Is it considered "dorky" to roll jeans that are a little short into capris? or should I just cut them? Thanks
nahh its not dorky ive done it before i think looks better than cutting them anyways
xoxo christa
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i cut myself a lot just to make the pain go away and i told one person and they told me to tell my parent but i dont want to i wanna stop but i cant its just hard i need help can someone tell me wat to do please
cutting yourself means your depressed and your trying to get rid of those feelings by doing this. you should talk about your problems with someone maybe that person who you told about the cutting and they can tlk to you about your problems and when you think of cutting yourself do something you like , like a hobby or something or wear a rubberband and whenever you feel pain and you need to cut just snap the band
xoxo christa
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hi. im 5'5 n 1/2 or something like that and i weigh 103 pounds and i know that im skinny but i want to lose weight. should i? do u think i might have an eating disorder?
those signs point out that you are very conscious about your body and usually people at your height weigh more so dont even worry about losing weight just stay healthy and youll never have any problems.
xoxo christa
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i need help...fast!my ex bf is coming to my soccer tournament on sunday.i still really like him. i wanna tell him but i dont know how. i wanna ask if he wants to give us another chance. but i dont know how. please help me. i need to tell him and i reaaaaly wanna get back w/ him.
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well does he show any feelings for you? and if hes coming out to watch you play soccer thats a plus and shows he still wants to spend time with you so i dont think theres anything wrong with telling him how you feel you never know what mite happenn ;) but in the end it all comes up to what you think you should do. goodluck and hope i helped xoxo christa
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ok well i like this person alot and the person likes me alot...and well today i was talking to my friend at a chat room and the person that i like alot and who likes me was there too...and i asked my friend to ask the person i like this, if she were to ask u out what would u say? and so my friend asked the person that and my friend told me that the person said that i would say yes...so im thinking should i ask the person out or should i not and wait for the person to ask me??????plz help fast!ill rate u for this!
well it all depends on "you". You both like eachother so you should definitly go out it all dpeends on wether u thinksits more appropriate for the guy to ask the girl? idk its all up to you but if you dont wanna take any chances and risk anything than just do it urself cuz it really shouldnt matter who asks who if you both like eachother. hope i helped=) and good luck in the future xoxo christa
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my aunts best friend had a son and they ALL told me i would like her son and we emindently hit it off!! hes got BABY BLUE eyes and hes gergous!! the prob is ...hes really short im 5'2 and hes a head shorter then me!! we went to an amusement park and it was kinda embarassing to be seen with him!! but then again i wanted to b near him n stuff and im having mixed feelings!! hes the sweetest guy ever and we wentt o my other aunts house for dinner and we wer playin like tackle football hes just soo nice im not afraid to b myself around him i really like him but idk...shuld i juss not kare wat ppl think? i really like him but its kinda embarassing....idk..it sounds mean but ya i need help
dont worry about it. I have gone out with plenty of guys shorter than me and its not a problem when u really like them thats ur leat worries. As long as you have a good time and can be urself you shoudlnt havta worry and what people think should bother you because ur the one with the feelings for him not them. hope ive helped =)
xoxo christa
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okay i need help there is thiiis super fine gurl and she flirts with me i mean bendin over huggin kissin and were good friends. im scared to make the move cause she might say no and end our friendship or she might say yes and that would be great wat do i do
well what you have to do is be open with her she shouldnt end the friendship because she is the one giving you these mixed signals. talk to her let her know how you feel and ask her how she feels because you are unsure by the way shes acting and always remind that whatever happens you never wanna ruin your friendship with her
goodluck in the future
xox christa
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Im think im soooo fat and no matter what I do nothing seems to work. Im 105 pounds 5'1 and 13 years old. isn't that really really over weight?? any ideas what i can do to loose weight before school starts?!
ARE YOU CRAZY? weight should not even be an issue your worrying about im 14 and im around the same height and weigh around that amount. The weight you are right now is perfect for you age and height just stay healthy and youll have nothing to worry about in the future
xox christa
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ok thers this girl that i like and she says that she wants to have sex with me but she is allways saying that but it never happens i would love to have sex with her and i love her alot but she is just shy. is there any way i can make her not as shy? 14/m
she might like you alot becaus ei know i get shy around guys i like. another thing is she is prob scared that if she refuses sex with you than you might break up with her. Show her you care about her and really have feelings for her and it might ease the tension between you two. goodluck and hope i helped =)
xox christa
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Hey!! Ok My best friend like getz jelous or mad or sumin wen i hang out with other ppl and stuff n she fights wit my bf like sayin we should be tighter n that me n her should hang out more than me and my bf but i think thats tru 2 a point but wenever i do sumin wit sum1 that doesnt have her in it but she leaves me out sumtimes but i dont say nuttin so wut should i do??
let her know. just because your best friends doesnt mean you have to do everything together you need some space. I mean wut fun will come if you two hangout 24/7 you have other friends and so does she you need to know that just because you hangout with other people doesnt mean you and her arent bestfriends and she shouldnt feel left out all the time hope i helped =)
xox christa
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I was at a party and i started to really flirt with this kid and he responded and everything went ok...then someone told me that everyone thought i liked him so i stopped flirting right away, but he started asking me questions about who i liked and he started telling me about his g/f and what's wrong with her. He asked me if i dance and i said yes, then he started trying to do like splits and different dance steps. Everyone started to think he liked me...do you think thats true or was he just being nice?
hmm i think he might have a crush ;) you never know with guys though, they can be very confusing. well do you have any feelings for him? and dont hold back if you have a good time around him dont let other peopls opinions change that and if you really start to feel that he likes you ask him and let him know hes been giving you mixed signals you never know wut can happen in the future =) good luck
xoxo christa
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this year for clothes i'm really on a budget. where are places i can get cheap, but cute clothes?? not old navy, i'm sick of it. also, where are cheap places to get tight jeans??
the best place for cheap and nice close and tight jeans would definitly havta be forever 21. all their clothes are nice and just the same as for say abercrombie or hollister but cheap enough for people to buy. Try going there and seeing what you can find you never knoww =)
xoxo christa
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Hey...I'm just starting the 9th grade..and it sux! Last year I had SO many friends and people I knew in my classes and alot of people knew me...but they split the middle schools into 2 different highschools..and this year there is like NO ONE I know in my classes and at lunch! I can be a really friendly person but I'm really shy and just can't seem to make any new friends? Please Help..
hey im dealing with just the same problem. I went to public school for middle school ando now going into 9th im one of the only few people of my friends going to catholic school. I am very nervous about starting not knowing anybody but just be yourself dont hold back let people know the real you and im sure youll make plenty of friends . Dont be shy start up a conversation with someone. By being yourself you can only gain more friends than you have .. hope i helped =)
xoxo christa
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Hey, I feel really stupid asking this question..But I have been having a hard time trying not to cut myself. I've been trying to find other ways to cop with it and I picked a bad way to to it by taking pills. Does anyone out there know any ways to deal with it? Is there somthing I can do to take it off my mind?? I'm already seeing a theripst and it doesnt help it all. If there is any advice u can give me I would really appreicate it! -Jenny
I had a friend who has tried cutting herself. Just when your feeling depressed dont come to that do something so cutting and pills wont come to your mind try talking to a friend thats very helpful or listen to any type of music you like to ease your mind . Also whatever hobbies/interests you have do one of those to take your mind off of things because cutting and pills may ease the pain you are feeling at the moment buts its just temporary and not good for you. hope i helped=)
xoxo christa
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my name is Alanna(girl)and i am 14 years old. I havent had a boyfriend in a while;i have had offers, but i feel like guys only like girls with good looks. how can i feel like guys like me for the right reasons?
Its hard to know what they like you for but you wont find out anything unless you take a chance. give one of these guys a chance and how they treat you shows why they like you . Any guy that treats you good and shows he cares likes you for the right reasons and not just your looks
hope i helped =)
xoxo christa
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Ihave areally hard time falling asleep at night night. Iget all nervous about murderer's breaking in, and it really scares me! I know thiz soundz childish, but does anyone have any advice on how to fall asleep quicker and it would help if you had advice on how to be calmer and not think every little noise in the night is someone breaking in.
haha thats not childish at all i feel that way all the time. Wut i do is i try to think of something good that happened during the day to get my mind off the noises which is usually just ur mind playing tricks on you. Just know that if you have an alarm? it would have gone off and that if everyone else is safely sleeping in their bed so shud u =) hope i helped
xoxo christa
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i have a boyfriend whom i really love we been goin out for 2 years .. my friend who likes me says my boyfriend is thinking about breakin up with me.. im not sure if he is just saying that so maybe i would break up with him first and he could ask me out or if it is really true.. my b/f has been acting really weird and said he "dno" if he likes me as much as he used to! i have no idea what to do!! help =( i love him
well any guy you go out with should know if they like you or not otherwise their not worth your time. but if this is really confusing you than the only other option you have is to talk to your boyfriend it may not be easy but it will clear things up and hopeuflly make it easier even if things have to end but its better than wasting your time goodluck=)
xoxo christa
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