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not sure!
I've been goin out with this guy for about a year now. We both really like each other and I believe it could be love (I'm 18)... we've talked about having sex, we're both virgins and he told me he's ready to have sex with me and wouldn't push me if I wasn't (and he hasn't pushed me at all)... but I don't really know if I am or aren't... so how can I tell for sure if I'm ready?!
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I guess its just a "special" feeling. I mean are you able to take the responsibility of a child if you get pregnant, or and std. Theres alot of things to consider before having sex.
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if you're not certain, then you're not ready. just try some foreplay and see if you become more interested in the prospect. if not, don't.
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its just a feeling u have. You will no when you are ready to do it.
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This is a tough one first of all you well know when your ready it won't be planned but the most important thing is to be safe plastic can be your bes6t friend!
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NOT SURE!......
No one can tell you weither you are ready or not...you have to feel that in ure heart..plese...if you need more advice add me as big_blake08 on yahoo or email me at Big_Blake08@yahoo.com...
P.S willing to help anytime..
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urll kno wen ur ready trust me.. at first u mite b nervous but if u really love this guy and trust him..maybe u shud consider it...he seems like a good guy from wat ur tell us in the question ..but u shud think long and hard bout it
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Okay...when you're ready you'll know. You just feel comfterable with the situation and it happens. It's good he'll wait..you can always jus try it and if it doesnt work out jus leave it at that until you're ready to try again.
xo,
jackie<3
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It seems like you really like this guy. If you and this guy have talked about sex, you should know whether or not this guy is only in it for sex. Which, from wut you have written, doesn't seem to be tha case. You only have one chance to lose your virginity, so really, all you need to know is if you feel comfortable losing your virginity to this guy... Make sure that you aren't making a mistake before having sex... And really, that's the only way to tell. Your level of comfort is really all that matters. Good Luck! =)
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I say, make sure you are ready first, go to the doctor and get onto birth control, and then make your decision.
Good luck
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Well if you really love him then go for it and that is if you trust him. Maybe your not ready to have sex yet and that is okay just talk things over with your boyfriend and maybe you will feel better about the fact of sex.
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-Katie
I hope everything goes okay with you and your boyfriend.
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One way is if you truly love him and trust him. But remember only do it if you are sure! If you have any other questions please ask me!
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My opinion - don't do it until you're SURE you're ready. This is something you dfeintly won't want to regret doing. You're lucky though - sounds like you're boyfriend is a really great guy!
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hEY IT'S NAQUIA
GURL YOU HAVE ALOT OF OTHER THING TO DO OTHER THAN HAVING SEX YOU SHOULD TELL YOUR BOYFRIEND YOU ASRE NOT READY WHAT IF YOU GET PREGNANT AND YOU CAN'T PARTY AND WHAT IF YOUR BF DOESN'T STAND UP FOR THE RESPONIBLITY . YOU WILL BE BY YOURSELF YOUR PARENTS MIGHT BE MAD AT YOU AND YOUR STILL IN SCHOOL AT THIS AGE BUT YOU WILL MISS EVERYTHING YOU EVER DID JUST WAIT OR TELL HIM TO USE PROTECTION ON YOU CAUSE HE'S NOT THE WALKING AROUND WITH A BABY INSIDE HIM .
BYE CHOOSE WISELY PLEASE FOR YOUR LIFE
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it's just a feeling of security. but also you have to be ready to except the possible consequences to sex(pregnanacy). but when you are you'll know.
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well if ya really love him when the time is right then you'll know its not summin to be planned... just take your time when your ready you'll know okay!!!! so don't worrie..... if ya need anything else i'm all ears.......
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I think that when you are ready for sex you will know for sure. Don't do it if you have any doubts at all about whether or not you are ready. You're lucky to have a boyfriend who respects your feelings enough to give you the time you need. Take advantage of that. Even if you are in love, love doesn't mean we should have sex. Make sure you're ready.
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He sounds like a great guy, and you sound like a very responsible person, but you shouldn't have to ask this question. When the time comes you will probably just know. Just wait it out, and if something happens, and you feel comfortable, then let it happen. If your uncomfortable at all, then say something, and if he's a good guy, then he'll listen to you and back off a little bit.
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when you're ready you wont be asking yourself if you are.
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well juss think about it this way...r u shure u would want to get pregnant..im not trying to jinx u er ne thin..but u never knoe u if can be!
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