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How can I prevent my hair from becoming staticy? It's sooo annoying and it drives me nuts! Cause sometimes it sticks to my neck, and that's really annoying. Sometimes it sticks to the back of my shirt, or it just floats around... and when I grab all my hair it makes a static electricity sound or something O.o.... It like gets staticy on the day my hair looks the worst. (when my hair is greasy.) I dunno why it gets staticy. From my hairbrush, or the fabric my clothing is made of/my coat or jacket?... So are they any tips to prevent your hair from ever being staticy ever again? Or for at least a long period of time. Thanks!!!!

try using neutrogena triple moisture shampoo .. it works really welll that or theres anti frizz spray that works well too.

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I read somewhere that women should avoid having too much caffeine while on their period. I don't remember the reason...does anyone know?
Also, if this is true, why does Midol have caffeine in it? I imagine that it is to relieve fatigue often caused by menstruation...but if it really is bad to have caffeine during your period, why would it be an ingredient?
..oh, the box on Midol Menstrual mentions that a dose (2 pills) has as much caffeine as a cup of coffee.
I wanted to know mainly cause I just got my period, and it's crunch time with exams, so I really can't avoid coffee right now.

Caffeine increases your estrogen levels. The increased estrogen will increase your pain and cramps. It also increses your fatigue(tiredness), irritability, and depression. Chocolate can also do the same thing.
The reason Midol has caffeine is just a dose to act as a diuretic(make you pee) to get rid of exccess water in your body to decrease your fatigue and reduce bloating during your period

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So my family's going on a vacation in winter. We're from Barbados which doesn't have snow or any relly cold areas. The coldest it gets is about 25 degrees celcius maximum. So we're leaving in a while (few days) and I have no idea how i'm goin to stay warm to reach New York. Tell me how to dress to go to the airport please? how many layers of clothes will i need???????

IM from newyork
and you will need pants of course... at most times ull want a sweater on andmaybi a shirt underneath it.. a good winter jacket.. not light jacket.. hat scarf and gloves.. im assuming ur going to nycity so theres not that much snow there so you probably wont need boots or anything but, Right now we barely have any snow and it hasnt been too cold like prolly like only 25degrees farenheit so it hasnt been too bad lately but just bring extra warm clothes justincase.. plus ull probably be colder cuz your not use to it like me

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If you discovered that your drunken boyfriend had gotten a blowjob at a party from a stranger whose name he didn't even know, would you be bothered by this? I might add this was a couple of years ago, before we knew each other. He just admitted it to me and I've been weird about it ever since. I haven't even been able to talk to him. I can't get it off my mind. I've just totally lost respect for him for it. I realize people make mistakes but it's really bothering me. =/ He does regret it at least but still.

So..uh.. what's wrong with me? How can I stop holding this against him? Do I have a right to look down on him for this?


19/f

well im a 20/f and m y boyfriend definately has a past that i dont like and like you i find it hard sometimes wen i think about it Its hard not to hold it against him, but you just have to realize people change...A lot of people guys and girls have a crazy past or whatever you wanna call it and the fact that your boyfriend seemed to have had that stage in his life its probably a good thing and will keep him more loyal to you. Thats how I try to look at it... I mean I still make jokes to my boyfriend saying he was a pig for some stuff he did but I know those days of his lives are over so I try not to be too hard on him. so my advice to you is try not to think about it and make sure he knows how you feel about it and im sure youll eventually get over it and be able to laugh about it.

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ok i need help ASAP. so i was trying to give a hj and it was hard to keep going up and down bc my hand would like get stuck?? what am i doing wrong?

wen it gets hard to go up and down just put it in ur mouth for a second or lick it up and down to make it more slippery and wen u do it make eye contact with the guy ..works well

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i have a flabby stomach and it kinda has cellulite on it. im not that fat, just only in my stomach and i run about 5-6 times a week for 20-30 minutes and i have been doing this for about 2 weeks and havent seen very good results. so if i keep running will i eventually get a flat stomach? and how long?

Good ways to get rid of stomach fat are exercising in the morning before you eat and burn 200 calories and that will help you burn more calories throughout the day. Also decrese your sugar/carb intake and increase your water intake. Try doing situps but you also need to keep running or walking. You could also buy a work out video for abs. Me and my friend got a go go dancing one.. seems weird but its fun and you can tell when your done that it def works ur stomach.

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my vagina smells bad. its not like a fish smell but its bad & not normal. i do clean with antibacterial soap but its not working. what should i do ?

First of all you shouldn't use soap on your vagina It kills all the good flora(organisms) and then bad ones take over which can cause many infections. You may have a urinary tract infection or something else.. but usually those come along with burning, itching, and discharge. So if you have anyother signs than you should go see a doctor or ask your mother.

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I have no clue what to be for halloween. I can't go out and buy a costume, but i MAY be able to go and buy some acsessories. I have A LOT of makeup to work with. Please help me.

u could go with like a girl from the 80s and wear a side pony tail and stuff like that or from a different time era too

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O.K. I hate cleaning but thats how i get money.So how do i get to like cleaning?

im not sure what kind of cleaning you do....but im a 17/f and iuse to be ahosuekeeper before i went to college so anwyays i liked it alot though....i dont mind cleaning when im not cleaning my stuff..personally i think its cool to see something go from really dirty to really clean and knowing i did it....just like i use to clean so good so i was liek the best worker and evreyone basically lovedme and i got awesome tips...so if you can listen to music wen u clean i would do that just sorta have fun with it and think of other things

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me and my ex-boyfriend just started talkin again. i like him again and i think he likes me again but im not sure.he says he wants to have sex with me. he always says it so i went to his house and all we did was watch his brother play a video game for 2 hours then i had to leave. i asked him y he didnt do anything and he said he didnt want to do it while his brothers were sittin right there becuz his room is in his basement and both of his brothers were sittin right there. does he really want to do this with me and does it look like we will ever go out again?? we flirt all the time and before we stop talkin to each other we always say i love u.i really like him so i need sum help. sorry its so long!!

no, you probably wont go out again....he just wants to have sex with u and probably have a friends with benefits relationship which is ok if u can handle it and want it

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Can anyone recommend a good type of shampoo and conditioner? Like the company, and which kind to get?

I personally use dove...it has different kinds depending on whatu want...i usually use moisture ones in the winter so my hair doesnt get frizzy and then ones that have body stuff in them for summer to make my hair more fluffier and have more body.

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I'm relatively new here and I quite enjoy visiting this web site, but I can't get over the fact that at least half of these people could not form a coherent sentence with decent spelling to save their lives!

What can be done to help everyone realize that proper grammar and spelling is the key to communication, which, in turn, is the key to not stumbling around blindly in life? I really do fear for our generation sometimes.

it is not important to type perfect on here...im a college student and i know my grammar and spelling VERY well.. but i dont see it important to use it in all aspects of my everyday life ....

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Ok, I have a blue and yellow HOLLISTER shirt. What color eye shawdow should I wear with it? It's been bugging me to death!
5's-Thanks!

well im not sure if the shirt is light blue or dark....but i would go with any color blue or like a bronzeish color or silvery

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ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month and 1 week he wants to have sex im 14 hes 15 have we been going out long enough

is not a question of how long you guys have been together....but if you feel comfortable enough to be with him and have sex with him then yes its ok...just remmeber there are lots of consequences and to be safe.....and it will probably be different after you guys have sex....like your relationship will change...could go far the worst or best but good luck

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I have a big problem with thinking i am FAT! I'm 5'5 and i weigh 119.5! So I dont eat alot. My boyfriend worries about me an tells me if i dont go to start eating right then he was gonna tell someone. I went to the doctor to get my physical for cross country an he pushed on my tummy an asked me if i ever ate an i said sometimes an he said do you have an appitite an im like not really an he said that he could tell that i hardley ever ate by pressing on my stomach! I wanna eat but i get too full soo easy! what should i do?

i dont think ur fat at all nor to skinny.... I think your weight is fine..I usually only eat 1 meal a day and snack through out the day ...just make sure u snack on healthy things and not cookies...i wouldnt worry about eating more....because it cant be that bad if your doctor didnt really do anything else about it

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okay so ive been goin out with this guy for like 2 months and we're both 14. i really like him alot and i want to invite him over to my house. but i dont know how to keep him entertained... because its not like i can have him in my bedroom because my parents will b home. what can we do? i never had a boy over to my house before so im kinda new at all this. please help me quick. and i dont want some things like play board games... cuz thats lame... or do alot of people do that with their boyfriends and girlfriends?

wen i have guys over we usually just watch tv or a movie or sit and talk or hang out in my basement cuz we have a pool table or u could go outside if its nice out

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could someone give me a screen name for aim that has to do with summer?

XoSummRlOvinoX
HoTSunShine
Blazin HOTT
SummertimeQT
ChicaDelSol
VivelaPlaya
ChiCaCaLieNte
way2hot4u
SummerDancin
ReDHOTtBaby
BeachBabe
SandyToes
SunShineonMe

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I really like supporting charitable organizations, and I want to buy bracelets for the tsunami relief, Livestrong, and breast cancer. I have heard the footLOcker and Sport Chalet sell them. I was wondering if this is true and where else I could fing these bracelets! Thank you!

i usually just try to take them from guys i know......eventually one will let u have his

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ive recently been going to a tanning bed.. i went 6 my first time, 10 the second, then 15, then 20. my butt got really burnt and now its a whole lot tanner than the rest of my body, like super dark... ive also been really itchy around my boobs, butt, and legs. whats wrong?

your itchy becuause your skin is dry ....put lotion on after you tan or everymorning after you take ashower or before you go to bed it will help a whole lot...same thing happens to me

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Weird question, but okay.. do you find it normal to like someone alot that you've never met? I think that its normal to an extent- like a celeb.. but what do you think?

I think its normal....I use to like this guy alot that I never met b4. after like 3 years we finally meet and I still like him...

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