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far away friend
okay see my boyfriend lives in georgia and i live in new jersey he so far away... im 13 and he turning15 ... we like each other so much but no one really aproves since we met on the computer and he lives in georgia .. we wanna meet but its a lil hassle ... wat should i do... should i stay with him and meet him or wat?
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Well its always good to meet ur boyfriend in time but if ur only 13 and their is no possible way to meet him maybe u should end it because it wouldnt be fair to either of you well n e wayz give it some thought..
..*Cassandra*..
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humm long term relationships are always a tuffy...i would stay with him for now and if you find anyone you like where you are keep an eye out for em and if you see one you really like break the new to the other guy. its not cheating so your safe but just make sure not you kiss a guy when you find one better then the online one im sure you will find a good cutie where you live.
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Since you've never really met and never talked to him besides on the internet, how do you know who he says he is? He could be making this whole life up and lying to you every time you talk to him and you would never know. I suggest not meeting with him. Stay safe! You never know who you would be meeting with and it could have horrific consequences. It would be extremely difficult to meet even if he was who he said he was. I suggest telling him you would like to stay online friends but nothing more and focus your romantic efforts on someone you can see that is closer to home.
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hmm, well i dunno if thats the safest thing to do. like seriously, how many girls do you hear about that get raped by some losers they met online. and of course you've probably talked on the phone and stuff, blah blah blah, but that doesn't really mean anything, because that could be a phoney vocie, and he could be like 40 years old or something.
but if your ABSOLUTELY certain he's who he says he is, then maintain the relationship you have, and make him come to you. and go with someone.
hope i helped . . .
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This isn't what you wanna hear sweetie,I know....but I think it's time to put this to a stop.Long-distance relationships are so tough at ANY age,much less at your age!Plus,you met this guy on the computer.As much as you think you know about him,you really truly don't.You don't see him every day at school or in the neighborhood to see how he interacts with other people,and how he behaves in general!If the guy lived closer to you,I might say meet up with him but bring friends and have him bring friends,and meet in a public place like the mall.But this is a long distance.You're so young hunnie,you've got a long time of dating and a lot of dating experiences ahead of you.I feel sure you can find a good guy at school or near you,someday!!I know you don't want to hear this hunnie,but believe me it's the truth,and it's for the best!! Best wishes sweetie!! :)
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Ok, I'll admit that there are many very sexy kids in Georgia, but there are a lot in New Jersey, too. You're young, and long distance and teen love, |usually| doesn't last. I'd say, look for a guy that lives around you, but if you really feel like he is worth meeting, then I'd go for it. - Fallin2Pieces
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Well, no one really likes anyone unless they really know them and ever thing about them. If you really want to meet him, go for it. Trust yourself. Mii sisters bf lives in a different state and she has been with him for like 8 months, and never met him..so it really just depends on the person..well, do what you think is best. Good luck hun!
MwUaHsz - Katie -
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If you really think he is worth it then hey go for it..but you are still young and im sure there are plenty of boys in your own area why go throught all that trouble ? i think that u should drop it u still have plenty of time to meet many other boys i think you'd be better off finding sumone new
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If he makes you happy then you should stay with him.Meet up with him if you can but go with a group of friends because you never know what can happen.Hope i helped and everything works out.
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noooo do NOT meet him!!! dont do it...get a guy that lives aruond u!!! so u can hang out with him all the time and stuff..computer relationships suck anyways, u cant ever see the person or kno what they ACTUALLY look like in real life and stuff...dont meet him. lol
*jesikuh
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Well first off. He SAYS he's 15. How do you know? He could be 50.
Internet dating is NOT safe. And since you're 13, you have years left to get boyfriends and all of that. I'm sure there are plenty of guys locally you could dat in New Jersey. Actually I'm VERY sure there are. I'm in New Jersey and I managed.
Plus. As you said. It's a hassle. Dude, you're young. Live and forget the hassles.
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Do you think he is worth the "hassle" if so then maybe see how things work out, but if not try and give it a break and see how things go
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i dont think its a good idea to meet people off of the internet. if you do though, then bring a parent or a well trusted friend. but being taht you guys are so young, and this is an internet relationship, you probbaly wont last anyway, so maybe you should see other people.
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