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HIS NAME IS BRET AND HE IS GORGEOUS!


Question Posted Wednesday November 17 2004, 6:20 pm

there is this guy at my school who is the same age as me. sadly he is in a diffrent homeroom. he first found out that i liked him when my young yet stupid teacher went and told him that i thought he was hot. my teacher found out that i thought this guy was hot when we were talking about how he is such a good basketrball player, anywho...... out of nowhere i was like yeah that kid is hot and my teacher old him and he said that bret said he was flattered. now i do;nt know if he likes me or what. at gym when ever my volleyball misteriously rolls over to him he just lets it roll right on by. today (11/17) he picked it up and he gave it to me. other days if he knows it is mine he will kick it or pick it up and drop it. i dont know if he is shy or what. this other girl likes him to but i dont think he knows. i know that i am in jr high and things arent the same as 4th or 5th grade like when you tell a boy that u like them and they start to like you but maybe it still is. i really think he is cute but i dont know much about him but i just want to get to know him without comeing off as one of those creepy stalker types. i dont know how to get his attention because i am very shy around cute guys and in his case is is dead sexi! how do i get to know him or atleaset make a conversation even how to make him say hi! just for info.... i am not going to go all girly and try to impress him with my clothes that is so 6th grade and it doesnt work i want him to like me for something more than my looks but i still want him to like me for my looks! love always,
Boy trouble


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MedicatedSanity answered Thursday November 18 2004, 5:39 pm:
say hey to him, ask him how he is, then start up a conversation involving him or something he's interested in. Ask him if he wants to hang out sometime. Say you think he's hot, but you'd really like to get to know him based on who he is, not what he looks like. Smile at him... wave, flirt. Small talk. make a joke...

good luck! :) just try to be confident, not "pushy" or trying too hard, don't act slutty, don't babble on... and you should be fine. :)

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dinoold answered Thursday November 18 2004, 8:23 am:
ok..your teacher told him..what a loser..to me..whatever...man...

find out what he likes to do..and do it around or with him.

Are there any schoo functions you can hang out with him at??

he knows you are there...no you do not ahve to be girly..but dressing nice and looking nice is not girly..it just is a way to get guys to notice you.

Maybe he is shy too...and you might have to make the first move. can you call him? my son who is 9 has girls calling him...

Good luck...still that teacher is so crappy for telling himm..grr

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AsIaNsKoOGiRlY answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 11:27 pm:
Go for him...if he so drop dead sexi and you nervous the wow cuz...you shouldn't be just go up to him...keep talking to him...ask him like all kinds of questions and get to know him and then see what goes on next!
Hope I helped ~Kelly

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Haustrian13 answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 9:23 pm:
hehe...ok, you obviously only like him for how "dead sexi" he is...and first of all i recommend learning how to spell sexy..and then i would say stop being a shallow, self-concious whore and go talk to him.

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P4TH3T1Cx1426 answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 9:00 pm:
ok, dont jump in right yet.. cause i mean, he could have been lying 4 the teacher.. but dont let that bring you down. just wait for him to make the first *big* move.

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xO0cAnDiCe answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 8:43 pm:
okay .. well whenevr i think someones hot or w.e i try to get their attention .. like if ur volleyball goes over there again and he drops it be like .. hey that's mine what r u doint .. but not mean - in a flirty way .. then start flirting with him more .. the first time is the hardest especially f u've nevr tlked to them b4 .. but they begn to notice you and talk to you .. so i hope that helps =)

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xsunkiszed3x answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 7:46 pm:
I know how that is lol. Well if you want to become closer to him try starting out as friends. If hes in any of your classes talk to him and flirt with him. If hes interested you`ll know. Hope I helped! Please rate (:

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