hello. a friend told me when he stayed with his girlfriend over the weekend, they didnt have sex because it was " that time of the month ". i dont understand why u can`t. Can u explain for me?
Nick
Hey Nick,
You can have sex when it's "that time of the month", but some girls don't feel confortable doing it then. I mean some couples don't mind and others do. Everyone has their own opinion when it comes to situations like that. It's all up to you. - Fallin2Pieces
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when ever i talk to a boy, i always talk to them as a friend. when ever i try to flirt i cant. how can i flirt more. what should i say?
Everyone has their own flirting technique, some better than others, but it's all up too you for the most part. Unless you know you like that guy who you are "flirting with", it's not going to work quite as well. Try making a lot of eye contact, smiling a lot. Laugh at the "funny" things he says. You can always try the teasing approach. That can work, but try not too go overboard, because it can get annoying if you do it too much. Try randomly passing notes in class to him, or saying "aww you're so cute" after he says something silly or does something cute. You can flirt in so many different ways, but if your way does not seem to work, then give these a try. - Fallin2Pieces
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sup chrissy
i'm not asking for advice or anything just saying hi since i dont see you too much online anymore...by the way...ur hott in that picture o.o! just wanted to thank u for giving me the confidence to go up to chix and hang around with them....gotta go later
Awww thanx for the compliment. And no need to thank me. It's all up to you, I'm just here to give suggestions. I'm glad things went smooth.- Fallin2Pieces
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wows. picture kicks high ;). anyways, i dont get why losing your virginity ( according to most females) is a big deal. your considered "tainted" if your not a virgin. i think thats complete bullshit, cause its the same idea with driving. once u get in a car and drive...u will never be able to say that u havent drivin a car. is it something emotionally built in women to think that way? i dont get it o.o blueflame :P
Well, sometimes times girls think differently about sex thanx guys. It's really not something you should do with like a zillion people to begin with. Girls have many reasons why they won't do it. It may not be a big deal when you do it, but think about what good happen afterwards, ya know? I mean sometimes guys like to "throw us away like trash" once you guys have sex with us. It's not a good feeling at all and theres also chances of getting pregnant and a many many other reasons. If your girlfriend or who ever does not want to have sex with you then just accept it. They might not be ready or don't want to. What ever the case maybe, relax... it will be ok.- Fallin2Pieces
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My friends going out with this guy who i'm not too sure is good for her, i just dont want her to get hurt.... why would someone go out with another person even when she knows that he's a player and that he's broken their heart before?
wow, who ever the fvk got into my advice thing needs to stop because you are being fucking immature and its retarted... anyway, maybe she doesn't want to let go and it's hard when you really like someone. It seems to me, she might still have feelings for this guy and she needs to see it for herself before she can let go. Just give her time. - Fallin2Pieces
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Im 15 and have been going out with this guy for over a week now. I thought i liked him at least in the beginning i did, and so i was happy when he asked me out. We talk on the phone every night, and we've hung out twice. But i told him i wanted to take things slow, and the two times we've seen each other outside of school weve been moving fast. I also feel like im always changing my schedule to see him outside of school because hes always with his friends. How can i tell him he needs to make adjustments to his life and tell him i want to slow things at the same time without overwhelming him and making him break up with me?
hmm... ask yourself "what am I doing?" and "Do I really want to live like this?". Usually when you are in a relationship you do change your regular schedule. The best thing to do is talk to him about it. Boys can be silly sometimes, but for the most part they will understand if you just explin to them what you are feeling. It's worth a try.
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what the hell is the point of life? you just get hurt over and over again... sometimes i don't understand why i can't just fast forward my life 10 years so i can see where i'll be..... who i'll be with if anyone.. ugh is this some nonsensical teenage facet in my life or am i just really fu*ked up?
boohoo get a grip
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well i'm 14 and i'm having trouble with myself...i doubt myself on certain occasions, i can't sleep at night because i'm always worrying about something or someone...i hear songs that bring back memories of girls i liked or people that i have lost. i lose my appetite and feel inconfident...i admire people and don't have the nerve to talk to them.
need guidance - insomniac
Hmmm, my guess is you maybe suffering from an acute case of depression, but then again I'm not a doctor. You might want to consult your doctor about that, just to be safe. You should never feel unconfident. Girls dig confidence. A lot of people admire a certain someone and feel nervous to even talk to them, or even go near them. It is normal. My motto is, "If you don't like something about your self, then fix it." - Fallin2Pieces
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this is getting soo messed up. i need your advice again chrissy. she called me back surprisingly (2 fucking days after she said she would lol)but she told me she might be moving in with her sister down here once her sister gets finacially back on her feet again even thought a month ago she said she would never wanna move to florida!?!?!oookay. she asked me how i am doing and out of no where she says "oh i cant wait to come down and visit you and see your room" ... my room ? its like. the fuck with me shed rather see my room.but then she starts to talk like shes flurting with me. i am confused. i think i need some crack t be with her lol. i still hold up my offer for you to come down here for a spankin!!!:)oh and i can handle it!! help meeeee!
Hey sweetie,
Well if she's moving there then that could be a good thing, right? You can hang out more. If you are having so many difficulties with her then maybe she isn't really the one for you, just think about it. You like her a lot, but everytime you turn around you get hurt. Are you willing to put up with everything? Is it really worth it? If you can't have a relationship like that, then just think, there are more fish in the sea. - Fallin2Pieces
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i am 13 years old. i stay after scool for extra help but my teacher, Mr. Guerera touches me. Like he bumps into me sometimes and i feel him touching my boobs and stuff. He is a really hot teacher but a little old for a girl my age. On time he pulled the shades down and asked me to play with him, I was soo scared soo i ran out the door. I kinda like the attention though cause i mean no other guys like me. One time when i was flirting he said look under the table and there was his latino dick. i wanted to suck it. i really wanna do something with him but will i get in trouble? i dont kno what to do!
You should report him A.S.A.P. It is not appropriate for teachers to act like that towards a student. If someone finds out, You'll have the worst repuation, so if I were you I would report him. -Fallin2Pieces
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i am really stuck chrissy. i like this girl.. shes a few months older than me, but im not sure what the hell is wrong with her!? for instence some days she will want to talk to me but other days she gives me the impression like she hates me. i dont know what draws me to her but i cant seem to forget a bout her. i call her and have a desently long conversation and she says she will call me bak but she never does!? im mean whats up with that. she did that to me like 5 times. ugh i am confused. sumtimes i wonder if i should just have you come to my house and bend you over my lap and spank you. haha jk any suggestions? being a female yourself maybe you can understand her? thx
Girls can be confusing, but then again boys can be too heehee. Well anyways, with the not calling back thing, maybe she's really busy. You never know, now since school has started and everything maybe she has been busy. Ok I don't want to put you down or anything, but maybe she just likes you as a friend. Does she even know you like her? Find out how she feels about you. If you know any of her freinds, then find out what she thinks of you. If worse comes to worse, just tell her yourself. Girls like guys that "in touch with their feelings", I guess? Sweetie, I'd say talk to her about how you are feeling right now, but try to plan out what you might want to say, cause some girls are easily offended for some reason. Try asking what she has been up to and stuff like that and then add in there about how you feel about her, but don't be too forward about it. If you need further advice, just let me know. Also,you want to spank me? I don't think you'll be able to handle it ; ) lol jk. -Fallin2Pieces
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Hey Chrissy. I have a problem i have this friend and he always use to call me and he called hymself my little brother cuz he is a year younger than me..buh anyways he came wit me on my 15th birthday paintballin for the first time and we like hung out and stuff and he was soo totally cool like one of my best friends aftr that day he didnt call me as much and eventually didnt call me at all and i was beginning to wonder what happened to hym and so i IMed hym cuz he was one and he flipped out on me sayd dont talk to me i hate you your such a bitch and all this stuff i got really upset and then a few weeks latr he IMed me and was like hey how come you dont IM me anymore..i became really confused so i started talkin to hym again and stuff then when i saw hym i was like how come you dont call me or talk to to me as much as you did..he told me he didnt have my #...and then showed me..and my # wasnt in his fone..he deleted it..that made me mad i text hym and told hym that im not gunna be the person he talks to when he's bored and that if thats what he needed/wanted then to go find someone else....i havent tlak to hym since that night and i feel almost incomplete..i dont kno if i shood talk to hym again or just go on wit my life...HELP! PLEAASE
Well there is a possiblility that his freinds could have been messing around with you and told you all these things, but then again maybe not. If you really like him then talk about it with him and tell him what he told you really hurt you and that is why you haven't called him, but if you are always going to be the "fall back friend" then don't even bother. Just talk to him and if he acts like asshole about the whole thing then don't even worry about it. -Fallin2Pieces
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Hey I'm 14/m and i still haven't ever kissed a girl outside my family.... I feel kinda out of place here because I'm already in high school and ive never kissed.... is there something wrong with me?
It's ok. There is nothing wrong with you. I have freinds that are older than you who haven't had there first kiss yet. These things come at different times. Nowadays, teenagers are in such a rush to grow up and just because you aren't at there "level" doesn't mean there is something wrong with you. People can get there first kiss at any age. It is just the matter of timing. Just relax, you'll find the right girl to kiss. Maybe sooner than you think...-Fallin2Pieces
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Okay...There's this guy that likes me at school. And he's really short well for me anyway because im 5'4 right now. He doesn't bother me at all, but it's his friends. All they do is say things like "Will you go out with him, do you like him, he's in love with you!!". I wouldn't have any trouble with it if they didn't harass me every minute. It's just so distracting because now every time a guy asked me if i like him i scream, "NO I DONT GO THE F- AWAY!" or something real close to it. Im at the end of the rope because it's been happening for osme time now and i cant seem to know what to do! please help me!!! thank you
signed,
stressed out!
Alright, it doesn't matter how tall he is because he'll eventually grow just not now. If you like him to then go out with him, dispite what all his freinds say. If you don't like him then just get on with your life. If his freinds say anything to you just engore it or just go with it or be sarcastic about it then they will eventually stop. That's how some people are. No matter where you go someone is going to say something about you for some odd reason. Just go on with your life and don't let it get to you. It's not worth getting upset over. - Fallin2Pieces
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Ok I was having a convo online with a person i adore and I had my BEST friend EVER over.. I asked him if he liked me as a friend."Hell no" If he was my friends "HELL ya"She asked him Who would he rather go out with (My friend Only likes him as a friend..)He said Tori My friend..
She asked him who was prettyer ME ! But he HATES me Not just a little hate i mean HATE..I dont know what i should say to him ! :(
EWWW... forget him! Don't even bother. It's not worth it. If he's going to sit there and tell you how much he hates then don't let him waste your time.- Fallin2pieces
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okay see my boyfriend lives in georgia and i live in new jersey he so far away... im 13 and he turning15 ... we like each other so much but no one really aproves since we met on the computer and he lives in georgia .. we wanna meet but its a lil hassle ... wat should i do... should i stay with him and meet him or wat?
Ok, I'll admit that there are many very sexy kids in Georgia, but there are a lot in New Jersey, too. You're young, and long distance and teen love, |usually| doesn't last. I'd say, look for a guy that lives around you, but if you really feel like he is worth meeting, then I'd go for it. - Fallin2Pieces
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ok well i cut and stuff but i really want to tell my mom about it because i meen i want to get help but i just was wondering like how could i like talk to her about it? me and my mom are like really close and stuff but i think it would like kill her! should i tell her or no?
I would tell her A.S.A.P. She may get up set, but think of it this way, it will hurt her more if you don't.- Fallin2Pieces
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well here it goes i liked this kid and we started goin out on june 18th i think and we broke up recently...well he was on the fone with me n his best friend grabbed the fone and started dumpin me 4 him and im like ok i got ova it i mean i cryed 4 a good week or longer and im like y did he do that and hes like it wasnt all his fault and im like ok? but ne ways mi friends didnt really like him kinda chubby...but so sweet to me and im havin trouble getting ova him plz help me mi friends think im ova him and everything but i mean i dont wanna make them stress out all 4 me bcuz of him plz help ill rate u Signed brokenhart
A break up is always hard, but getting over them is even harder...it takes time. Try to do things that will take your mind off of him, like going out with your freinds, or doing the things you couldn't do while going out with your boyfriend. Don't worry, you'll eventually get over him, and you'll look and realize that he was never worth the stress. In the mean time, I would recommend the song "Rapid Hope Loss" by Dashboard Confessional. - Fallin2Pieces
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My parents just told me they might be getting a divorce. I'm devistated. If they got a divorce, nothing would ever be the same again. Help!
My parents are divorced to. You're right, nothing will be the same, but just remember they both love you and it's not your fault. My parents have been divorced for 7 years and it still kills me, but everything happens for a reason. After a while, you'll get use to it. It's not that bad, everything will be ok.- Fallin2Pieces
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hello. i'm 13 and my parents are divorced. they have been ever sice i was 6 years old. and my dad just remarried a really AWFUL woman! they just had there 1st anniversary. her son is CONSTNTLY making fun of me and my dad just says "deal with it" its taunting a bull at school would do. well to cut to the chase, my mom still had my dads last name and just changed it today. i feel so different now it really makes me sad. i feel like i'm closer to my stepmom than i am her. please help. all answers will be rated a 5 for effort! :`(
My parents are divorce to and it's really hard. If I were you, I would try to talk to your stepmom about it. I know that maybe hard and uncommfortable, but you don't have that many options. Also try talking to your mom about it. You can also try, telling your stepbrother to go F*ck off and if he tells on you then that's when you can sit down with everyone and let them know whats going on. I would also recommend your school guidence counsler, if they don't listen to you. Let me know if you have any more questions- Fallin2Pieces.
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