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Q: I'm trying out for the JV Cheerleading team for my freshman year on Monday. I'm really nervous and I wanted to know if theres anything you should really know. I was just wondering if there was anything specific. Good advice means a good rating. :)

just keep on practicing, smile and make sure your loud =) Good Luck!

Q: I've been goin out with this guy for about a year now. We both really like each other and I believe it could be love (I'm 18)... we've talked about having sex, we're both virgins and he told me he's ready to have sex with me and wouldn't push me if I wasn't (and he hasn't pushed me at all)... but I don't really know if I am or aren't... so how can I tell for sure if I'm ready?!

I guess its just a "special" feeling. I mean are you able to take the responsibility of a child if you get pregnant, or and std. Theres alot of things to consider before having sex.

Q: I'm looking for a nice dress for the end of the year band banquet but i dont know where to do besides Macy's and JCPennys...is there any other store you recommend i can go to for some dresses...i want the nice long dresses, almost like prom but it doesn't have to be fluffy. thanks in advance!

You should go check out some bridal stores that sell prom dresses. They have all different kinds of dresses there. Im sure you'll be able to find one. I hope i helped!

Q: ok here is the thing....
i went to my boyfriends house the other night and did somethings i have never done before and then he went and told his sister(my best friend) and then broke up with me....
what can i do to feel better about this and to get him not to be mad at me and to keep him talkin to me.....
i really like this guy alot........
so dont tell me to quit talkin to him
please and thank you.....
~kashia
:( i wish i could die

try and go up and talk to him privately. ask him why he broke up with you in the first place. if he doesnt give you a reason.. then hes stupid and you deserve better. some guys just "want some" which isnt right at all. all i can say is.. life goes on. im sure youll find another guy on down the road that will treat you better. all you really need are a few good friends.