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hey im SaRa and im 15 im in 10th grade. things i like to do for fun do gymnastics or play my drums. i think i can help people out cause i have gone threw alot of drama in my life and ive handled alot of problems the right way i hope you think so too.

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ok so love this guy soo much! and he's one of my really good friends. i wanna tell him i like him more then a friend//but i dont know if i should cuz i dont know if he likes me back as more than a friend and i dont want to create something akward between us! please help me. should i tell him i like him or not???

i think you should follow your heart and atleast give him a sign or tell him or do it that old way and have a friend to talk to him and ask what he thinks about you...i but if i were you i would tell him..hope i helped

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can a 18 year old get in trouble for dating a 13 year old?

dateing???no i dont belive so ur safe..

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okay my lil sis want to kno the answer to this question . . .okay my sis is 14 and she likes this kidd that is 15 but turning 16 in cecember is that okay to go wout with him becuz he likes he bac but see my sis used to do pot and smoke cigg and drink cuz she hung out with the wrong ppl and she hung out with me which i did them all i mean she quit smoking and all but the guys she likes does all that stuff and she said she will go bac to all of it i mean we dont ahve a mom or a dad at all and i woundlnt care cuz i do all of that shit should she go out with him they really like each other
please answer the questions please dont say that is wrong that u do all that stuff and shit just please answer the question
thanxs i rate

well i think your sister should date him cause there is such thing as the word "no" and he cant pressure her to do drugs or smoke or anyhting thats what i think but when your in love you have to fallow your heart even if it hurts in some ways. hope i helped?

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Well...yesterday after school my friend Aaron and I talked while we were waiting to get picked up from school...he brought up my ex Robbie who is his Aaron's bestfriend...usually he doesn't...Well I decided to ask if he still went to HMMS and Aaron was just staring at the ground wouldn't look at me and kept smiling saying "No...well I don't know" & then I was like well does he go to SV then? and Aaron wouldn't look at me just staring at the ground smiling...so we dropt that subject...then I get home...and I decide to IM mine and my ex's friend, Jennifer...well she said Robbie told her he's either going to Byrd (My school) or Griffin (My bestfriend's school)...Well I haven't seen him at Byrd and my friend hasn't seen him at Griffin...you think Aaron knows something I don't know?!

yes most likely the guy would so you might wanna ask him whats hes hiddin

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well...i am a cutter. i have been cutting for about a year now. by the way i am 13 and female. i want to know why i feel so great after i do cut. its like nothing is wrong after i cut. i have tried to stop....but it has never worked.

also... do u know where i could find other people that are self addmitted cutters?

wow you sounds exactly like me i also cut and ive been cutting for 2 years. i have slowed down cause alot of people have worrided about me and my friends always said if i cut they would cut and i didnt want them to do that to themself there life is always so perfect and mine sucks. ive tryed ready articles all the time and everyhting infact i cut last week cause of my mom and ive actully cutter for lil small things that i wouldnt cut about. you should e-mail me and we should talk (gymgirl77@msn.com) ive stoped for a long time and i hope you dont end up dead or go to a crazy house cause of it cause i was gunna have to but i hide it. please be safe till you write me back K?

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I'm 14/f and I've never had a real boyfriend. My only "boyfriend" if you can him that lasted for 1/2 day and I broke up with him because I get all nervous around guys that like me. I get really sweaty and light headed, sometimes my stomach starts to hurt too. Is this a normal reaction to guys that like me? I have also never kissed a boy. What is the average age for first kisses?

well sweetie i used to be the exact same way but the guy i went out with was only 30 secs.lol. but then later i grew out of it and now im more out going i have alot of guy friends and ive changed how i looked in good ways. you will pribally follow the same way or atlest simalar. trust me your fine you should never pressure love cause it will come to you and you will get the best bf evcer you watch.

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I have really pretty green eyes! and their small and i have long eyelashes. A lot of ppl tell me i have to prettiest eyes. Does anyone know what color eyeshadow to wear or specific type of mascara?

well i basicly have the same eyes as you an man i went wild for awhile i tryed yellow/golden,green,blue,ect but the one i really liked alot was black i mean it sounds gothic but if you dont use as much it will look good. but with thise eyes anyhting will look good and for lashs i use the XXL new thing cause it makes em look big and nice but yea that would look hot!

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A boy deep kissed(first kiss) me and i am very paranoid about catch HIV through kissing, but should i be worried?

unless you had sex with him im most positively sure that you will not get HIV unless he had some sorta spots all around his mouth your fine sweetie.

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okay see my boyfriend lives in georgia and i live in new jersey he so far away... im 13 and he turning15 ... we like each other so much but no one really aproves since we met on the computer and he lives in georgia .. we wanna meet but its a lil hassle ... wat should i do... should i stay with him and meet him or wat?

humm long term relationships are always a tuffy...i would stay with him for now and if you find anyone you like where you are keep an eye out for em and if you see one you really like break the new to the other guy. its not cheating so your safe but just make sure not you kiss a guy when you find one better then the online one im sure you will find a good cutie where you live.

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okay.. I really like this one guy.. and hes not only jus a guy but hes like my best friend too.. and he has a girlfriend right now and no1 knows that i like him.. i kept it inside myself for a while and im afraid to let him know how i feel becauz i dont kno how he's gunna react.. its not only that but he lost his virginity to me too so its kinda weird.. what do i do???????

well in that case he should already have respect for you and that he does care for you. if i was you.. i would kid around that you like him or say something like "if only i was your gf id be better than her ha" and kid around like that and see what his reaction is...if it is bad (witch it prob wont) just say hey i was kidding lol but if he has a good remark towds it then you should know his awser and how ghe feels about ya. for starters i would try that..k

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ok i dont want to seem like a player but i really love my boyfriend but im also in love with his best friend and to admit it i like his friend a little more then i like my bf.. but me and my boyfrind have been going for like 7 months.. and i dont no what to do! his friend likes me a lot too and i need some help badly! please help! thanks x3

well what i would do is if you like his friend a lil more than him i would chose him and tell your boyfriend you have now that you need to try other people out and that he might not be the right one for you. cause love is an important thing and if you have more feeling for someone else than who your with then i would change and not let your love/feelings for me to get lost.but i maybe compleaty wronge but im just trying to help you in a differnt opinion.

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Hey everyone! I have a problem. There's this guy I like, and i like him alot. Last year we were in all the same classes, but this year we're not in any together. How do I get him to not forget about me? Thanks for your help!

ok if you see him around school you could walk up to him and say "hey remeber me i was in your _____ class last year" and smile and he might say something like "ohh yea your that one chick" then you guy will talk and then after just say hi to him whever you see him around school campus. if i were you id try that idea.

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