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The love of my life
ok so love this guy soo much! and he's one of my really good friends. i wanna tell him i like him more then a friend//but i dont know if i should cuz i dont know if he likes me back as more than a friend and i dont want to create something akward between us! please help me. should i tell him i like him or not???
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well just tell him that you like him and see what he says and if he doesnt like you then just act like nothing happened and act like you did before. i hope i helped! -kayla
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The best advice I can give: tell him! This has happened to me too a number of times... If he's one of your really good friends then you should be comfortable around him... so one time when you guys are talking just be like.. i think i like you and see what his reaction is. I'm sure everything will go great.. Even if he's not sure about it now you left him thinking... So just take a chance. Good Luck!!
Hope I helped!
~Lana
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Just tell him. Youll never really know how he feels or what will happen between yins unless you try. If you dont want to be blunt about it and just spill your guts then try a casual conversation with him.
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I think you should tell him. If you guys are like hanging out somewhere..just tell him. Be like "We are really good friends so I don't want to mess anything up, but I think I should tell you that...I like you, not just as a friend, but as more then that. I hope this doesn't change anything between us and it's cool with me if you don't feel the same way, but I didn't want to have to hide it." It might turn out bad, like he gets freaked out or smthn, but if you two are really good friends, he might be a little confused about how you liked him without him knowing and stuff but I really don't think he would start to ignore you. If you don't want it to be akward, don't let it be. If you walk past him in the hallway or smthn @ school and he doesn't say Hi to you, say Hi to him. If you have trouble starting conversations after you tell him, just pretend hes a guy you don't like or another one of your guy friends. And once he knows you like him, you can kinda joke about it. Like if he gets a haircut you can just say (*jokingly, so he doesn't think you're obsessed or smthn) "Your hair looks so hott right now" or smthn like that..just remember hes your friend and he won't hate you just because you like him. Theres nothing wrong w.a girl liking a guy! And he might like you back =) ((*Tell him in person, not on IM or the phone!!))
=) HoPe I HeLpEd!
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i think you should. you really don't have anything to lose. if he's one of your really good friends, he probably won't act like a jerk if he doesn't like you the way you like him, and then all will (or should) be back to normal the next day. it's happened to me before and all i did was say that i don't like the girl back--no big deal. nothing is different now. good luck
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If you really want to let him know tell him.Just before you tell him ask him that if he doesnt feel the same thats alright you dont want your friendship to change or for things to get awkward.Hope i helped and good luck.
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tell him! dont be afraid!! it most likely wouldnt be awkward i just told like a really good friend of mine i like him and he doesnt care lol, niether should your friend that would be stupid.
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just ask him..."you think if we ever dated would it be awkward?"
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i think you should follow your heart and atleast give him a sign or tell him or do it that old way and have a friend to talk to him and ask what he thinks about you...i but if i were you i would tell him..hope i helped
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