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not exactly sure what to do...
okay hey heres how it goes... I'm gunna be movin inna month. ([ to King Of Perssia ]).. Is there anyone that lives down there.. ? [( im gunna be movin 8 miles away from the king of perrisa mall )]?!im going to the highschool in 9th grade..
but heres my question..
I've been going with my boyfriend for 8 months! And i love so much words cant explain how much i love him..and he loves me too [ the same way ] .. as you can see this is a SERIOUS relationship...we've done alot of stuff. [sex] [jerkin off] [and lotzZz more] shitt the sex is good :-)... [ lemme get back to my question ] but we talked about whats gunna happen when i move and everything.. and we decided to stay with eachother. But im still scared! I know im gunna be seein him and talkin to him on the phone and everything, hes gunna be allowed to stay over my house.. but the thing is... there is alot of gurls and guys that is hatin on me and my boyfriend.. and they always be startin shit to get us to break up.. it worked once but as you see we worked it out and are still together..but i know the second i move all these gurls that are hatin on me are gunna be all up on his dick! and tellin him lies and shit so he can break up with me. i already got in fights with these gurls and hes gotten into fights with some guys.. and its just to much drama..but I dont wanna break up with him but from where i live now to where im moving to is like 45mins away. (im 15) But do you think i should break up with him or trust him.. see i know that he wouldnt do anythin to hurt me.And i told him that if he hears something that he doesnt like that he should come to me and see if its true. But he tells me everyday "your not gunna hear and words come out my mouth that were gunna break up / i wanna be with you for the rest of my life / you my heart" - and he wants me to have a baby with him.. but im just confuse what i should do.. should i stay with him.. like i dont even know i just need help on what i should do please help me.. ill rate..
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Okay! HAVE YOU LOST YOUR EVER LASTING MIND? WHY R YOU EVEN HAVING SEX. YOU ARE A CHILD. HOW ABOUT YOU KEEP YOUR HOT TAIL IN SCHOOL, DO YOUR WORK AND GRADUATE FROM HIGH SCHOOL FIRST. THEN YOU CAN WORRY ABOUT HAVING SEX. IF YOU PARENTS KNOW ABOUT THIS SO CALLED RELATIONSHIP, THEY NEED TO BE COMMITTED OR PUT IN JAIL FOR CHILD ABUSE. KEEP YOUR LEGS CLOSE WORRY ABOUT YOUR FUTURE AND NOT SEX. OH, AND THAT HAVING A BABY THING, YOU NEED TO CAN THAT IDEA. REMEMBER YOU ARE A CHILD. A BABY DOES NOT NEED A CHILD FOR A PARENT. YOU CAN ONLY WORK PART-TIME LIL GIRL AND PART TIME DOES NOT KEEP FOOD IN YOUR CHILDS MOUTH OR YOUR COULD GET ON WELFARE HAVE THE WORLD TAKE CARE YOUR SORRY ASS AND YOUR CHILD. GW STANDS FOR GROWN ASS WOMEN. WHEN THEN SEX AND A CHILD.....HAVE A NICE DAY.
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Long distance relationships = hard.
You can always give it a shot, though =) Good luck!
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i lived in NY and moved to texas... it lasted one month... yeah... its really hard... i wish i could help but i cant.. just dont get your hopes up to much! sorry!
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i think yu guys shuld stay together... becuz nuttin or no one can tear real love apart... yu guys have trust in each other... nd thas that all that matters...he cleary loves yu way too much to let anyone fuck up yall relationship... nd tha same for yu... so stay wid him... im sure things will work out perfectly...dun let anyone ever try to ruin yall relationship... yu 2 can be suttin that none of those other be can be... they jus jealous ass ppl...cuz they dun got wha ya got nd thas real luv -haley
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I think that you should trust him......because
1. if you love him as much as you say you do your supposed to trust him
2.if he loves you as much as he says then he should no wat to believe and wat not to believe....besides he cant cheat on you if he wants to be with you for the rest of your life.
3. dont worry about the haters they just jelous of wat they dont have..
4.so thats my advice......i suggest you stay toghether..........trust each other...and dont worry about wat other people say....
5..if some1 says something that really bothers you then you should confront him about it.......
k!
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aww i think you should stay with him.. from what you tell us theres not many guys out there like him.. dont worry about thoes people who wana break yall up.. i think you and your bf will work it through!..but maybe you should wait until your married with the whole baby thing. that might be a little tough lol.. so anyway you can always see your bf .. maybe even a couple times a week. your only 45 min away? its not like its 3 hours or anything.. i hope i helped you.. and i hope yall stay together a long time! <3
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Okay, well its great that your bf cares about you, and wants tostay togther. but you are only 15, so my advice to you is to hold off on that whole "baby" thing. but as for your situation. dont worry about those haters. some people just have nothing better to do then try to make other people lives hell cuz thiers is. but it seems like your bf knows that. so stop stressin, things will work out.
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aww ive been thro all that .. i know exactly how you feel.. you should just follow your heart.. and just tone those gurls out.. and if you both love eacother as much as you say you do then whats the problem youll deff make it thro.. just keep your head up.. and if your gunna be seeing him then its all good.. you both trust eachother and communicate.. and thats the most important thing in a relationship and you too have it.. fate brought yall together.. just work it out.. and for get about the catsz that are hatin on you.. hope i helped / missxundaxzt00d / <3 Nicicole
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If u both love each other as much as u say you do then just because ur moving shouldnt matter if your meant to be then nothing will happened between u to al u nedd is trust and if u both have that then u have nothing to worry about!
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i lived up in king of prussia for a year.. my friends and stuff live up there.. but im back in philly now. youre probably going to upper merion then, i suppose?
i think you should stay with him and try to work things out. if you live like 45 minutes away, he probably lives in philly then? well if so, it wont be hard to see each other that much. i had to go through that when i moved back to philly and he lives in kop. we had to go back and forth to see each other. if you guys truly love each other, you guys can make it work. anythings possible.. and hey, if yal dont drive, and he does live in philly, the 124 and 125 buses take you back and forth to philly and king of prussia
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well kop is pretty boring, and really suburban. there isnt much to do there besides shopping at the mall and going to like walker field. theres parties down there, most of the time, since theres never anything to do around there. youre just going to have to make friends who knows how to have fun and like to party and not sit around and be boring. how old are you anyways? when you live in kop, youre going to need a car to get everywhere cause there arent any sidewalks. and its all bunch of roads and shit. yeah, i went to a school up there called upper merion. i guess i know a lot of people there. youll get along fine with the people. some arent too bad. i was there for my sophmore year and part of my junior year. you have any more questions, just send me a message to my inbox.
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if your going into 9th grade, huni your a little too young to be doing that stuff with your boyfriend. sorry but its the truth. he thinks he can get it whenever and thats not right. he wants to have a baby with you? N0 thats a lie boys tell. get rid of him and start a new life where your moving to, thats the best thing to do. trust me on all this, i've been through it.
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Hunny i know what you are going thro i went thro it but the best thing is to believe him if you love him so much i mean hes going to tell you the truth and everything like he says i mean you have to believe the guy and stay with him i mean when your not close to him youll be thinking about him and your love for him will get even stronger trust me i hope that you believe him i know i have always believed in my bf and were still goin strong after 4 years
-Cass-
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