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First kiss question: What is the average age for first kisses?


Question Posted Monday August 30 2004, 9:38 pm

I'm 14/f and I've never had a real boyfriend. My only "boyfriend" if you can him that lasted for 1/2 day and I broke up with him because I get all nervous around guys that like me. I get really sweaty and light headed, sometimes my stomach starts to hurt too. Is this a normal reaction to guys that like me? I have also never kissed a boy. What is the average age for first kisses?

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Additional info, added Monday August 30 2004, 9:56 pm:
Will I grow out of this?.

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silent_x_cry answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 9:01 pm:
First of all, there is no "average age" for first kisses. People are different. Don't worry about this.

Secondly, I personally think your reaction to guys is fairly normal. Again, everyone's different. I think you should take the dating business slow... go at a pace that's comfortable for YOU. Stop worrying about things, and just be you. Being comfortable around guys takes time. x)

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pimpedoutprep answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 6:49 pm:
Well ive never kissed a gurl and im 13, i want to but i can never get the guts. I think that we both need to gets some guts u sound cool so halla at me on my aim pimpedoutprep114

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Rei answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 10:39 am:
lol im 14 and i never had a real boyfriend too *cough* actually im turning 15 soon (in about 13days time) and seriously theres no average age for first kisses! it can happen anytime, anywhere and anyhow. its okay to get nervous around guys (i feel like that all the time), but remind urself to be YOURSELF. dun act like someone ur not. to overcome the nervousness, take deep breathes in and out for about 5 times, close ur eyes when u do that. (of course dun do this infront of him, do it before u go and meet him) and of course u'll grow outta it, afterall u only 14, theres a long way more to go in this lifetime. first kisses might not come now, but it will certainly come when the time is right. (i believe it will *winks*) dun rush into things, u might get unwanted kisses instead =P good luck! -Rei

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cordchick15 answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 12:09 am:
well sweetie i used to be the exact same way but the guy i went out with was only 30 secs.lol. but then later i grew out of it and now im more out going i have alot of guy friends and ive changed how i looked in good ways. you will pribally follow the same way or atlest simalar. trust me your fine you should never pressure love cause it will come to you and you will get the best bf evcer you watch.

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x0x_summer_x0x answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 12:07 am:
Well yeah... As you get older U'll grow out of being all shocked around boys... And i think soon U'll get ur first kiss! Some gurls just get nervious around boys, and thats ok!! just give urself some space! good lcuk hun. [H][U][G][S] ~Summer

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CheapChineseFood answered Monday August 30 2004, 11:36 pm:
You will grow out of it. I'm 15, and have only had one real boyfriend...and I don't really consider him counting. You'll get nervous and lightheaded, but you will grow out of it. And if you don't...eventually if you spend enough time with that guy...you'll get used to being around him and so on...you catch my drift. And first kisses are special..don't waste it on any tom dick or harry.

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jj15 answered Monday August 30 2004, 11:32 pm:
dosnt matter what age

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SexXxiiShortiie answered Monday August 30 2004, 10:10 pm:
Well my first kiss was when I first turned 13 and I'm gettin readi to be 14 in sept....well when I first started having boyfriends I'd be really quiet and nervous around them...and then I just started actin my self...and if they don't like who I truely am then they don't deserve me...yeah this might sound kinda weird but when I use to talk to my boyfriends on the phone I'd start feeling sick...it was weird lol...let things happen naturally...don't worri bout kissing...find someone u really care about and they care about you as well...and then worri bout the kissing...hope i helped

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o0psychicwish0o answered Monday August 30 2004, 10:01 pm:
Hmmm.... It sounds like you get "butterflies" its just that you get nervous and light headed. Yes you will grow out of it. I dont think there really is a "average" age for your first kiss. I know people that had there first kiss in 1st grade to people who never been kiss. Kiss when you are ready and not when someone wants you too.

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~kitten~ answered Monday August 30 2004, 9:57 pm:
Hey its ok ive had maybe one or two, and i know you can get shy but im not really like that i have a tough gut but i still get a little nervous and so does every1 else but it is no problem. Just take deep breathes and you'll do fine. Boys can be gross but they are good for some stuff and when it is true then well it can be real fun!! And im 13 and i havn't had my first kiss, but i would think around 13-15.

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icey0990 answered Monday August 30 2004, 9:56 pm:
Sure its ok ...some people get uptight..but try to relax and breathe!He likes you..you have nothin to worry about! :) Sure ive gotten nervous over guys before..but not quite that nervous..but thats just me. Your only 14 dont worry..plenty of ppl who are 14 havent been kissed yet. My first kiss was at age 12, which is young. a lot of kids get their first kiss between the ages of 12-16...some earlier and some later..its nothing to worry about! dont rush in, because ur first kiss is somethin u`ll never forget and its well worth the wait! So no worries..and when a guy likes you..dont get upight...get happy and flattered! :) You`ll be fine hope i helped!
-melissa

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Pink_Flamingo answered Monday August 30 2004, 9:56 pm:
Your just nervous around guys, theres nothing wrong with that. I think the average age for first kisses is 16 or somewhere around there. Im 15 and never had a real boyfriend or been kissed o.o

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jesikuh977 answered Monday August 30 2004, 9:54 pm:
i had my first kiss in 5th grade lol i guess theres no average...buttt i dunno i think u need to get over ur nervousness and juss go out with a guy and dont break up with him..u have to get over that cuz u cant have that forever!!!

*jesikuh

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