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I've been through alot when it comes to boyfriends and long distance and friends... not to mention family...... I've got a boyfriend and i know what its like to be in love.... i love helpin people through things that i went through.. or not... cuz i know how much it would had been awsome if i had some help gettin through it!



J U S T be Y O U R S E L F if thats not good enough for T H E M then T H E Y arnt good enough for Y O U

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okay im a 14 almost 15 year old girl and me and this guy dated for 8 months. it was a really good relationship for the first 7 months but then we started to get into big fights. but it was really never my fault. hes the one who started it. and he admited it. well, he broke up with me a little over 8 months. yeah i was sad and i wanted to still be friends so we still talked and hoped to still hang out. well about a week after we broke up i started talking to this guy.. um.. lets just call him "my friend". (?) anyways.. my friend lives right by me so he walked to my house like everyday and we'd hang out. some how my ex got my friends screenname and started being a jerk to him. im talkin tellin him hes gay and a loser and has stupid friends and is stupid and all that junk. well, my ex was like who the hell do you hang out with? and my friends like your ex girlfriend for one. and my ex is all talkin bad about me and stuff which actually really hurt. but my friend stood up for me cause hes sweet and a really good friend. then my ex decided he was gonna fight my friend. not cool at all. but anyways... my ex is really really mean to me and all now that schools started. but my friends still like him. why i do not know because he was always mean to them. i just think he hangs out with them because he has no friends of his own. but i dont know what to do about this. they still wanna hang out with him but dont around me because they know i dont get along with him. i really wanna be cool with each other for my friends sake... but i refuse to talk to him because of all he said about me. what do i do??? (sorry this isnt brief. i couldnt explain it short)

ok.. well it sounds like your ex just turned into a major jerk... i dont get why he would IM and fight you friend if he wasnt jelouse... i think his hole thing is a big show to make everyone think that he doesnt care about you anymore... that kinda stuff happends alot!... and you dont have to be friends with him just because your friends are.. i meen... i wouldnt be friends with him if he was that big of a jerk to you!!... but if you have to be friends with him then just tolorate him when your friends are around.. but you dont have to deal with him anyother time... but if being his friend will make you upset.. then dont do it!!!

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Im attracted to mr. clean i always have been. and im only 13 idk, theres somthing about a nice, bald shinny head that turns me on. what should i do?

ehhhh................ like himmmmm............. little....odd.. but nothing wrong with that................................ haha .. um.... g/l... lol

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ok, i dont know exactly how to get a reputaion of sum kind in 6th grade. I have a popular friend that i dont usualy hang out with. should i start hanging out with her in order to get kool. or not?

NO! if thats the reason your hangin out with her.. thats insane! but if you really like hanging out with her then sure..... POPULARITY ISNT ANYTHING.. it comes and goes so fast.. dont get wrapped up in it... if people dont like you for you dont bother with them!

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Me: I really wonder why guys have been hittin on me lately lol
Him: u realli wanna know that
Him: cuz i'll tell u
Me: ok lol
Him: cuz
Him: ur
Him: HOTT!!!!
Him: duh
Me: aww lol
Me: why cant guys go for my personality? its alright if they wanna go for my looks but then they could playas
Him: I'd go for both
Me: lol

Is he flirtin or just talkin? There's more convos where he says sweet things like that but I just chose this one.

THAT WAY FLIRTING ... enough said

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I want to start wearing eye-liner and I don't know exactly where on my eye I put it - and what are the good brands. Pencil/Liquid? I'll rate you!

what i do is.... if you loook in a mirror.. you kindof have a little "shelf" above your eyelashjes on the bottom and then under them on the top... i put it on there... it takes some getting used to.. but you have to like pull it away from your eyeball and draw it on there.... i use esta lauder... but thats kindof expensive.. cover girl isnt to bad and the y are good too

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Hey there everyone! I'm a 16 yr old female and I am a virgin. I am in no way thinking of having sex or asking if i'm too young to or anything, this has to deal more with the future. I am going to wait to have sex until I find a special person, it doesn't really matter if I am married or not. But, I'm afraid that the longer I hold out, it's going to be harder and harder to find a guy that's a virgin also, because it seems like there are none left. So I was wondering if it's silly of me to think that there is a guy out there that is a virgin that I will find somewhere down the road as I get older. Or stop being silly about it and not care?

ehh... chances are that the "right guy" will think like you too... and it prolly wont matter if he is a vergin or not if you love him and he loves you... my advise would be... you should wait till your married and in love.. trust me

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ive never kissed a guy before and all my friends have, im scared people will call me frigid and fall out with me.

has any one got any tips 4 me??

dont worry about kissing! it doesnt matter.. just when you find the right guy... you will want to kiss him allteh time and he will want to kiss you.. trust me.. i have been wayy to far with people and i wish that i had never kissed a guy till i found my boyfriend now.. it would b awsome.. lol.. goodluck!! and dont worry about what your friends have done and you havent!!! thats called peer preasure.. and its dumb.. lol dont follow the crowed.. go ur own way!

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okay hey heres how it goes... I'm gunna be movin inna month. ([ to King Of Perssia ]).. Is there anyone that lives down there.. ? [( im gunna be movin 8 miles away from the king of perrisa mall )]?!im going to the highschool in 9th grade..

but heres my question..

I've been going with my boyfriend for 8 months! And i love so much words cant explain how much i love him..and he loves me too [ the same way ] .. as you can see this is a SERIOUS relationship...we've done alot of stuff. [sex] [jerkin off] [and lotzZz more] shitt the sex is good :-)... [ lemme get back to my question ] but we talked about whats gunna happen when i move and everything.. and we decided to stay with eachother. But im still scared! I know im gunna be seein him and talkin to him on the phone and everything, hes gunna be allowed to stay over my house.. but the thing is... there is alot of gurls and guys that is hatin on me and my boyfriend.. and they always be startin shit to get us to break up.. it worked once but as you see we worked it out and are still together..but i know the second i move all these gurls that are hatin on me are gunna be all up on his dick! and tellin him lies and shit so he can break up with me. i already got in fights with these gurls and hes gotten into fights with some guys.. and its just to much drama..but I dont wanna break up with him but from where i live now to where im moving to is like 45mins away. (im 15) But do you think i should break up with him or trust him.. see i know that he wouldnt do anythin to hurt me.And i told him that if he hears something that he doesnt like that he should come to me and see if its true. But he tells me everyday "your not gunna hear and words come out my mouth that were gunna break up / i wanna be with you for the rest of my life / you my heart" - and he wants me to have a baby with him.. but im just confuse what i should do.. should i stay with him.. like i dont even know i just need help on what i should do please help me.. ill rate..

i lived in NY and moved to texas... it lasted one month... yeah... its really hard... i wish i could help but i cant.. just dont get your hopes up to much! sorry!

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hey! i was just wondering if anyone who's willing would give me ONE sentence on what the best part of being a teenager is for them cuz i want to make a list and i think it would be really cute!! thanks

the best part of being a teenager is falling in love for the first time when you thought it would never come!

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I REALLY like this guy named kyle and he goes to my school. and he likes me too! and ive only talked to him for a week but i have gotten to know him REALLY well and have have LOTS in-common, and im still waiting to get to know him more but if i really like him and he really likes me should i tell him that i love him even if were not going out?? please help because i want to tell him but i dont know if it is to early or not!
(im 14)

dont tellhim you love him unless you really really really mean it... love isnt just something you say to someone you like alot.. and im the kind of girl that deff. belives at love at first sight.. but maybe yall should go out.. wait a week or so then tell him how you feel.. if you got it bad for him and u realy really love him as in.. you think about him 24/7 and you look at him like you've never lookjed at anyone before.. then sure... what you feel is what you feel and he should know how you feel!

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okay so i met this guy when i went to mexico and he was really nice and we talked alot and made out once... but n e ways i haven't talked to him in a year! and i got his sn from my cuzin so finnally he came online and i sent him and i.m saying..."hey sexy wuts up? do you knoe who this is?" and he hasn't answered for over like 10 minutes! y wont he talk to me!! should i tell him who i am? or just wait for him to send me sumthing back cuz i don't wanna be all like hello? hello? hello? hello? cuz then ill sound dessperate and annoying! so help me asap before he signs off!

tell him who you are!
quick!

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ok here it goes: ok..i LOVE to write stories, poems, and song lyrics..like it's fun (the idea of doing it). I try but i just dont get anything good. Any tips?? thAnKs

being able to write songs and poems and stories is all about talent.. im not saying that you cant practivce and do it.... i mean... its a hard thing to do.. it takes a while to write a goood song... and poems take a while too.. stories.. i wouldnt know about.. but just when something pops in your head that sounds cool... write it down... and then just always keep it in the back of your mind and when you here something else thats cool... write taht down and add on... trust me.. it works

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I am the tallest girl(13) in our grade... and i feel like no guys wanna go out with me because im taller then them i dunno what to do i am afraid to ask guys out because of rejection and i sometimes feel akward in school what should i do?

dont worry... your just 12... the guys will be taller than you in a year or two.. lol... and you shouldnt be worried about their reaction! just go for it! really!! if they say no... in a couple of years.. they will be BeGgInG for you! i mean.. ya your tall i mean wow.. 5.9 is tall for a 12 year old.. but girls mature faster and get growth spurts sooner than guys... just look at it as .. .your just wayy to mature for them :-) good luck

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so what happends when you really love a guy and you know you do... but even your best friend thinks that he is ganna be another one of your short timers.... but thats the last thing you want with him... and you feel like hes the only person you could ever be with again cuz hes amazing... but no one will belive you....?

wow... that is a awsome question... and one that is really hard to answer.... well.... it sounds like you really love him... but i wouldnt jump to the "only person you ever wanna be with" thing just yet... i mean... your not quite grown up yet! so take your time and see whats out there! and trust me !!! i know exactly what you mean.. and i tell my self not to get my hopes up about forever just yet.... but anyways... you should talk to your bestfriend and other friends... i mean if you really like this guy.. then just dont worry about what other people say/think... trust me on this one.. go with your heart and ignore everything else but common sence! ok! but i wayy wish you luck with him.. it sounds like yall could work out.... and i know what it feels like to wanna b with someone forever... but just dont get to wrapped up in it... save time for your friends too.. i learned this the hard way!

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my friend's parents dont think that teens know what love is so shes getting as many people as she can to tell her what they think about love and stuff like that. but she doesnt have that many people. if some of you could please help and tell what you think about love then please do. thanks.

wow... well.. i belive that it doesnt matter how old you are.. if you feel love then its really there... parents and other people just say that we dont know waht it is because they are scared and dont want us to know what it is... plus sometimes some people feel alot of like.. and its not love.. but they havent expeianced love... so they use it out of term.. so her parents may be thinking about that too... but anyways... derr of course teens can know what love is.... just because some people use it out of term doesnt mean that we are stupid and dont know what it is! parents just need to relize that we can have the same feelings that they do

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Well I have a friend named skip that lives in the apartment next door to my friend kathys. I used to go to kathys place about every other day. So I would always see skip and hang out with him. He was really nice and fun, and so I had a crush on him. But, I really didn’t wanna go out with him, so I just wanted to be his friend. (When he found out I liked him, he developed a crush on me, lol)

Well I flunked the 8th grade so I had to go to summer school this summer. So did skip. Skip sat next to me in both classes. After a while he would ALWAYS be touching me, poking me, grabbing me, bitting me, sloppering on me, trying to hold my hand, constantly talking to me while the teacher was talking, spitting all over my pencils, and putting his effing hand in front of my book while I was reading. All of those things were a real turn off, so I stopped liking him. I’d always tell him to quit messing with me and stuff, and he just wouldn’t do it. So I would get REALLY pissed off at him, then he’d be all mad at me cause I was mad at him. He felt like he wasn’t doing anything wrong. Bullshit. So he’d be all upset which made me feel bad and all depressed and stuff. I didn’t even like him as a friend anymore at one point… he made me sooooo angry all the time, I just hated him.

Now that summer school is over and stuff, we don’t really get a chance to see eachother anymore. And I still want to be his friend.. but im kind of debating between that. I mean I wanna be his friend, but just all the stuff that he did and how angry he made me are stuck in the back of my mind, and get me really pissed.

So, my question is should I still be his friend considering how angry he makes and has made me?

Thanks..

if you wanna be his friend... but he is annoying.... why would you want an annoying friend.. i mean... if hes really cool n stuff then thats awsome... and well.. idk.. why dont you just talk to him and tell him how you feel.. like thats really a book answer.. but still... if you really wanna be his friend.. your ganna have to talk to him.... having guy friends is really hard sometimes.. especially when ther has been a crush or more between yall before cuz i guess guys forget taht girls can stop liking people just the same as they do so they always try and flirt.. and friends arnt saposed to flirt and.. well.. in this case... droll on your... pencils... by the way... thats really weird!.. lol.. good luck!

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okay this is an extreamly random question but the other night i was watcing the movie french kiss and for those of you who've seen it the french guy luke he said that when he first fell in love with a prostitute that he had to pay more money to kiss her than to have sex with her... why is that?

ok thats a good.. but yes.. random question... but he didnt want to have sex with her cuz he loved her and that wasnt everything... he just wanted to be with her.. so he still paid money for the sex.. but he didnt have sex.. get it?

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