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My boyfriend said that on the first date he wanted to have sex with me but I don't think I'm ready to. I told him I wanted to wait and he said okay we'll wait but now everytime I talk to him he still brings up the subject of "doing it" on the first date. What do I say to him to tell him that I don't want to go that far on the first date? (link)
Just wait till you're comfterable when you're with him. Start out with doing other stuff. And if he's older then you and is expirenced and this is your first just remind him how old you are and that you're not expirenced and you want to wait. If he really likes you he'll understand and wait. But jus get it through his head that you're not ready.

xo,
jackie


okay well im turning 13 in november... and i havnt gotten my period yet... is that abnormal??? all my friends got theirs already?? if ya help me out then thanx!

Kati (link)
It's totally normal Katie. Some girls dont get theres till like 9th grade. Don't worry about it.

xo,
jackie


I've been goin out with this guy for about a year now. We both really like each other and I believe it could be love (I'm 18)... we've talked about having sex, we're both virgins and he told me he's ready to have sex with me and wouldn't push me if I wasn't (and he hasn't pushed me at all)... but I don't really know if I am or aren't... so how can I tell for sure if I'm ready?! (link)
Okay...when you're ready you'll know. You just feel comfterable with the situation and it happens. It's good he'll wait..you can always jus try it and if it doesnt work out jus leave it at that until you're ready to try again.

xo,
jackie


Okay..I just broke up w/ my ex like 2 days ago and we were together for about 4 months.I went to a party last night and i met this guy and hes a 16 (im 13) and we like kidna hooked up and now i feel really bad since i just broke up w/ my ex..But I like the guy i met and me and him like eachother and everything but like my ex still likes me a lot and I dono if i should just worry about my feelings or be nice and worry about me ex's!Cuz i like this new guy a lot and he wants to go out and stuff.i dono..PLEASE HELP! (link)
Okay..you broke up with your ex. for a reason, right? well if you dont like him dont worry about that he likes you cause why would you want to wait around for him until he doesnt like you..that's jus how things are. He'll get over it eventually and move on. So go for. Best of luck.

xo,
jackie




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