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cOnFuSeD bOuT lOvE!!


Question Posted Monday August 30 2004, 10:23 am

i have a bf and i really like him and we have been going out for about 9 monthes. but this past day i went over to friends house and she has 1 brother and he is really cute and i like him as well as my bf....so what im saying is what should i do should i break uo with my bf or stay with him!! HELP!!!

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xXKiSsMeXx answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 2:32 am:
its obvious your bf really loves you since he's been together with you for THAT long! (which believe me it's long for a guy... they dont usually like commitment)...maybe the other guy thing was just a little fling you thought about. But I would say to stick with your bf. stay friends with the other guy tho!! lol and if anything ends up happening with your bf and you split or something THEN give the other guy a call! hope everything works out gravy baby!

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bebecaliente6989 answered Monday August 30 2004, 11:44 pm:
thats kinda hard. just do wat u do is right. just think about how u feel. think about whether u really want to break up with ur bf of NINE MONTHS for ur friends brother. just think about wat u really want. take some time out and really think about this cuz if u make the wrong decision u may really regret it. leave one in the inbox if u want some more advice!!

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EmbracedxRain answered Monday August 30 2004, 7:29 pm:
Wel if you still feel the same way about your boyfriend, stay with him. There is no use in ruining a good relationship for another guy that you don't even know if he likes you. I'd say stay with. Hope it helps.

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xoDeexo answered Monday August 30 2004, 5:10 pm:
i think you should go with who ever you like more.. but if you do break up with your boyfriend.. and nothing happens with the other guy.. then what are you gonna do? hope i helped you.. drop one in my inbox if you need anymore advice! <3

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Kim_x3 answered Monday August 30 2004, 4:46 pm:
Dont through 9 months down the drain for sumone u think is cute get to kno "your friends brother" and if u think hes worth dumpin your current boyfriend..go for it

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SiLenTxfAiRy answered Monday August 30 2004, 4:30 pm:
just by going over your friends house you like her brother? it kinda doesnt sound that great! did anything happen? you really shouldnt make a rash decision and break up with your bf for your friends brother. btw..im sure your friend wouldnt like you going out with her brother anyways! (ive come close before..its just not a good situation) anyways, i think you should stay with your bf..but dont stay with him just to be with him. if you really love him then be with him

x0x-dani
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jesikuh977 answered Monday August 30 2004, 3:31 pm:
i dunno maybe u need something new?:)

*jesikuh

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BeachBum5724 answered Monday August 30 2004, 3:01 pm:
*i think you should stay with your bf!! you wouldn't want to dump someone you've been going out with for soooo long!! you must REALLY like him if you 2 can stay together that long!!. just forget about the other guy. you don't want to lose what you have already*
*jEsSiCa*

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UnluckyWishes answered Monday August 30 2004, 2:44 pm:
I think you should break up with your boyfriend to get you feelings sorted out.it's really not fair to your b/f if you still someone else too and its not fair to you because your going out with someone and you like someone else and there could be something between you and the other guy.After a while you can ask your b.f to go back with you or go out with your friends brother.Hope i helped and it all works out.

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Pequenodiablo126 answered Monday August 30 2004, 2:39 pm:
Well, if you don't love your b/f then you should break up with him. Cause there is no use in dating someone if you don't love them.Maybe you should go out witht he other guy and maybe you will fall in love with him!!

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russianspy1234 answered Monday August 30 2004, 2:24 pm:
so you jsut met this guy and your thinking of breaking up with your bf of nine months? not to mention your friend might not like the idea of you going out with her brother. so yeah stay with the bf.

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SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Monday August 30 2004, 2:18 pm:
what goes around comes around... so i suggest you stay wit the guy u are with... if u break up wit him hes gonna be really hurt... & if he finds out that u broke up wit him for another guy... hes probably not gonna wanna be friends wit u...

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paradiei3abii3x answered Monday August 30 2004, 12:46 pm:
Well, just think about which on eyou like better. You probably know your bf more than the other guy, so I would stick with him. Just follow your heart! :) Hope I helped!

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Xo_Blondii_oX answered Monday August 30 2004, 12:01 pm:
stay with your boyfriend. Wait till you get to kno ur friends bro a lil better bcuz in the end he mite not b tha type of person u want.

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TucanFullOfHoles answered Monday August 30 2004, 11:51 am:
stay until ur absolutely sure.

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manda44 answered Monday August 30 2004, 11:16 am:
well i dont want to see you dump ur bf of 9 months and try to get this other guy when this other guy may not even like you. then u take the chance of ending up alone and wishing u had ur old bf back. so try to figure out if this other guy is really wat u want and if he likes you.. and if hes looking for a girlfriend.
Manda

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icey0990 answered Monday August 30 2004, 11:10 am:
Hey, you have something really special with your bf so I think you should stay with him. Its ok to feel attracted to someone else..as long as you dont act on that attraction by cheating. Im sure your bf saw a girl or 2 that hes felt attracted to but its all normal. You have something special with this guy..so unless things arent working out or if you really arent attracted to him..i would stay with your guy. He must really be something cuz you`ve been together for 9 months! :) Besides, going out with your friends brother doesnt mix, trust me. I once liked one of my friends brothers..and just her knowing i liked him made things weird. Hope i helped out? :)
-melissa-

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o0psychicwish0o answered Monday August 30 2004, 10:56 am:
It depends on how much you like this new guy. If you like him a lot and more that your bf. Then yes you should break up with you current bf. But if you only like him a little then no stay with your bf who you like.

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