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kissing


Question Posted Monday August 30 2004, 9:37 pm

i know this is really stupid.. but im 13 and a female.. and ive never had a first kiss. I have a boyfriend.. and i think he really wants to start kissin and stuff but idk if im ready. I think about it all the time.. and I think things like.. i can do this.. but when it all goes down... i get too nervous or scared to do anything... we've been going out for 3 weeks.. and hes kind of a playa.. so im nervous cuz i don't wanan kiss him if he is just gunna dump me a few weeks later... pplllllz help!

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exyweetee99 answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 7:10 pm:
ok look kissen is nothin...its not like he is wantin 2 have sex or n e thing...why r u nervous?? its just a kiss...chill out and jus do it..

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XxMoDeStMoUsEgIrLxX answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 7:06 pm:
dont worry about being 13... lots of my friends havent kissed a guy yet either... dont push anything that you dont wanna do. if theres doubt about it dont do it unless you REALLY wanna... if hes a good boyfriend then hell understand but if he dumps you then its his loss and hes missin out and hes a loser for doing so... just give it time and dont let any guy take your first kiss from him that you dont think deserves it hope i helped. x's and o's

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funkychick107 answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 5:20 pm:
If you're not ready, then he shouldn't push u. If you dont feel comfortable, dont do it. If he dumps u- hes the one missin out. And it totally dosent matter that ur 13 and havent had ur 1st kiss. ok? Hope I helped!

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Randomduck641 answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 12:57 am:
well are you expecting to marry the kid.. kissing's not a big deal.. just do it

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x0x_summer_x0x answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 12:09 am:
well i dont think you should be so nervious!! you're first kiss will come naturally... so don't worry all the time. If you're not yet ready for tongue just give him a peck on the cheek! dont rush yourself! [H][U][G][S] ~Summer

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crimeXinXitaly answered Monday August 30 2004, 11:31 pm:
Since when did 13 year old boys start becoming players? What is jr. high coming to?
Sweethart...don't waste any 'first' on a guy that's less than fantastic. It isn't till you don't have the firsts anymore that you realize how important they were.

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bebecaliente6989 answered Monday August 30 2004, 11:30 pm:
i honestly dont think u should kiss this guy!! he seems like an ass if hes rushing u into things that ur not ready for or dont wanna do!! ESPECIALLY if its ur first kiss!! like everyone else said "its special" and it should be with a special person too. NOT SOME PLAYA!! so bottom line is dump tha fool...AND FIND SOMEONE BETTER!! then wen UR ready to kiss ur new beau then it really can be special!! hope i helped!! leave one in the inbox if u need any more advice!!

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jesikuh977 answered Monday August 30 2004, 11:24 pm:
u shouldnt be going out with players in the first place doll =D dump him and find some one else who wont rush u into doing something u dont wanna do! or juss tell him ur not ready and if he gets mad tell him to fuck off =D

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*ashlee* answered Monday August 30 2004, 11:15 pm:
if ur not ready then ur not ready. thats all there is to it. if he cant understand that then hes not worth ur time or love and he doesnt deserve u anyway. so if u dont want to do it then dont. dont let ur first kiss turn into a bad memory..

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