ok thers this girl that i like and she says that she wants to have sex with me but she is allways saying that but it never happens i would love to have sex with her and i love her alot but she is just shy. is there any way i can make her not as shy? 14/m
soccachick432 answered Friday August 6 2004, 1:13 am: she might like you alot becaus ei know i get shy around guys i like. another thing is she is prob scared that if she refuses sex with you than you might break up with her. Show her you care about her and really have feelings for her and it might ease the tension between you two. goodluck and hope i helped =)
xox christa<33 [ soccachick432's advice column | Ask soccachick432 A Question ]
Thickbabyie4u answered Thursday August 5 2004, 5:58 pm: HOLD IT UP SON! Yall are toooooooooooooo young to be having sex! But it's your life and you do what you want! But all I gotta say is use protection plz! You dun need to be a 14 yr old baby daddy cause I see it all the time! But you have to wait till she's comfy and ready to do it...she may be scared you jux never know. This is a psychological (if that's how spell it) matter. It's somthing you have to be know that you/she is ready for. Well I hope you make the right decision! God Bless! Beebyes! ~1ne~ [ Thickbabyie4u's advice column | Ask Thickbabyie4u A Question ]
BeezKneez answered Thursday August 5 2004, 4:33 pm: Woah... I would like 2 point out that ur only 14 yrs old first of all and prolly shouldn't be having sex. Anyways... she prolly just isn't ready, or she's having her doubts about having sex. Make sure that u guys have trus tin one another and then she'll prolly feel more comfortable w/ it. Be careful tho, u don't wanna do sumthin that ur gonna regret later. [ BeezKneez's advice column | Ask BeezKneez A Question ]
IHeartMulletz answered Thursday August 5 2004, 4:06 pm: You are WAY too young to be having sex. Plus ~ You don't even sound as if you care about her that much. Yall aren't even together or anything. She sounds like just some random girl. And if she is so shy, then why is she wanting to have sex anyway? Weird. [ IHeartMulletz's advice column | Ask IHeartMulletz A Question ]
NicoleMarie answered Thursday August 5 2004, 3:11 pm: 14 is pretty young but a common age to start having sex. Is she a virgin? If she is, than give it time. She probably loves you but is nervous as well. Plus, for a girl, having sex for the first time hurts. Start with the simple things like four play. Anytime she asks you to stop..then stop. Eventually she will feel comfortable and ready. Just be gentle ok? [ NicoleMarie's advice column | Ask NicoleMarie A Question ]
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