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Last Update: August 31, 2004
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Hi well Im jj15 and i need ur help and fast!
I am going out with a guy named rocky , well everytime I go and talk to him he just says Hi and then says that he has to go, Im afraid that he's cheating on me.
I tried asking him if he was and he would just stare and say no then he gose off somewhere.
I am really afraid!!!!!
Help me plz what do I do?
please dont erase this ?!!
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theres lots of things that could be goin on with ur guy. but more then likely sorry but it kinda seems like hes cheating on u. BUT U NEVER KNOW!! u need to find out though. dont wait till its too late and u end up getting really hurt. go up to ur guy and be firm!! grab him and pull him aside and say u know wat we need to talk NOW! if he still doesnt want to listen and still avoids u then all i can say is break up with this guy rocky!! ur only 15 and theres sooo many other guys out there!! theres lots of guys out there that wont leave u hangin and guessing like this!! so go up to this guy and DEMAND the truth. and like i said if he doesnt listen then hes not worth UR time!! hope i helped
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My boyfriend and I just had sex for the first time..He took my virginity. It was unprotected and Im not sure if he pulled out or not. We were both a little drunk. I dont regret it. Anyway, I was told that you shouldn't have unprotected sex for 15 days after your last period ended. Its only been 10 days. Im a little worried that, well basically, I could become pregnant. Im not sure if the 15 day thing is true. Im going to the health clinic in a couple days to get on birth control and they always give you a pregnancy test. I want to know if I should be worried about this or not and if the 15 day thing is true. Hurry..this has me scared. Thanks. (link)
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that 15 day thing for not getting pregnant is sooo not true!! i heard something similar to that but like the others said u can get pregnant at any time. theres no "safe time" to have unprotected sex without the risk of getting pregnant. hope everything works out!!
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umm.. dont think im stupid for asking this but i just wanna be safe and sure. if a girl is on birth control, does the guy still need to wear a condom wen they do it? (link)
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to me condoms would be a good idea to use. theres plenty of reasons why though. 1. being that u can make sure that u decrease the chance of getting an STD 2. there is a small chance that birth control dont work. nothings a 100% sure. so it can eliminate that one small chance of getting pregnant...hope i helped!!
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i have a bf and i really like him and we have been going out for about 9 monthes. but this past day i went over to friends house and she has 1 brother and he is really cute and i like him as well as my bf....so what im saying is what should i do should i break uo with my bf or stay with him!! HELP!!! (link)
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thats kinda hard. just do wat u do is right. just think about how u feel. think about whether u really want to break up with ur bf of NINE MONTHS for ur friends brother. just think about wat u really want. take some time out and really think about this cuz if u make the wrong decision u may really regret it. leave one in the inbox if u want some more advice!!
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i don't like myself. is that normal? like are there other people out there who don't like themselves either? i dunno, i just am having a really tough time and i'm liking myself less and less and less. please help me. i just feel so out there and wierd. (link)
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personaly im goin through that right now!! i feel like i dont like the person that ive become anymore. i dont like the way i dress or my hair or the music i listen to. i just really dont like myself!! i know were in our teens and this is the time that we need to find who we really are and we need to explore. i have brown hair with highlights and this weekend im cutting my hair SHORT and getting bangs plus dyin it black. i also have dark blue eyes and im getting green contacts. u always have options and its all about doin the most u can with them. try a change in ur life. maybe not a big drastic one like im about to do but even the tiniest one can make a difference!! good luck!! leave me one in the inbox so we can talk more if ya want!!
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i know this is really stupid.. but im 13 and a female.. and ive never had a first kiss. I have a boyfriend.. and i think he really wants to start kissin and stuff but idk if im ready. I think about it all the time.. and I think things like.. i can do this.. but when it all goes down... i get too nervous or scared to do anything... we've been going out for 3 weeks.. and hes kind of a playa.. so im nervous cuz i don't wanan kiss him if he is just gunna dump me a few weeks later... pplllllz help! (link)
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i honestly dont think u should kiss this guy!! he seems like an ass if hes rushing u into things that ur not ready for or dont wanna do!! ESPECIALLY if its ur first kiss!! like everyone else said "its special" and it should be with a special person too. NOT SOME PLAYA!! so bottom line is dump tha fool...AND FIND SOMEONE BETTER!! then wen UR ready to kiss ur new beau then it really can be special!! hope i helped!! leave one in the inbox if u need any more advice!!
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ok well i cut and stuff but i really want to tell my mom about it because i meen i want to get help but i just was wondering like how could i like talk to her about it? me and my mom are like really close and stuff but i think it would like kill her! should i tell her or no? (link)
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u really need to tell ur mom bout this. u do have a problem and u need to get help. if u think ur mom would die if u told her wat if something happened to u?? wouldnt that kill ur mom even more?? u should be straight with her. i know its hard but just take a deep breathe in and do it. its for both of yalls own good. leave one in the inbox if u need anymore advice!!
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A boy deep kissed(first kiss) me and i am very paranoid about catch HIV through kissing, but should i be worried? (link)
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theres only a slight way u can get a virus like that from kissing. HIV and AIDS are carried through ur blood so if the both of u have a sore in ur mouth then u may want to ask him bout it but if not then ur perfectly fine!! hope i helped!! leave one in the inbox if u need anymore help!!
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Hey, I was just wondering if you could really get an STD from giving head. Because I just read it on here, and I've given head to one of my ex's, and I never knew that there was a possibility that I would get an STD, and now I'm really scared about it. Can you guys please help me out? (link)
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sorry to say it but yes u can get and STD. if u have a cut in ur mouth or any kind of sore if hes infected then his fluid can get into ur blood stream and u can easily get AIDS or some other serious virus like that. the best advice is to go and get tested. thats the only way u can know for sure. sorry bout all this!! hope i helped!! leave one in the inbox if u need anymore help!!
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lol, ok, i kno this is dorky and all but, how do u french kiss??? i mean i've always wonder, u kno, like what do u do....lol, i kno, i kno, this is a stupid question (link)
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i dont think this is a stupid question at all. everyone needs to know stuff and this is the perfect way to find out. it depends on how the guy kisses. some guys use ALOT of tongue and others dont. if they shove their tongue down ur throat then just try to go with the flow. but if a guy does it lightly and gentle BUT FIRMLY then let ur emotions get into it. its the same thing as a regular kiss except this one has ur tongue in it too. just pretend that using ur tongue is the only way u can express how u feel for this guy and i promise u cant go wrong!! hope i helped!! leave one in the inbox if u need anymore advice!!
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Hey everyone! I have a problem. There's this guy I like, and i like him alot. Last year we were in all the same classes, but this year we're not in any together. How do I get him to not forget about me? Thanks for your help! (link)
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i take it that yall talked and were friends? well if thats true then u should just talk to him alot and stay in contact as much as u can. if yall werent that good of friends but acquantinces? well then say hey to him in the hall!! u cant go wrong there. make MAJOR eye contact!! it gets a guys attention. and make sure u smile!! thats one of the things that guys notice bout girls most. after uve done that strike up a light convo and after awhile make the convos more often and longer. then before u know it theres no way he can forget bout u and u might of stricken up a connection!! hope i helped!! leave one in the inbox if u need any more advice!!
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im 14..female and i weigh 124 lbs...i hav curves definatly...well im nto happy with my body..i want to be size 00 and small...all the guys like small gurls..i look like a cow in a bathing suit and am starting to get cellulate on thighs/butt...i feel fat in anything i wear now...my point is is that im thinkin about going annorexic...bc i have a really pretty face and a ugly body if i go annorexic i will be pretty...maybe not full blown annorexic..but like not alot of food...a little bites here and there...but not alot @ all...and not makeing myself throw up..just not eating....how soon do u think i will lose weight...plz dont say "dont do this blah blah" bc i just want to know how much weight do u think i will lose in 2wks? plz answer that ?!! (link)
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i know u dont wanna hear bout how u shouldnt do it but everyone is different. my friend does that and they lose weight so fast!! they lose
5-8 pounds a week!! but did this for 4 years and i only gained weight. i never lost anything!! i think it just depends on ur body type and the way ur body reacts to digesting foods. i say the best thing to do is to look up info on the internet and read up on it!! some sites give different points of views on this and u may end up coming across info telling whether if ull EVEN LOSE WEIGHT or if ull gain it like me!! hope i helped!! leave one in my inbox if u need more help!!
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Okay, please Mods PLEASE do not delete this as I'm REALLY concerned!
Well, this girl at my school, she's not my friend or anything I don't know her that good, but she's pregnant. And, she's only 12. We're in 7th grade and all that, and she's expecting TWINS, she should get an abortion and all that but she wants to go through with it. At least that's what I heard, (I hear a lot of gossip. -__-;) Well, anyway, she also smokes and drinks, and she has purple hair and a ton of piercings, and I'm afraid if she goes through with it, her body won't be ready with all those drugs, and she's so young, and she might die...
She's got a pretty bad life, and nobody really likes her, but I still worry about these kind of things...and well, I'm not quite sure what to say to her to try to convince her not to do it. Can anyone give me ideas?
Sorry this was so long. =\
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ok this is a hard question to answer. theres really no right or wrong way to tell her as long as u do tell her. since u dont know her too well i wouldnt just go up to her and tell her this stuff trying to convince her not to have the twins because she could become very offended. but if u really want to i would just start talking to her as friends. then after awhile tell her how u feel but dont pour all of ur thoughts and ideas on her. just tell her that ur worried for her and her babies. ask her to stop her smoking and drinking for her TWINS SAKE!! instead of trying to convince her by saying its wrong make her think of her babies instead. she obviously cares for them if she wants to go through with it so maybe in that way u can get through to her and help her make a decision for her and her babies...hope i helped!! reply if u need anymore advice and help!!
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ok i dont want to seem like a player but i really love my boyfriend but im also in love with his best friend and to admit it i like his friend a little more then i like my bf.. but me and my boyfrind have been going for like 7 months.. and i dont no what to do! his friend likes me a lot too and i need some help badly! please help! thanks x3 (link)
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ive been through this problem before and i'll tell u the same thing that i did. i had really loved my bf... i mean i LOVED him! we were goin out for bout a year. BUT i liked his best friend so much and he liked me. at the time i WAS a player and i cheated on my bf alot with him. but there came a time wen i got tired of it and i chose which one to be with. i just thought bout how i felt wen i was with my bf and wen i was with his friend. i thought of me and bfs relationship and how things were heading. at the time it was kinda a lil bad so i broke up with him and went out with his friend. BIG MISTAKE!! in my situation i only left my bf for an ass. but we loved each other and we got back together. so my point is that think about which one would be better FOR YOU! if ur bf really loves u back then if u chose his friend he'll forgive u. but make sure u let him know how u feel before u do this. if u dont then this could lead to more trouble with ur bf and his best friend. hoped i helped!!
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Mods, please don't delete this, this is really important to me...
Okay, this question is kind of personal but i need to know if anyone else experiences this. I'm a 16/f and I have a boyfriend whom i've been with for going on 6 months now, and everytime we're together, no matter what we're doing, if it's sitting at the dinner table talking, or making out under the covers (most of the time it's more intense under the covers) I get really wet.. "down there" and it's to the point where it's kind of embarrassing.. because whenever we get sexual (not nessicarly sex..) he laughs about it, and it makes me feel really self concious.. Does this happen to anyone else?? Is it normal??? Thanks for the help..
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i read the answers of the people who responded to this question and theyre all right!! its perfectly NATURAL!! when a guy gets horny he gets a boner. when a girl gets horny she becomes wet. its the same thing. some guys get a lil more wet then other girls and its not ur fault. everyones different. if ur guy laughs bout it tell him something!! tell him how its not funny and thats just the way u are. i guarantee that if ur bf really likes u he'll get over it and stop being immature about it. all i have left to say is dont be embarrased. i think its a good thing that ur like that! so dont be embarrased no more and hope i helped!!
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I'm 14/f. I've liked this guy Mark for a really long time. I know that he doesn't like me because he told me who he does like. One of my friends has also seen him with this other girl, they were going out to dinner together. I really want to get over him and move on to other guys that are available but every time i see him I start to like him so much all over again. We're friends and I want us to stay friends but how do I stop liking him. I know he's unavailable, but I can't stop myself. How do I get over him? (link)
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honestly ive been through this situation before. theres really no certain way that anyone can tell u how to get over this guy. it just takes time. think of it in this way: u must really like this guy mark right? well if u do then it shouldnt be only about you it should be about him as well. the more u like a guy the more u just want them to be happy w. watever that means. even though u still like him alot maybe u should stop talking to him for a lil while till u feel that u can be friends again with him while being comfortable. make sure that u dont hurt urself in the long run though. its gonna be hard but I PROMISE it works. ive done this before. hope i helped ya!!
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