont work i want something to really get to him how can i???? please help katy...

u should talk to him bout it when u getta chance..ask him why things have changed and hes been treatin u diff...i know how u feel...and i thought my bf was changin and he did...but ya know we had our fight n all that crap n got over it and we fight every now and thing but i found out i was over reactin to much cuz i suspected he liked another girl and i was wrong for that...and im glad i talked to him cuz otherwise i woulda broke up wit him...so just talk to him and make sure ur doin the right thing before u make any actions at all

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a couple weeks ago i kinda nicked myself shaving on my bikini line, and it hasnt healed yet. i put neosporine on it and havent shaved over it since, but its kinda turned into a lil red bump .. and yesterday there was a lil tiny bit of puss coming out of it, like if you squeezed a zit. but less. has this ever happened to anyone else & what can i do to make it heal? thnx & i'll rate if you give a good answer =)

i havent had this happened to me...but u should probably go see a doc just to be safe....or go to ur local drug store or rite aide..whichever i guess and ask em bout it and see if they can perscribe u somethin or help u find somethin to make it go away..GOOD LUCK! =-)

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hi. im 5'5 n 1/2 or something like that and i weigh 103 pounds and i know that im skinny but i want to lose weight. should i? do u think i might have an eating disorder?

u dont need to loose weight...what would make u think u need to...ur skinny enough and u admited that u was skinny so why loose weight?

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Hey I'd just like to say to everyone that when people are asking a serious question do you have too be so sarcastic and tell them to kill themselfs?? This is a help sight not somthing to be rude about. Is there anyway people who say things like that can be stoped?

idk if they can be stopped but ima wit u...its bullshit what some of the ppl havet to say..if they wanna be bitches they should be offa the site...

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okay so there is this guy (grant) who is 16 (and im 15)that i have been talking to for about 3 n a half months and before school got out he told my best friend that he wanted to wait until summer to get with me that way he has more time to spend on me since hes busy w. school and now..its like he doesnt have enough time for me. i like him sOo much and he knows it but it seems like hes even more busy now that school is over. i dont know if i should wait for him or find somebody else but everytime i look at another guy i compare him to grant and there is just no 2nd place. some of my friends tell me that i should give up and my other friends tell me that i should wait but grant is everything that i ever wanted in a guy..HELP!

well u should talk to him...if u can...n ask him whats up...but if u dont talk to him then u should look for someone else until he has more time for u...its not like u cant just dump the person ur wit for him later on....

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Okay I am in love with this guy. We are friends but he doesn't know I like him. He is a year older than me but in the grade behind me.. ya not the smartest person and he is coming to my school next year. So, he thinks i'm hot but he doesn't like me. But I really like him do you know any way I could tell him and keep our friendship the way it is like not change it and do you know anyway i could maybe make him like me a little bit more

ya just gotta be urself...if he dont like u theres not much ya can do...but just be straight up wit him..tell him u wanna stay friends n stuff but u couldnt hold in that u liked him...

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Can having sex and being sexually active set your period back? This may be a stupid question but i've heard from people that it can..?

yes it can and the more u worry bout it...by thinkin ur prego or w/e the longer its set back

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ok i know this guy that u can love so much but then hate..should i go with him or no?

give him a try but dont take anythin to serious wit him...

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my future has been scaring me.. Like to think in a couple years its going to be me.. on my own... I know where I want to be but I'm scared it wont work out and that my parents won't agree with what i want to be doing... Also, what if im not good enough to be what i want to be... Thats something that has always been a insecurity with me... Im scared i wont be good at something i love... i guess im scared that life wont be what i want it to be.... but in a way i think im prepared to do anything to reach my dreams but what am I supose to do... Take the safe route and forget about what i love or see where life will take me...

dont let ur future scare u...i know its scary but if u really think bout it...u cant change whats gonna happen...things will happen that u will hate...and other things will happen that u will be glad to have in ur life..ur parents should support u no matter what but if they dont..that should just make u stronger and more willin to go for ur dreams...there is no safe route in life...if there is...it wouldnt be life....it would be a borin trip to stuff that goes on in ur life...u gotta screw up to get up to the good things in life...it may take time but dont ever give up and never look back...and if its somethin u really love to do...u wont screw it up becuz u will be so set on doin it right..u might not do it right the first time or even the 2nd but if u keep trying...u will do fine...good luck in everything!

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i mostly like hip hop and rap..but what r some good cds to get..i need to buy some new ones. any1 have any good suggetions????

um christina millians cd..or hilary duff..or jessica simpson...idk i dont listen to much rap or anything but there okay

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I have dark arm hair and I want to get rid of it b4 school starts(August 16)So plz does anyone know any ways to make my arm hair lighter like blonde? And do you know any ways to do it without going out and buying kits? Like is there anything at home I can use that you know will work? Plz help, my whole life ppl make fun of me and a couple other dark haired girls I know And I am Not just doing it for them its for myself b/c I am so embarrassed that I never wear short sleeve shirts which makes me hot... HELP ASAP!!! If possible answer b4 tomorrow plz and Thx!

well u can shave it but it will grow back darker..or u can use peroxide...that works

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okay last week i posted a question about this guy "Brad"!! I went to his house and my friend and i slept over and so we talked a lot i made him laugh an awful lot!! i even brought up the "prom" next year, he said he might not go, i was about 2 say 2 him that i love 2 go with him ...but i was to afraid 2!1 Is flirtin with me?? And should i ask him 2 the prom??


its hard to tell...possibly but...u didnt give much detail and u shouldnt ask him to the prom becuz its to early...he might wanna go wit someone else and u just might not know it...take things slow

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im 13 and i really like this kid and he is 15 i told him how i feel and he said he likes me to but we live a hour away we could neva go out [ so he said ], but sometimes he seems like he really likes me then other times it seems like he is to busy that he has no time for me but then i know he has alot of girls as friends and i don't know if he likes them and i know is jealously but it tru and i don't know wat to do u think i should just try to get him off my mined[ it would be so hard if i did but i could try ].. or wat ? .. PLEASE HELP !

first off...if he has alot of girls for friends then basically he likes em all...guys r pigs and no guy can be friends wit just one girl...and me n mah boyfriend live like 2 hours awy and we still make it....been together for a year n 3 months...so dont let him use that excuse....just forget bout him...hes not worth ur time if hes gonna lie to u and make excuses bout why he cant date u

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okaie...well i had a question on here b4..about this guy named Miguel..and well he called me 2dae..and was really nice!!..he sed he was gonna buy me a Tigger doll..(my fave!)..and its for a birthdae present..bkuz my b-dae was yesterdae..and well wen he called..he had asked me 2 go 2 6Flagz wit him and his sis this weekend...then my sis came home..wit my digital camera..can hes ugly!!..and he is supposed 2 call me back 2marroe..2 c if i can go 2 6flagz or not..ohh yeah!..his is a LIL PERSON..and i am kinda scared of them!!..please help me!!...my sis saes not 2 b mean and rude 2 him and it duznt hurt if i am just friends wit hi..but man! i dono wut 2 do...HELP ME KAIE?!

u should give it a try...dont judge ppl by there size or looks..its not everything ya know..dont be afraid to make just a new FRIEND...who knows...he might be a great friend/crazy/funny person to hang out wit..give it try..good luck!

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