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Hey yall.. ask me questions and ill try my best to answer them!.
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Ok i ALWAYS brush my hair after i get out of the shower when i dont brush it its wavy/curly and tangled but then after i comb it its STRAIGHT!! and then i try and scrunch it and it never works i dunno why but anyways my hair is kinda long about down to my back and thick so can you tell me what to use and how to scrunch it? thanks!
my hair is the same way.. what i do when i want to scrunch my hair is i brush my hair out.. then i flipp my hair over and just mess around with it and scrunch it myself and mess it up a little.. then i straightn it out with my hands and make it look like how i want it.. and then i just put a whole bunch of hairspray in it.. it doesnt take that long either. but that works for me. try it and if it doesnt work maybe put some other products in your hair. hope i helped. if you need anymore advice put one in my inbox.
i have a bf and i really like him and we have been going out for about 9 monthes. but this past day i went over to friends house and she has 1 brother and he is really cute and i like him as well as my bf....so what im saying is what should i do should i break uo with my bf or stay with him!! HELP!!!
i think you should go with who ever you like more.. but if you do break up with your boyfriend.. and nothing happens with the other guy.. then what are you gonna do? hope i helped you.. drop one in my inbox if you need anymore advice!
i think i might have something wrong with my lungs. i get out of breath WAY too easy. i don't think i have athsma, cuz i've never had an attack, and i don't smoke, but my parents do. i'm getting bad grades in p.e. because i can't run. i COULD run...if i could breathe, because it doesn't tire my legs at all...but anyway, how can i tell if there's something wrong with me, or what do i do?
there could be something wrong with you.. but i wouldnt be able to tell you what it is.. you should really go see a doctor about it and tell them whats going on.. hope i helped?
I'm 13 M and I was recently talking to my friend (13 F) when she told me that she liked me. I had a crush on her for about a year now and so i was excited when we talked more i thought that she really liked me. But then when we talked again she told me that she liked me but that she liked my friend better. See the thing is i can't stop thinkin of her and i dont know what to do.
Thanks for any help!
i think you should tell her how you feel!. i bet once you tell her that she'll like you more. and if not.. maybe she'll start to like you more if you just keep talking to her alot. good luck! hope i helped you
i don't have a father figure in my life. my dad is a jerk..he tried like almost killing me before..and i don't see my step-dad as a father! do i need a father figure in my life? please help! i rate high!
i dont think you need a father figure as long as you have someone to look up to and someone to love you.. like your mom. i think you'll be just as happy as long as you have someone. hope i helped
Ok i like this guy hes 16 and im 13 he has a gf but neway hes always being mean to me i guess.bcuz like wenever i talk to him hes like shutup jack*ss or w.e queer stupid stuff lyk that we used to b realli good friends and he would play around like that now i dunno if hes playin around or not.Do u think he likes me or is he jus bein mean??
well it depends on how he says it.. does he say it as in a humor way? or is he like serious like the get away from me kinda thing? well if he says it in a humor way then hes probably just kidding around with you.. but if not.. then theres something wrong. maybe if you try talking to him or soemthing and ask him if hes kidding around. hope i helped you
okay hey heres how it goes... I'm gunna be movin inna month. ([ to King Of Perssia ]).. Is there anyone that lives down there.. ? [( im gunna be movin 8 miles away from the king of perrisa mall )]?!im going to the highschool in 9th grade..
but heres my question..
I've been going with my boyfriend for 8 months! And i love so much words cant explain how much i love him..and he loves me too [ the same way ] .. as you can see this is a SERIOUS relationship...we've done alot of stuff. [sex] [jerkin off] [and lotzZz more] shitt the sex is good :-)... [ lemme get back to my question ] but we talked about whats gunna happen when i move and everything.. and we decided to stay with eachother. But im still scared! I know im gunna be seein him and talkin to him on the phone and everything, hes gunna be allowed to stay over my house.. but the thing is... there is alot of gurls and guys that is hatin on me and my boyfriend.. and they always be startin shit to get us to break up.. it worked once but as you see we worked it out and are still together..but i know the second i move all these gurls that are hatin on me are gunna be all up on his dick! and tellin him lies and shit so he can break up with me. i already got in fights with these gurls and hes gotten into fights with some guys.. and its just to much drama..but I dont wanna break up with him but from where i live now to where im moving to is like 45mins away. (im 15) But do you think i should break up with him or trust him.. see i know that he wouldnt do anythin to hurt me.And i told him that if he hears something that he doesnt like that he should come to me and see if its true. But he tells me everyday "your not gunna hear and words come out my mouth that were gunna break up / i wanna be with you for the rest of my life / you my heart" - and he wants me to have a baby with him.. but im just confuse what i should do.. should i stay with him.. like i dont even know i just need help on what i should do please help me.. ill rate..
aww i think you should stay with him.. from what you tell us theres not many guys out there like him.. dont worry about thoes people who wana break yall up.. i think you and your bf will work it through!..but maybe you should wait until your married with the whole baby thing. that might be a little tough lol.. so anyway you can always see your bf .. maybe even a couple times a week. your only 45 min away? its not like its 3 hours or anything.. i hope i helped you.. and i hope yall stay together a long time!
Next weeek theyres gunna be a party and theyre gunna be weed and regular cigs there and i wanna try it and ive been meaning to try it with osme of my good frends but my other frends sed theyre not gunna like me as much i guess if i do it i dont no wat to do
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im not gona stop you from trying it.. but if i were you i wouldnt do it. if your gona try weed and ciggerets just to impress some kids who do it.. then thats your decision.. but remember.. your friends arent gona like you as much. and i know the friends that i have that started smoking.. i havent really been talking to them or hanging out with them much. its your decision.. but remeber smoking does shorten your life span.. and if your gona do it just to impress some people that might even be high from the weed and not even remember that you did it. then go ahead im not stoping you.. its your desision. ihope i helped and ihope you make the right choice.
ok me and my b/f have been going out 4 a while and i trust him with everything but recenly we have been talking about sex and he wants to and he said that if im not ready that its ok and that he will wait as long as i want to wait but i like wanna have sex with him but im kinda scared still so if any one could help me it would be greatly appcated
i think you should talk it over with him and tell him exactly what you feel. maybe he feels the same way you do. or maybe talking about it with him and seeing his reaction to it and what he says might make you a little more comfurtable with the idea and you wont be as scared. but if you want to wait, i think you should, and it sounds like your bf is a very understandable guy, and i think he'll consider your feelings and wait with you. i hope i helped you!
well there is this boy n i rele like him n his mom always invites me over if im homealone n she is all nicce to me but when iget to there house i never no what to say to him i lose my breath rele easy if im talkin to him n i have to take rell rele deep breaths n well he is kinda a butt hole to me n i think i have a crush on him but he always picks on me like if he dosnt agree w. some thing i say he is like shut up ur stupid is that a sign he likes me or is he jsut being stupid??
i rate rele good!!
there can be 2 answers to this problem.. he can either be flirting with you.. or just being a jerk. it deff. sounds like you like him though!. if you still plan on going over there, and hes still being a jerk to you. be a jerk right back!. then maybe he'll get a little nicer? this happened to me before, my family and his family always hook up like every weekend. and i used to be really nice to him, and he used to ALWAYS be a jerk. so i started being a jerk right back, and now me and him always kidd around and were really close. maybe that will happen to you. i hope i helped
iight theres this guy that i meet saterday! he is awesome! i mean i can be my complete self around him! and me and him both have a thing fro each other...and i mean i do like him and he is going to ask me out the next time we see each other...but i'm jst scared that it's going to be awhile before we see each other! and i kind of don't want to wait!?? but then i do cuz i don't want to rush things!? wat should i do?
aww thats cute.. well i think that if you really like this guy then you should go out with him!. so what if you'll only see him a few times.. you still have the phone and aim or aol or w.e... and if you wana take things slow then do it! lol. it sounds like you can have a great relationship with this guy. have fun!.. hoped i helped you!
Ok, I am 13/f and I am dating this guy in my city who is ok but I don't really like him not anymore I just feel sry for him b/c he really likes me so I wont dump him for awhile. And theres this kid in Pueblo who I am also dating and I really like him only I see him like once every week or once every 2 weeks and I want a b/f that I can see more than that like atleast three times a week. So I am going out with both of them b/c the guy here I dont really lke but i can see him a lot and the guy there I like but cant see him...does that make me a bad person or do yall understand why I am doing this? I'll rate you!
i totally understand what your going through.. but you shouldnt be going out with 2 people at the same time its not fair to them. and the one person you dont even like... what i think you should do is break up with both of them and find someone that you like ALOT and that you can see most of them time like you saif maybe 3 times a week. its easier that way then letting the guys your going out with now find out that your going out with another person or that you dont even like them. i think that will hurt them more then breaking up with them... hope i helped in someway
Ok, well i have this friend who always tells rumers about me! i hate it and i always tell her how i feel, but everytime i tell her she goes and tells another rumer! what should i do?! help me please!
signed.
Losing a friend?
that doesnt sound like a very good friend. last time i checked friends didnt do that to one another. maybe you should tell her that you dont want to be friends with her anymore. then maybe it'll get through her head that what shes doing isnt right. hope i helped
well im 13 n my bro has a friend thats 16 n when ever like we r around eachother he smiles at me n i blush rele easly n well i kinda like him but he wouyld never go out w. me.. but like my bro invited him to worlds of fun n well he kept walkin by me n siting w. me on rides.. n well he came to our new house to help us move n i came in n he just smiled at me again n its rele confusing cuz idk if he likes me or what....
i rate good
he seems like he likes you!... i think you should tell him houw you feel about him and see how he feels about you!. you never know maybe hes got feelings for you!. and even if he doesnt like you. i think you guys could be in a really good friend kinda relationaship.. its better then nothing! lol.. hope i helped xox
Is it bad or like not cool to go out wit ure frends ex bf?? cuz my frend sed if once ure frend goes out wit a guy the guy is "their property" nd the frends cant go out wti them but then my otha frend has like stolen like 5 of my bfs.. so is it bad to go out wit ya gurls ex (not steal but just like a while after they break up.)
thnx
i personally think its okay to go out with your friends ex. i have 2 best friends and we all went out with this guy ( at different times of course ). and nothing happened between us. but maybe thats just how we are. maybe you should try talking to your friend before you do anything and see how she is with it. and when you go out with a guy.. its not "your property" and none of your friends can go out with them after you. i hope i helped you
Mom said that nana might move into my house soon and i really dont want her too cause of my nerves. And you no that cole likes me and if he ever comes over to my house one day like he wants to nanas going to be there and i dont thinks its going to go well. I really dont think its a good idea. and then my mom said that in a few years like in 10 years we might move if we can. You went throught it millions of times and you had a boyfriend at the time. If i have a boyfriend its going to be hard for me. this tim ei need your advice more then ever. Your truly your beautiful cuz Jessie!! lol with the beauty part!!:-P
its alright if nana moves in with you. yeah it might be a little nerve racking in the begining getting settled in with her and getting used to her rutine* and whatnot. but you shouldnt be worried about what cole would think of her or how he would take her. if cole really likes you like you say he likes you. then i dont think it would matter what he though about nana bcuz he shouldnt base you, on your nana. if that makes any sense. if you move in 10 years you'll be either 19 or 20. and you wouldnt have to move bcuz your gona be an adult in college or living in your own place. but if you move when your still in highschool or even middle school. dont worry about it you'll make new friends just like i am doing right now. and dont worry about losing a boyfriend. it might not even be a serious one. so you never know. yeah its gona be really really hard. im not gona lie to you about it. but you'll get through it . trust me! im halfway through it now. all i have to do is get passed the first day of school. and yeah ive moved alot more and ive been into new schools before. but it gets harder as you get older. just have confidence in yourself. and you'll get through it and ill be here for you when you need me. ill talk to you more when i see you. love you xoox
my boyfrend wants to do me but im not ready for it\\ and he said that if i won't do it with him he won't go out with me\\ please help ASAP
dont do it just bcuz your boyfriend wants you to. if you dont want to then dont do it. you shouldnt do something you dont want to do just to keep your boyfriend. and if your boyfriend will break up with you bcuz of that. then hes not worth it anyway. you should make sure that your gonna do it with someone that you care about and someone who cares about you. from what you saying he really doesnt seem like he cares much if he'll break up with you if you dont do what he wants.
You moved and im sad. I cant stop thinking of you guys and i cant stop thinking of poppop's death. I really miss him. i try to think of the good times and then i cry. you went through with this too since we r related but i dont no how you r taking it. Please help cuz. Your truly great cuz Jessie:-P P.S. we r going to see amadao aka andy soon lol
its alright to think about us and of pop pop. i miss him too :( . but the time that we did have with him was really special to us and we know that. its alright to cry about it when you think about it. i sometimes cry about it too. your a great cuz too we have so much fun together. and when are we gona see amadeo? ( andy lol )..
i have zits/pimples/whiteheads which ever you prefer to call them is fine with me haah. so school starts in 3 weeks for me and i'd really like to be able to have a mostly clear face (im not looking for perfection here trust me). im using clean and clear advantage acne cleanser and i like it and i love the advantage spot treatment that im using from C&C too. my question is though, whats the easiest way to get old zits to go away since i have to use a moisturizer on my face after i wash it or it gets too dry??
i don't want to see a derm because we can't afford it right now, and i don't want to get proactiv or anything like that. im just looking for tips besides drinking water and relaxing to get the zits to stop popping up all at once! thanks for the help!
i had the same problem that you did a few weeks ago. i tryed all the face moisturizers and what not. and none of them worked for me. then my dad had told me to use rubbing alcohol. i would put a little on a cotten ball in the morning when i woke up. and a little on before i went to bed. i noticed my face was starting to clear up in a few days. i hope ive helped you!