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E-mail: candicecapotorto@yahoo.com
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Age: 16
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Last Monday we were assigned a paper about something we've failed at and how it affected us. It was due Friday.


I thought about it all of last week and quite honesty, I've never really failed at anything. The only thing I could come up with was freshman year when I got a B in Geometry when I wanted an A and I'm not kidding. So I asked my teacher if I could write about that. She said I could if I wanted an F.


So I decided that I would think about it a little more over the weekend and turn it in for a late grade on Monday.


I thought about it over the weekend--nothing. So I wrote it on how I've never failed at anything and how that makes me feel about my life. I went into depth just like the other students and it was 4 pages long.


Today, she asked me to stay after class. She told me that she gave me a zero because I did not write about what I was supposed to write and that if I don't write about something I FAILED at by tomorrow, she'd keep that zero and not change it.


I think this is way unfair because what I wrote about was true and it was still on topic. I know it wasn't exactly what she asked but what else was I supposed to do? I'm not going to make something up because I'm not good at that and I won't.


What do guys think I should do?

well . if you really feel that you have never failed at anything then make it up . i mean half my papers i write are lies because it's easier to imagine things bc they never happened and you can write whatever you want

&& if you want to be a smartass you should write about how you failed that paper and since you did you now have something to write about

but you could always say you failed at a sport . maybe like you had some important game and your team did bad and you were having an off day or you let your parents/family/friends down because you wanted to do something else instead of helping them .. just improvisee good luckk!!

xoo candice

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ok this is a ? for the chicas... do girls like guys that are like medium sized and like really ripped? or do they like big bulkyness? jus been wonderin 15/m

well .. it depends on the girl .. but i like a guy for his persoality .. and he has to be like strong .. not ripped and into his body that he has no time for you .. just built a little and string .. hope i helped =)

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Hey Im getting braces in a week.. i was wondering if there was anything i should do to prevent the pain.. or to get rid of the pain.. or could somebody jsut tell me how much pain there even really is? cuz i get different answers from like everyone i ask.. i just wanna be prepared. I know i should take advil before getting them put on, and i should bring chapstick with me.. any more advice? Oh and btw.. what color should i get lol i was thinking pink cuz i thought it might be cute? or would pink be too babyish for a 15 yr old? thanks ill rate!!

okay .. well i have braces and i'm 14 i'll be 15 in january .. and i got them on when i was 13 .. well i didn't kno how painful it was gonna be .. they tell u not to eat b4 u go .. but u should b.c ur front teeth will hurt the most and u can barely bite into things - eat soft foods .. and at lunch in school will be hard .. french fries were hard for me but like you should b ok .. stickk to potatoes corn pudding yogurt .. stuff like that .. for some reason myn hurt for longer then most people .. like 4weeks .. but most people the pain lasts a week er two .. or less - as for the color i always get hot pink .. it makes ur teeth look evn whiter and it's not babyish at all - good luck =)

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I'm sure this question has been asked before.. but never have I found someone that gives a useful answer!! So here goes again!
EVERYTIME I try to upload a picture.. no matter how small the pic.. I get the SAME message!

Settings changed successfully!

You tried to upload a picture, but it was greater than 15K in filesize so it wasn't uploaded.

How can I make sure my picture is under 15K?! I keep trying to make it smaller.. but I still cant get it!! Please help me upload my picture!!

when u save it u save it like (.gif) .. like mine would be saved .. candice.gif and it works .. i had that problem too .. good luck

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Whenever i straighten my hair, there's always a dent from the straightener @ the roots (where my part is). How do i get rid of the dent/prevent it? thanks i rate high!!

tke ur straightner and get as close as u can to the roots - if u still have a line .. put ur fingers through ur hair and like brush it back .. and brush both sides of your hair at once and that schould do the trick .. good luck =)

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How do you get rid of freckles?

umm .. you can't - i have tons and there is no way you're going to get them off .. just deall with it .. a little foundation may help .. but well they're not oging newhere

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im going out with this guy that goes to a different school. i see him only about twice a month and i dont think our relationship will last. is there anything i can do to see him more often because i really really like him.

thanx.

well .. i go out with a guy who goes to a diff school .. but we see each other more .. if we can see each other over the week we'll do something over the weekend - introduce ur parents so they kno each other and feel comfortable letting you guys get together during the school week - talk on the fone like very day .. not like some long conversation mayb 5 er 10 minutes and you should do find .. good luck

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i hurt my arm the other day and it's broken... i don't want to go to a doctor.. what can i do to get it healed

ahh nothing .. you need to see a doctor

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k..my friend is out of town right now and i like her boyfriend..the other day we madeout in his truck when he drove me home..and we've been hanging out a lot since she left for thanksgiving..i feel really guilty but i just cant get him off of my mind..i like him way too much..and i dunno what to do!..i swear im gunna end up going crazy..what should i do??

well .. first of all that's really low and just don't count on her being your friend anymore .. or at least for a while - but i mean u lost a friend but if he likes you i don't think it matters b.c she's not ur friend so it doesnt matter

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ok so,i play like every sport there is except rugby and football...cuz im a girl...all my friends say that im amazimg cuz when i get home from school iu do my homework get online then sports the rest of the night..but sometimes i goto basketball then to soccer then to lacrosse then to swimming. everyone says that i should quiet mayb 3 sports and only havge like 3 sports to do...should i quit? but i always have time for them...i rate REALLY high..*but it has to be good please!)

there's no suck thing as too many sports .. i'm just like you and i've been on all these teams since i was 4 .. don't worry about it .. im a freshemn in high school and a honors student and i can do it all .. i mean it gets hard when u need to do things in a row and nevr get a break but i mean it's good for you .. good luck

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there is this guy at my school who is the same age as me. sadly he is in a diffrent homeroom. he first found out that i liked him when my young yet stupid teacher went and told him that i thought he was hot. my teacher found out that i thought this guy was hot when we were talking about how he is such a good basketrball player, anywho...... out of nowhere i was like yeah that kid is hot and my teacher old him and he said that bret said he was flattered. now i do;nt know if he likes me or what. at gym when ever my volleyball misteriously rolls over to him he just lets it roll right on by. today (11/17) he picked it up and he gave it to me. other days if he knows it is mine he will kick it or pick it up and drop it. i dont know if he is shy or what. this other girl likes him to but i dont think he knows. i know that i am in jr high and things arent the same as 4th or 5th grade like when you tell a boy that u like them and they start to like you but maybe it still is. i really think he is cute but i dont know much about him but i just want to get to know him without comeing off as one of those creepy stalker types. i dont know how to get his attention because i am very shy around cute guys and in his case is is dead sexi! how do i get to know him or atleaset make a conversation even how to make him say hi! just for info.... i am not going to go all girly and try to impress him with my clothes that is so 6th grade and it doesnt work i want him to like me for something more than my looks but i still want him to like me for my looks! love always,
Boy trouble

okay .. well whenevr i think someones hot or w.e i try to get their attention .. like if ur volleyball goes over there again and he drops it be like .. hey that's mine what r u doint .. but not mean - in a flirty way .. then start flirting with him more .. the first time is the hardest especially f u've nevr tlked to them b4 .. but they begn to notice you and talk to you .. so i hope that helps =)

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does anyone know a website that can help me with translating french to english?!...or if there is anyone on this website that can help me!!

i take french ..so when i ahe to do projects er w.e i use freetranslation.com .. it's easy - hope i helped =)
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my friend (kelley) has been cutting herself lately and doing some pretty dangerous stuff. i told her to stop and she said she has but i dont know if i should believe her. what should i do? *signed clueless as what to do*

well .. it is always hard to kno the right thing to do b.c your friends and u don't want to loose that friendship .. personally, i think that you should talk to someone about it b.c it is a serious problem and it is out of your control and you need to tell someone about it - don't tell right away occassionly look at her arms or make sure she is still depressed about w.e and then you know it is safe to sya she didn't stop and to tell someone b.c it's the only way to help her

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I REALLY like this guy named kyle and he goes to my school. and he likes me too! and ive only talked to him for a week but i have gotten to know him REALLY well and have have LOTS in-common, and im still waiting to get to know him more but if i really like him and he really likes me should i tell him that i love him even if were not going out?? please help because i want to tell him but i dont know if it is to early or not!
(im 14)

no it's not early .. i mean its not a life changing decision .. ya kno? .. i went out w. this kid who like i barely knew he went to the academy and i went to jmms .. but like i lyked himm and we went out in lyk a week or two after only tlkin and stuff // so it's perfectly fine and we worked out great .. i jst fucked it up but yea .. ya kno .. so like go for it =)

hope i helped
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I am 13 and Bi should i tell my parents??? cause i don't want them to hate me so i need to know

ok .. well whenevr you're ready to you should tell them .. i don't personally kno ur parents so they might be a litl "disappointed" .. but ur parents love you and nothing can replace that love .. they'll eventually get over it and it will all go back to normal..my cousin did this and my aunt really didn't care i guess and he jst told the rest of my family and personnaly i don't care it's his life .. but what i'm saying is he felt so much better after getting it off his chest so u'll feel much better the sonner u do it =) good luck if u wanna talk jst im me er leave me a message =)

hope i helped
xo

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is it weird that i don't like anyone? i mean all my friends obsess over who they like, but i seriously can't think of anyone that i like. and im 14!

personally .. i'm the same way ... i'm 14 too and it's not a big deal .. bc lyk it prolly means there's jst no1 good yet .. i haven't found ne1 and i really don't care .. soo don't worry about it and have fun =)

hope i helped
XO0X

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in 1 year i have to choose between field hockey and soccer b/c the 2 sports take place at the same time!! I do not wantt o choose but i have to so what do u think i should choose or what woule be a good way to choose?
Thanks for the Help!!

well .. reallt the decision is all on u .. as ahh u kno lol .. but which sport do u like the most? .. which sport have u committed to the most? .. i had to choose between ymnastics or soccer bc my competitions and stuff were interfereing .. but i chose soccer cause i kno thats what i wanted to do since i was4 .. so i dont kno if thats in ur case for either sport? .. but ahh w.e sport u like the most go for it! the one u have the MOST talent in i would choose=)

hope i helped
xO0candce

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Is it considered "dorky" to roll jeans that are a little short into capris? or should I just cut them? Thanks

no .. it's deff not dorky . i do it so does a lot of other people in my school .. especially in the summer some girls just roll their pants

HOPE I HELPED =)
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Does anybody in here know or is related to a famous person? if so who?

italian_diamond

umm .. my friend's uncle is a famous baseball player

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i have a problem i have a really anoying friend and i dont know how to get rid of her she just wont leave me alone! how do i get her to get out of my face¿

ok i had this really annoying friend ..lyk not long ago and she would always call me and wanna do stuff and i would always make an excuse not to do anything with her .. and then i would tell my family when she called to tell her i couldn't talk er whatevr .. then i jst told her online one day .. i said we've jst grown apart and i don't think us being friends is gonna work out .. and it worked .. so mayb u could try that

hope i helped
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