I REALLY like this guy named kyle and he goes to my school. and he likes me too! and ive only talked to him for a week but i have gotten to know him REALLY well and have have LOTS in-common, and im still waiting to get to know him more but if i really like him and he really likes me should i tell him that i love him even if were not going out?? please help because i want to tell him but i dont know if it is to early or not!
(im 14)
Mackenzie answered Thursday August 12 2004, 4:41 pm: Should you tell him you "love" him? No.. absolutely not. If you like him, and he doesn't know.. go ahead and tell him that, just don't use the woRd "love". And if you two "Really like" each otheR, how come someone doesn't step up and ask the otheR out? Hope I helped!! =D [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
TinahOfCourse answered Thursday August 12 2004, 3:21 am: Oh wow. First of all, not trying to be critical but how can you totally love someone within a week? Eh. Well, I guess that's not my place, but I love you is suppose to be used if you really mean it. I believe you should wait. I'm sure ya'll like each other a lot, but why say you love him when ya'll haven't even gone out yet? Anyway, be good and have fun. [ TinahOfCourse's advice column | Ask TinahOfCourse A Question ]
dancer4life answered Thursday August 12 2004, 12:48 am: You should wait....I love you are 3 very strong words. You should use them with extreme caution. You should get to know him better. See how it goes and see how he feels too. Hope I helped! [ dancer4life's advice column | Ask dancer4life A Question ]
LaLa34lismchle answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 10:45 pm: u havent gotten to kno him that much in a week but theres nothing wrong with that at all ....dont tell him u love him because that could scare him away. and also im not sure if ull get responses saying u dont love him that ur onli 14 but whether its love or not u realli like him alot and everyone always says they love eachother so i just wanna say dont listen to people who say that ...listen to what your heart feels and move slow that way it will make every moment seem better ......good luck! [ LaLa34lismchle's advice column | Ask LaLa34lismchle A Question ]
DeeplyInLove102203 answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 10:39 pm: Dont tell some one u love thme if u dont mean it u kno i mean u may like him A LOT but it iznt the same cuz u aint goin out wid him so u dont kno him as well as u would if u were goin out wid him i mean if use do go out and afta u get to kno the "REAL" him u will no when it iz time to say i love u 2 each otha and when u love some one u juss kno but juss maek sure he duznt get freaked out if u say i love u to him u kno find out how he feels bout u first!!! Hope i helped if ya need n e thing else drop 1 in the inbox!!!
s0cceris4me answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 10:02 pm: No! Love is not a word to be used just because, especially when your only 14 years old. If you both like eachother, that's great, be boyfriend and girlfriend, but don't get into the whole "I love you" thing. [ s0cceris4me's advice column | Ask s0cceris4me A Question ]
BewareOfCat2 answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 9:54 pm: I wouldn't. It's a little too early to be sharing things like that, plus if you don't know him to the very last bit you might be wrong. It might also kinda scare him. [ BewareOfCat2's advice column | Ask BewareOfCat2 A Question ]
Fall_in_love_once answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 9:40 pm: dont tellhim you love him unless you really really really mean it... love isnt just something you say to someone you like alot.. and im the kind of girl that deff. belives at love at first sight.. but maybe yall should go out.. wait a week or so then tell him how you feel.. if you got it bad for him and u realy really love him as in.. you think about him 24/7 and you look at him like you've never lookjed at anyone before.. then sure... what you feel is what you feel and he should know how you feel! [ Fall_in_love_once's advice column | Ask Fall_in_love_once A Question ]
xO0cAnDiCe answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 9:33 pm: no it's not early .. i mean its not a life changing decision .. ya kno? .. i went out w. this kid who like i barely knew he went to the academy and i went to jmms .. but like i lyked himm and we went out in lyk a week or two after only tlkin and stuff // so it's perfectly fine and we worked out great .. i jst fucked it up but yea .. ya kno .. so like go for it =)
iLjaG answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 9:31 pm: Love isn't just a word you should throw around. Only tell him you do when it is obvious he loves you back. A way you can know when you are truly in love with someone is if you would do anything for him/her, and won't let anything get between the two of you. Only then should you say you love him. [ iLjaG's advice column | Ask iLjaG A Question ]
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