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Jelous Friends
Hey!! Ok My best friend like getz jelous or mad or sumin wen i hang out with other ppl and stuff n she fights wit my bf like sayin we should be tighter n that me n her should hang out more than me and my bf but i think thats tru 2 a point but wenever i do sumin wit sum1 that doesnt have her in it but she leaves me out sumtimes but i dont say nuttin so wut should i do??
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You called her your best friend. Which mean you concider her to be tha best friend you have. So let her know that your her best friend and that all your other friends do mean a lot to you, but not as much as she does. Let her know that sometimes you do need your space, and point out to her that she does things with other people too. Don't let it start a fight, because you don't wanna grow even MORE apart because of tha situation. Let your boyfriend know wuts going on, and try to have him give her advice like "calm down, she still loves you as her best friend" She needs to have more confidence in your relationship, and maybe you need to try to include her in a few more of your activities. Hope i could help! =)
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let her know. just because your best friends doesnt mean you have to do everything together you need some space. I mean wut fun will come if you two hangout 24/7 you have other friends and so does she you need to know that just because you hangout with other people doesnt mean you and her arent bestfriends and she shouldnt feel left out all the time hope i helped =)
xox christa<33
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..I think yall are just going thru a PhAsE..because ive had like 2 'BEST FRIENDS' in the past and i came to realize that we really wernet the best friends i thot we were.. But sometimes fighting b/w friends means u need time apart or u need more time together.. Just tell ure bestfriend where u stand n how u feel and how she makes u feel....!!...Dont let her boss u around either ..u are ure on person!
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i think you should talk to her about it... also tell her how rude it is on how to comment on you and your boyfriend. if you 2 are happy together than thats all that matters! she shouldn't be telling you how to do things in YOUR relationship. also try and hangout with her a little more... maybe she'll calm down. i'd say since she leaves you out too she has no right to complain. point this out to her. if things don't improve or only get worse i'd say it's time for a new best friend.
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Having a best friend, is having a "serious relationship". I know it sounds weird but its true. You label someone as your best friend because that person is someone you can confide in, someone you trust with your secrets, someone who will always be there for you no matter what. But just like when you are in a serious relationship with a boyfriend, you need a little space. And if she has issues with this, then she needs to know that she is not acting like a best friend. She might feel left out but you said that she does stuff without you also so why is she making such a big deal about it? Talk to her. Tell how you feel about it. Hopefully, as your best friend, she will understand
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Is she really your best friend if she dosnt want you to be happy wiht your boyfriend? I think shes jelouse that you have a boyfirned and that all your time isnt dedicated to her anymore
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