im 13 and i really like this kid and he is 15 i told him how i feel and he said he likes me to but we live a hour away we could neva go out [ so he said ], but sometimes he seems like he really likes me then other times it seems like he is to busy that he has no time for me but then i know he has alot of girls as friends and i don't know if he likes them and i know is jealously but it tru and i don't know wat to do u think i should just try to get him off my mined[ it would be so hard if i did but i could try ].. or wat ? .. PLEASE HELP !
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Clueless467 answered Monday August 9 2004, 2:12 pm: I think you should hold out until you can find someone who really seems to like you all the time. Someone who will never seem too busy for you. I know you probably don't want to hear this but you are young and this crush will pass soon someone will be jealous about you and want your attention. It almost seems like he just wants you to crush on him and likes that he has controol over that. Also and hour away is along time for a 13 year old because you can't drive and probably don't have many friends that will be able to take you. So maybe wait about 2 or 3 year (I know it sound like a life time) and then try to rekindle how you feel. In about that time you both will know exactly what you want out of a relationship and each other so it should be better; but untill then try not to think about him because he obviously isn't worth your cruching otherwise he would be trying as hard for you as you are for him. Any help? [ Clueless467's advice column | Ask Clueless467 A Question ]
blake08 answered Friday August 6 2004, 11:06 pm: confused...
If he has no time for you then he doesnt like you the way he says he likes for you because when you love someone you make time for that person...
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Sexahadvicex0 answered Friday August 6 2004, 10:49 pm: ok listen ask the kid straight up if he likes you if he says no then go out nnd get a new suga daddy :) or if he says yes ask him y he wouldn't he go out with u talk with him to c wudd goin on in his head...
xOCarrie answered Friday August 6 2004, 10:03 pm: Personally I think long distance relationships are hard, especially for people who are young. You have to be devoted, ready, and seriosuly commited. I think you should forget about him, he`s just another *crush*. To get over him, hmm go to the mall with a couple of your girlfriend`s and pick out hot guys and giggle about it. Thats always fun. (but dont talk to strangers, its almost always highly dangerouse.) You could definatly find someone near where you live from the sound of your beautiful personality. Good luck!
LaLa34lismchle answered Friday August 6 2004, 9:55 pm: Because neither of you can drive it would be very ahrd to have a relationship trust me i know from experience u should just be friends for now and try not to get jealous because he will like other girls and he can still like you but being so far away it would be very hard to pursue anything with u . so be friends n find sum1 closer u can see more itll be more fun that way [ LaLa34lismchle's advice column | Ask LaLa34lismchle A Question ]
Xx1Fate4XBlvr3xX answered Friday August 6 2004, 8:41 pm: first off...if he has alot of girls for friends then basically he likes em all...guys r pigs and no guy can be friends wit just one girl...and me n mah boyfriend live like 2 hours awy and we still make it....been together for a year n 3 months...so dont let him use that excuse....just forget bout him...hes not worth ur time if hes gonna lie to u and make excuses bout why he cant date u [ Xx1Fate4XBlvr3xX's advice column | Ask Xx1Fate4XBlvr3xX A Question ]
MiRaNdA1522 answered Friday August 6 2004, 7:51 pm: hey well i dunno u but still im giving u my advice lol ok well u should like jus go out with him and if he turns out to be a ass then break it off lol yea i type bad cuz im used to aim typing sry lol [ MiRaNdA1522's advice column | Ask MiRaNdA1522 A Question ]
*tasha* answered Friday August 6 2004, 7:15 pm: HEY!I think its up to you!If you feel you like LOVE him then i guess theres nothin you can do and me askin u to get him off your mind wouldn't help..but i really think that long distance stuff DOESN"T REALLY WORK!But ya kno for some it does...maybe its just me i always need someone to be with like phyisically but maybe ur different..I hope it all works out!!GOOD LUCK!TELL ME HOW IT WORKS!
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