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Q: Im 16 and My 16 year old Best friend is in love with my 16 year old ex boyfriend im pass the stage of you cant get with your best friends ex boyfriend, my problim is she really likes him she is like obsessed but he dont like her well he thought he might of but now he says he dont cuz she is inscure but they both ask me what they should do like he says should i just go out with her even thought i dont like her and she asks what can i do to get him to go out with me and then im left in the middle and my ex is also one of my best friends now so i dont really want to pick sides but i want them both to be happy i really am kinda sick of this situation help me please!
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You should let them know that you don't wanna be in tha middle of it. let them know that they are both your best friends and that its hard for you to be in tha middle because you don't want either one of your friends to get hurt. Tell them that they need to talk to eachother about their relationship and stop puttin you in tha middle. Good Luck! =)
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Q: I am really good at singing and I want to become a singer but I have no one to play music for me and I mean I can play the piano but i dont think i could write my own music...I can write my own songs but not music to go along with it..I love to sing but I need a band and someone that could give me a record deal can someone help?*Awesome Singer*
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Omg, I have tha same situation... You should try out for a talent agency... I mean when Jessica Simpson walked into her record labels office for tha first time, she didn't bring a band, she didn't have a band, they had to provide her with that. If you get into a good talent agency, they will provide you with your record deal and they will provide you with a band for background music and such... I'm sure since you can play tha piano, and you can sing, you will blow any talent agency away. Good Luck!
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Q: k me and my x i dumped him we r still good friends and like eachother we r prob gonna go out again but tonight i am going out with him and i am nervous becuz we r prob gonna do stuff iv done everything except 4th and given bj and hj and im afraid of doing it cuz i might mess up, i wanna im just scared plz help
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Don't be scared. Stuff like that is really easy to understand... My advice to you is not doing it until you and him are actually going out... That way you know that you and him are close enough. I mean you wouldn't wanna waste your firsts on some guy who isn't gonna appreciate it... Do stuff with him that you know you are comfortable doing for now, or take a big risk and try something new. Hopefully it will work out for you... =)
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Q: Ok i have a really important question. i really want to have sex but i am not sure when girls can get pregnate. i have already have my period but is it after u get it wheil u have it or what?? plz help me
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Well, so long as you've had your period even ONCE in your life, and you have unprotected sex, and the guy cums, you are most likely pregnant... Juss have sex protected... It's tha safest way. Good Luck! =)
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Q: ok now i wear thongs and i am kinda the one in skool that no one reallys notices. this is my last year of junor high and i want to be noticed. i want to sit down and have my thong hang out but then i have second thoughts bout it and chicken out. wheat can i do and is it ok if i do this?? plz help me
*~I RATE REALLY GOOD~*
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Okay, having your thong hang out in class is an easy way to get in trouble, and an easy way for GUYS to notice you... If you want guys to notice you like that, than wear your thong proudly i guess... if you really want that, don't be scared.
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Q: how do u change ur password again i forgot b/c i havent been on this in like forever!
please help!
xoxo
sweetheart00
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Try to log in and click "Lost Password" Type in your e-mail adress and it will send your NEW password to your e-mail =)
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Q: okay i love my boyfriend like sooo much and i know he loves me too...but he gets these mood swings where one day he acts like he cant live without me and the next day he acts like im just another bump in the road...what should i do? thanx so much~!
>*BaiLeY*>
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Well, that's kinda crazii. But, he might not be able to help those mood swings... But just in case he can, you should ask him about it. And tell him that you feel that sometimes he treats you like a bump in tha road. And hopefully he will understand and try harder to make it better. But that could not work, and he will be mad that you wanna be tha center of his world all tha time. Good Luck! =)
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Q: Hi,i met this boi and we talked and we clicked and i really like him but he lives in Washington state and i will probly never see him again:-/ but we talk on the phone and online still but its not the same and we aint goin out or nothin but i dont kno wut to do...thanks koko i love ya
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Haha! I know who you are! And I know that you really like Mike, but there is a chance that he might move in with his Aunt at some point, or that you and him will juss get in a fight and never talk again and everything will be better. Or, you and Justin might get back together.... =) There are many things you can do to keep your mind off Mike... I have had a long distance relationship, and you know all about it and how it sucked so you might juss wanna let it go .
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Q: hey i'm a columnist too,VBabi13! but i've sutitn to say, it seems like u lost you virginity at a very young age, did u? i'm sorry if it offends u, but i would like to kno, cuz it's really weird, N crazy, but yea, erryone's crazy*lol*
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Yeah, I did lose my virginity at an early age... It doesn't offend me... =) Asking questions is a good thing! =)
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Q: i love youuuuuuuuuuuu!!!!!!! hey ppl that reads this... this is the person that loves koral the mostest and the bestest!!!!! she is the best advice giver and she should be given a trophee thing! lol i love you koral!!!!!!!
-love ashlie
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YaY! Thanks, I try with my advice!
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Q: im sad... needa loose weight ery wun skinnyer den meh. dunno whatta do. i wanna run n shit but ... i neva get da time. plus i dunt wanna do it alone .. how do i get meh friends to do it wit me and how do i loose weight?
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Everyone feels pressured to be skinny. And you should only try to be skinny if its wut YOU want... Not wut you are doing to please others. And wut you can do for running is juss tell your friends or a parent/gaurdian/sibling to run with you every day or everyother day... since you know someone will always be home to help. You can also try dieting. Try going on adkins, or at least cutting out soda... becuase soda is one of tha worst things for your health. Stretch a lot, run as much as you can, participate in PE, join a sports team... A lot of things can help you get thin. However, if you are going to diet, you should NEVER take any diet pills unless subscribed by a trusted doctor. And you should NOT EVER starve yourself for a small figure. It's not worth it. Hope I could help! =)
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Q: please help me... i have a gun and knife in hand and im unsure which one to use first x.x DIE. no one loves me so... why let any one even have to deal with me? i got a problem and nothing seems to work, not my mom, parents,girlfriend Jen,NOTHING. my life is always so dramatic. i hate it. so... ive found something that might help me... this is going to sound really weird but, for some reason it helps and my siciatrist said ''anything that you think helps you with your problem,do it'' so... i have sex with my eight year old sister. i know its gross but she sometimes enjoys it she told me. and .... i really need help because i told my girlfriend about it and she wants nothing to do with me now. if i tell my parents i will be banned from the house for sure. Fucking my little sister just...takes away all the pain and brings the pleasure. This took a lot of guts to tell you. Whoever you are. And whoever else reads this... so i will leave my name as anonomous. thank you. please try to help me with my problem.
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Okay, that is kind of odd, in a...weird way... It is kinda unbeileivable, but im not mean, so I won't make fun of you. Maybe you shoulda tried having sex with "Jen" before your little sister. That has got to be crazy. She is eight years old, I mean, she has only known tha difference between boys and girls for like, 3 years. That is really weird.. I'm sorry for being mean, but it is. And I know that probably took a lot of guts to say, but you need to resort to something else. Jacking off, maybe? Finding a girlfriend, and NOT telling her about your freaky fetish... And try having sex with her after you guys get closer. you definently should sign up for baseball or something to take your mind off your little sis... =\ You need to become more involved, it will make you more friends, and I advise you don't tell them... I hope I could Help, and I apologize for being so mean... I'm freaked out. Good Luck!
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Q: i have really thick hair its about 4 inches below my shoulders...does anyone have any ideas about how to get it either curly or wavy?
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Alrighty. Scrunching is a good idea if you want really really hard hair. I don't like it when my hair feels like a bag of rocks, so I suggest either gettin a perm, or scrunching it without gel so it doesn't get hard. You can wear curlers overnight (they take forever to put in, i know) or can use large spiral curling irons to make your hair super curly. Most of this stuff is gonna cost money, but good luck. =)
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Q: hey, ive wanted to have sex for a while and ive had oppertunitys but the y just werent right. i dunnno whats wrong with me mayube its just that im scared? please help me out on this one.
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Okay, it's obvious that you didn't feel right all tha times you had a chance to have sex. And that's 100% okay... You don't have to be ready. Your brain wants you to have sex, but your body is telling you no... It happens. Before I had sex tha first time, I had one oppurtunity that I turned down. I told the guy exactly how I felt and we waited a while... You need to set an environment where you aren't scared of parental interference, and make sure you have a condom, and a boy that you feel safe having sex with. Don't just do it with anyone just to be doing it.
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Q: how do u deal with your parents judge your friends but they go to far with it.like i have a friend who has gone thru some problems but they are gone now but yet they dont let me even see her or talk to her or nething i dont understand n they are like ruining my life cuz she is the only one i have EVER been able to talk to u or hang wit what do i do they judge my friends n go way to far with it
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You should let your parents know how you feel. Let them know that you understand their concern, and that you don't wanna judge their parenting, but that you really like this friend and they shouldn't stop you from hanging out with her... I mean, unless your parents think she has caused problems for you (such as low grades since you started hanging out, addictions to drugs or alcohol, bad or illegal behavior, rude/no manners) If your parents think that this friend has changed you in a negative way, then they are going to insist you don't hang out, and maybe you should look for a new friend (sucks, I know)
But if they have no reason but their own personal dislike for your friend, then they should understand that you have tha ability to choose your own friends... Let them know that you want them to give your friend another chance. Good Luck! =)
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Q: Hey!! Ok My best friend like getz jelous or mad or sumin wen i hang out with other ppl and stuff n she fights wit my bf like sayin we should be tighter n that me n her should hang out more than me and my bf but i think thats tru 2 a point but wenever i do sumin wit sum1 that doesnt have her in it but she leaves me out sumtimes but i dont say nuttin so wut should i do??
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You called her your best friend. Which mean you concider her to be tha best friend you have. So let her know that your her best friend and that all your other friends do mean a lot to you, but not as much as she does. Let her know that sometimes you do need your space, and point out to her that she does things with other people too. Don't let it start a fight, because you don't wanna grow even MORE apart because of tha situation. Let your boyfriend know wuts going on, and try to have him give her advice like "calm down, she still loves you as her best friend" She needs to have more confidence in your relationship, and maybe you need to try to include her in a few more of your activities. Hope i could help! =)
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Q: I've been goin out with this guy for about a year now. We both really like each other and I believe it could be love (I'm 18)... we've talked about having sex, we're both virgins and he told me he's ready to have sex with me and wouldn't push me if I wasn't (and he hasn't pushed me at all)... but I don't really know if I am or aren't... so how can I tell for sure if I'm ready?!
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It seems like you really like this guy. If you and this guy have talked about sex, you should know whether or not this guy is only in it for sex. Which, from wut you have written, doesn't seem to be tha case. You only have one chance to lose your virginity, so really, all you need to know is if you feel comfortable losing your virginity to this guy... Make sure that you aren't making a mistake before having sex... And really, that's the only way to tell. Your level of comfort is really all that matters. Good Luck! =)
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Q: well, i always flat iron my hair. it takes foreverrr..but anyway, i live in GA ..so its really hot and humid here, during the summer monthes especially. soo my hair always frizzes up and gets kinda wavy. any suggestions on how to keep it stick straight all day long..thanks=D!
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Okay... My mom's best friend works at Hair Cuttery, so I know a lot about hair products. I have a few different really good frizz control products from there. They are a little pricy, usually from $10.00-$18.00... The two that I use for my thick, wavy hair are: Bed Head's "Control Freak" It's Serum 3 "Frizz Control and Straightener" And the other one is Redken's "Styling Number 5 Straight" hair straightening balm. These both work before and after you flat iron hair, and help to reduce heat damage to your hair. Good luck! =)
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Q: um calves...the muscles in the back of ur lower leg...mine r gettin hard to stretch and i have bad knees....how accn i stretch them better...thanx!!
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Okay, well for a simple warmup for that part of your leg you need a family member/friend and a wall. You lean with your back to tha wall and have a friend hold tha heal of your foot. Then they bring it up little by little and you push as hard as you can with your leg muscles. It really helped me for cheerleading preperation. Hope I could help! =)
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Q: okay... i've been pondering this for a very long time now... say that you've been going out with a guy for a while and he's a year older than you... say when you met you were 16 and he was 17... when he turns 18 and you're 17 and you have sex... why would it be illegal? i mean it's not like he's 32 and you're 17... i really don't see anything wrong with that... also if you've had sex with the guy before like while you were 16 and he was 17 it would seem really stupid to not have sex for a year until the other person becomes legal... i'm sorry if this is confusing but i've always wondered
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It is stupid. There are lots of sex laws because sex is taken VERY seriously. If the person you are having sex with is 3 years or older than you, or over tha age of 18, it is ILLEGAL to have sex. Make sure you and this guy are as close as you think before continuing to have sex, because you could get him in a lot of trouble. I hope I could help.
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I am 13 years old, and I live with my mother and stepdad. I have a complicated family life with my father, and I have a love life that you probably can't relate too. But I've been through a lot, and I wanna help other people get through their issues too! Rate me well! =)
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Info
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E-mail: Gender: Female Member Since: August 6, 2004 Answers: 21 Last Update: August 13, 2004 Visitors: 1572
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