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Sex
ok me and my b/f have been going out 4 a while and i trust him with everything but recenly we have been talking about sex and he wants to and he said that if im not ready that its ok and that he will wait as long as i want to wait but i like wanna have sex with him but im kinda scared still so if any one could help me it would be greatly appcated
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okay as long as hes not making you have sex hes a good b/f..take your time with sex you shouldnt rush into things and if youre scared dont worry about it every girl is before her first time.do what you think is right its your place to decide.
<3 anna
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if u have the smallest doubt dont do it! it is something u truely should wait for until you are totally 110% sure about because the first time is so important to a girl and dont let it be something u regret
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Im in the same situation as you are. If you are not emotionally ready to do it, then dont. If he really respects you, then he will wait. If he doesnt and breaks up with you, then you will be glad that you didnt do anything with him.
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WeLl.......iif you thynk yer redii GO FOR IT! but iif yer not redii wait hes not goiing anywere! and it doesnt hurt that bad only the first time! but itsz ok sex isnt really anything to be scared of!
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If you love him and he loves you, then there is nothing to be scared of. If you're ready to make adult decisions such as aving sex, then act like an adult and go to your mom or dad and tlel them and then go to planned parent hood and get birth control pills, and be one them for about two weeks, then you can ahve sex along with your boyfriend having a condom on. and if thats too much to handle for you then having sex is too.
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answer is simple. if youre not ready, then dont do it. he obviously is willing to wait for you.
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i think you should talk it over with him and tell him exactly what you feel. maybe he feels the same way you do. or maybe talking about it with him and seeing his reaction to it and what he says might make you a little more comfurtable with the idea and you wont be as scared. but if you want to wait, i think you should, and it sounds like your bf is a very understandable guy, and i think he'll consider your feelings and wait with you. i hope i helped you! <3
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tell him. maybe your really just not ready to have sex. maybe he's just as scared as you are.
hey, lots of people wait until they're married to have sex, keep that in mind.
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I would think about it first,and talk with him a little bit more when where you can sit down and pick a day and stuff to do it.That happened with me and my bf and we have been dating two years and we decided to do it.If your scaried tell him and he will understand but you said you wanted to do it as well so decide what you want to do just keep calm and keep your head up high.Goodluck!
x0x-kt
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hey hun! well right now the choice is all up to you..not to put you on any pressure or anything..but before you make any decision..make sure you are readi and that you can live with your decision for the rest of your life. because when you are scared to have sex..that means you aren't ready. so please make sure you are so you don't regret doing this. your heart will tell you when the right time is. so just follow your heart and all will be good! =) good luck and i'm here if you need anymore advice!
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You're lucky to have a boyfriend who respects you enough to let you make your own decisions. It's hard making decision about how far to go with people, but here's some things which might help:
Most relationships started in the teen years, particularly the early teen years, are not going to last. It's practically a guarantee.
The sooner sexual intercourse starts, the sooner you have to deal with protecting yourself from pregnancy and diseases.
The chances of developing cervical cancer are dramatically increased - the earlier you have sex, the better your chances of getting it.
Sex will change your relationship, and there is no way to be absolutely sure it will change for the better.
Once you have sex with one guy, it's easier to have it with the next one that comes along. Eventually, you'll find someone really special and probably regret that you've already had sex.
If you are nervous and/or scared, it's a pretty solid sign that you really aren't ready to have sex. I applaud you for asking for help about this area - it's a very big decision to make, and if you are truly ready, there wouldn't be any huge doubts or fears.
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You have a great guy if he will wait. I think maybe you should wait until you aren't scared or anything. Until you are positivly ready and comfortable. And he would understand, you aren't in a hurry. Take your time and do it when you're ready. Best wishes -Britty-
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Well of course he wants to, he's a guy. To be honest, I'd say that if you have any doubt at all, then don't have sex with him. Sure, he seems nice now and everything is just sunshine and rainbows because he says he'll wait as long as you want, but that isn't always the case. Wow, that last sentence came out completely... scary. Anyways, Doubt is a bad thing, so if you have any - then wait longer. If you do decide to have sex, at least be safe and take a visit to the doctor.
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hey you don't need to rush into anything that you might regret someday. if it's ment to be it will happen. Sex is nothing to be scared of
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If you want to have sex with him, then be sure that you really want to do it. Start things off slow, don't let him jackhammer you or anything. It'll hurt the first time. If it hurts too much for you to continue, just tell him so. If he's understanding, then you can just try again later. I just advise you to take it slow and be in control of the situation. You tell him what hurts or what feels good. Good luck babe.
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