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Best friend and ex boyfriend
Im 16 and My 16 year old Best friend is in love with my 16 year old ex boyfriend im pass the stage of you cant get with your best friends ex boyfriend, my problim is she really likes him she is like obsessed but he dont like her well he thought he might of but now he says he dont cuz she is inscure but they both ask me what they should do like he says should i just go out with her even thought i dont like her and she asks what can i do to get him to go out with me and then im left in the middle and my ex is also one of my best friends now so i dont really want to pick sides but i want them both to be happy i really am kinda sick of this situation help me please!
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OK so you ex bf dont like her tell him NO way do you dare go out with my best friend if you dont like her that would hurt her...It would hurt her bc for 1 he dont like her and 2 you knew he didnt like her but you let him go ask her out neways...as for your best friend if she was such your best friend she had to not be mad at you if you tell her your ex dont like her...if she gets mad thats her problem bc you were just trying to help her so she dont get hurt...
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You should let them know that you don't wanna be in tha middle of it. let them know that they are both your best friends and that its hard for you to be in tha middle because you don't want either one of your friends to get hurt. Tell them that they need to talk to eachother about their relationship and stop puttin you in tha middle. Good Luck! =)
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you just need to tell both of them the truth its sad but true.
~Shelbynicole
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i think you should tell them to tell eachother how they feel and and you should tell the guy to give her another chance because everyone should get another chance... and if anything happens it isnt your fault you did all you could to
-hope i helped shortstash
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just tell them u dont want to be in the middle, u love them both but u dont wanna deal with thier drama
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well first off your ex shouldn't ask her out if he doesnt like her. thats just gunna make her all upset when she finds out, and then even more when she knows that you knew. if i were you i would just tell them both that you dont wanna be in it cause you dont wanna loose either friend. Also let them know they need to talk about it with eachother.. then see what happens.. good luck!
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if he just goes out with her even when he dont like her i think she would be so mad at him and that would make it easier for her to forget about him dont you think i cant believe he would ask you if he should go out with her even when he dont like her unless he really does but dont want her or anyone to know because hes ashamed or something of her
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Well tell ur gurl best friend that if she really likes him to aproache him herself. You dont like being in the middle so refuse to be. Be like talk to each other not me.
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if he doesn't want to go out with then don't make him. just tell him to tell her that he's not interested. she may be crushed but she'll get over it. everybody who has that happen to them has gotten over it and found a new boy.
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Your ex shouldn`t go out with your friend if he doesn`t like her. In the long run, that will only hurt her more. Maybe you can tell your friend that he wants to get to know her really good before he commits to a relationship.
.::Megan::.
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Well if your ex doesn't want to go out with her then he shouldn't, he can't force himself to like her or anything. You should just have him tell her that he doesn't like her that way,that he only wants to be friends with her. It will make her upset but at least she'll know the truth =/
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