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confused i have this one friend... lets call her Liz.. Liz always used to come over my house, we always used to hang out.. there wasnt a day where we werent together.. cuz she lives rite down tha road.. but all of a sudden.. this summer.. she never comes over..she never calls.. n i never hear from her.. then i found out she was hangin w/ another girl that was a few years younger \than us.. I TOTALLY DONT MIND THAT but i mean i never see her any more.. the girl she hangs out with doesnt like me so i dont bother hangin out with them wen they r together.. but i feel like mah 2nd half has been torn away!
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Ali
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I would talk to "Liz" and c what she cs n the girl.. mayb if u started hangin out with her then u could hang out with Liz again and gain a new friend! I hope i helped!! ]
Talk to her about it... and if she doesnt seem to do anything about or care... try to make new friends... sumtiimes people move on and u cant really do anything about it... dont feel sad about it either... cuz things will work out for u in the end... if things dont work out than its not that end... :) ]
Just tell your friend how you feel about her hangin out with this girl. she will understand. ]
Well I think you should talk to her. Growing apart from loved ones is always hard, but it indeed happens sometimes. Maybe you should talk to her about how you're feeling, and if things don't change.. Try to find new pals. I would talk to her new friend to, ask her why she has a problem with you and try to solve it. Best wishes -Britty- ]
HI. i understand what you mean. why dont you call Liz up and be like Liz can we talk because i really need to talk to someone about this and your the perfect person...can you come over please...[[alone]]...and when she does tell her that you feel left out (if you feel that way) and ask her why she didnt let you kno that she was hanging out with a different person...you kno things that you wanna clear up on ask her! and see what she says..i'm sure since you guys are so close that she would tell you. and maybe you can get to kno the younger girl a little more besides that the fact that she hates you...she probably just doesnt kno you...i think she doesnt hate you.. =) and get to kno her and then you guys can all hang out...you never kno you might be the new girsl best friend..need anything else contact me...Take Care..Hope I Helped! x3 SweetStar. ]
Call her!!..Any time you can just call her and ask her if she wants to hang out. She'll probably get tired of being with someone younger then her. They can be annoying sometimes..But talk to her about it. ]
This exact thing happend to me. I know this is going to hurt but you have to try and make other friends becsuse other wise your going to be left alone and broken just like i was i understand you just want to be friends with "liz" but she may not want that and in order to have some form of a relationship with her its better off just to let this new friendship run its course she may come back to you sorry and she may not which is why you need to be prepared for rejection THIS IS NOT YOUR FAULT so dont even start thinking it was somethin you did that made he ditch you . i hope i helped ]
If "Liz" is older as u said, then she will get tired of her- not being able to talk about school or boys or anything that u and her used to talk about, so she'll get tired of her and wish she was hangin' with u again. That's what happened to me- only a lil different- cuz a new lil girl moved into our neighborhood and she was soooo cute and my best friend and i both wanted her to like us better than the other- so we fought over her- and we got jealous of each other- and then we realized that the grl was really just an annoying little kid- so we made up and now we're friends again. I hope u and ur friend can work this out. U just need the courage to forgive her once the time comes when she is tired of her. ]
well tell her!! call her up and just tell her that you guys havent hung out in a while like you used to and you want to start hangin out and doing stuff together again!!! im sure she would be thrilled to hear from ya!!! ]
You just gotta jump in theRe!! Tell youR fRiend how you feel! Let heR know how you'd appReciate it if she would spend moRe time with you, and even invite you to do things with this otheR giRl! I'm not shoRe why you don't like the otheR giRl, but ya neveR know.. a fRiendship could blossom!! I wish you the veRy best of luck!! Hope I helped!! =D ]
talk to her, ask her why she stopped hangin' with you and try to talk to the girl who doesnt like you and work things out with her. SHe may not like you because of a misunderstanding ]
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