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An annoying friend
Well I have a friend named skip that lives in the apartment next door to my friend kathys. I used to go to kathys place about every other day. So I would always see skip and hang out with him. He was really nice and fun, and so I had a crush on him. But, I really didn’t wanna go out with him, so I just wanted to be his friend. (When he found out I liked him, he developed a crush on me, lol)
Well I flunked the 8th grade so I had to go to summer school this summer. So did skip. Skip sat next to me in both classes. After a while he would ALWAYS be touching me, poking me, grabbing me, bitting me, sloppering on me, trying to hold my hand, constantly talking to me while the teacher was talking, spitting all over my pencils, and putting his effing hand in front of my book while I was reading. All of those things were a real turn off, so I stopped liking him. I’d always tell him to quit messing with me and stuff, and he just wouldn’t do it. So I would get REALLY pissed off at him, then he’d be all mad at me cause I was mad at him. He felt like he wasn’t doing anything wrong. Bullshit. So he’d be all upset which made me feel bad and all depressed and stuff. I didn’t even like him as a friend anymore at one point… he made me sooooo angry all the time, I just hated him.
Now that summer school is over and stuff, we don’t really get a chance to see eachother anymore. And I still want to be his friend.. but im kind of debating between that. I mean I wanna be his friend, but just all the stuff that he did and how angry he made me are stuck in the back of my mind, and get me really pissed.
So, my question is should I still be his friend considering how angry he makes and has made me?
Thanks..
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tell him that u still really wanna be his friend and that you really didnt even wanna be at summer school and they he was being really annoying/immature and that u just wanted to get thro summer school...
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Well I think you should talk to him about this..Tell skip that you dont have a crush on him and you just want to be friends. Tell him that you dont like it when he trys to flirt with you and you get mad at him for doing that. If he understands then you should be friends but if he continues to keep touching you I woudlnt. Good luck! -Jenny
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Well I would sit face to face and tell him... "Look, I really want to be your friend... But I DONT want to be ANYTHING more... At all. I feel really uncomfortable when you flirt with me and stuff and I would really, really appreciate it if we can still be friends with out it". Then see what he has to say about it... If things don't change, maybe you should back away a little. But if things do change he obviosly respects your feelings... Good luck :) -Britty-
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if you wanna be his friend... but he is annoying.... why would you want an annoying friend.. i mean... if hes really cool n stuff then thats awsome... and well.. idk.. why dont you just talk to him and tell him how you feel.. like thats really a book answer.. but still... if you really wanna be his friend.. your ganna have to talk to him.... having guy friends is really hard sometimes.. especially when ther has been a crush or more between yall before cuz i guess guys forget taht girls can stop liking people just the same as they do so they always try and flirt.. and friends arnt saposed to flirt and.. well.. in this case... droll on your... pencils... by the way... thats really weird!.. lol.. good luck!
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maybe tell him that you dont have feelings for him nymore... maybe he'll stop and everything willbe back to normal. and you wouldnt hate him anymore.
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Well, I don't think it would be a bad thing to give him a second chance, and you can neveR have too many fRiends!! Hope I helped! =D
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