my aunts best friend had a son and they ALL told me i would like her son and we emindently hit it off!! hes got BABY BLUE eyes and hes gergous!! the prob is ...hes really short im 5'2 and hes a head shorter then me!! we went to an amusement park and it was kinda embarassing to be seen with him!! but then again i wanted to b near him n stuff and im having mixed feelings!! hes the sweetest guy ever and we wentt o my other aunts house for dinner and we wer playin like tackle football hes just soo nice im not afraid to b myself around him i really like him but idk...shuld i juss not kare wat ppl think? i really like him but its kinda embarassing....idk..it sounds mean but ya i need help
Lena answered Saturday August 7 2004, 3:55 am: hey! i would love to have him! haha, who cares if hes short! he just hasnt hit his growth spirt yet! dont worry about it.. you would have the greatest guy in the world so.. why not? [ Lena's advice column | Ask Lena A Question ]
Fallin2Pieces answered Saturday August 7 2004, 1:43 am: Don't worry about it. I used to go out with a kid that was more than a a head shorter than me. Of course I dumped him for that reason, but then again I was 13 and I didn't know what I was doing, no offense. Well anyways, Don't worry about it, you shouldn't care what people think. He'll eventually grow, I promise. For now, don't sweat it. If you both like eachother, then I say totally go for it. - Fallin2Pieces. [ Fallin2Pieces's advice column | Ask Fallin2Pieces A Question ]
soccachick432 answered Saturday August 7 2004, 1:18 am: dont worry about it. I have gone out with plenty of guys shorter than me and its not a problem when u really like them thats ur leat worries. As long as you have a good time and can be urself you shoudlnt havta worry and what people think should bother you because ur the one with the feelings for him not them. hope ive helped =)
xoxo christa<3 [ soccachick432's advice column | Ask soccachick432 A Question ]
x1gangstababy1x answered Saturday August 7 2004, 12:29 am: i think u shouldnt even care about wat people think if u like him then like him dont even think about the shortness just be wit him if u like him then be wit him becuz u might not find another guy like him [ x1gangstababy1x's advice column | Ask x1gangstababy1x A Question ]
CheapChineseFood answered Saturday August 7 2004, 12:13 am: *smiles* I think you already know the answer to what you just asked, you just want to be reassured.
1. It's not really that weird. Girls GO out with shorter guys. It's a fact of life. Seriously, when the time comes, are you going to turn down your soulmate because...Ummm *ahem* Dude...I'm sorry but you're an inch shorter than me. It's not realistic that every guy is tall and beautiful. So on that note, fuck weirdness...break stereotypes, and just go for it.
2. Why are you embarressed? He is absolutely gorgeous, correct? And you shouldn't care nearly so much what people think. Yes, it is normal to care what people think but not THAT much. Focus more on what YOU think about him, rather than what others think. THEY aren't with him are they? THEY don't deal with him, do they? Yeah, it's different to see a girl taller than the guy she's with. But everything's different,when you really and truly think about it.
So my final words are, care about what YOU think. Because that's all you have at the end of the day.
anonymous_lil_me answered Saturday August 7 2004, 12:11 am: It shouldn't matter if he's shorter than you! If you like him and you guys get along really well, there's no problem. Don't listen to other people's opinions, it only matters how you feel. If you feel that its too embarrassing, then don't go out with him. Nothing should stand in the way of you two if you like eachother. hope i helped xo [ anonymous_lil_me's advice column | Ask anonymous_lil_me A Question ]
applescruff answered Saturday August 7 2004, 12:11 am: I think that if you like everything about him and if the two of you really hit it off, you should just go for it and not really care what people think. Sometimes if you want to be happy, that's what you have to do. He sounds great and it's good that you aren't afraid to be yourself around him. I think that if I were you, I'd rather have a boyfriend who was shorter than me but a great guy than someone with a height that didn't bother me but who wasn't anything special. Also, I don't know how old the two of you are, but depending on your age he might just still have some growing left to do! Who knows, he could even end up beign taller than you in a matter of time. Basically I say you've got something good here so don't give it up! [ applescruff's advice column | Ask applescruff A Question ]
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