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13/f...Ok, so I'm a really shy person when it comes to guys. I like this guy named Tim. I think he stares at me in spanish and sometimes science because I can see it out of the corner of my eye, ya know? In science the teacher stands like a few feet in front of Tim. So naturally I'm looking up at the teacher because he's talking lol. Yeah anyway, Tim looks at me a lot. He likes glances over at me. I think he might think I'm looking at him instead of the teacher. I know he's really shy also so should I strike up a conversation? And do you think it's possible he likes me? Thanks (link)
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try talking to him...then you'll be able to tell if he likes you or not. if you're shy it's best to start off asking him a question relating to school since you share a few classes w/ him.
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ok to understand my question here is what happened before...Sorry it is long!!!
my friend kristina is dating this guy named richard. Well they dated for about 1 year before breaking up because he is constantly a jerk to her. He was possesive and always jealous. When she would talk to her friends while talking to him he would flip out and he would flip out if she talked to other guys. Well, many times before she wanted to break up with him but he would always say he loved her so much and that he would change but he never did. Even her parents hated himZ Well, right before school started he wanted to get back together with her. (**Me and Kristina talked every day**)She wasnt sure if she should because of how he used to treat her. I kept telling her not to because she would only get hurt again. Well, she is dating him now and she totally changed. SHe never talks to me or her best friend Kayliee anymore. We both said that if she keeps this up that when she needs we might not be there anymore. What can I do to make her see what is going on and that he is a jerk without hurting her feelings or anything. (link)
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i think it might be necessary to hurt her feelings to get her to understand.
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My parent's are like, sexist. They won't let me hang out with boys. They think that I'm just going to go out and have sex with every boy I see. I tell them that all we're gonna do it hang out (which is true) but then they have to make up the excuss, "Honey we trust you, not the boys." Soo, what can I do to make them trust me? (link)
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tell them you're a lesbian...then they'll let you hang out w/ all the boys you want
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If you took a rat on vacation with you, but kept her in one of those mini cAges, would that be too stressing for the animal?? (i'd keep food, water, and toys in it)
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i'm going to have to answer that question with another question...why would you want to take a rat on vacation?
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theres this really hot kid that ive had connections with in the past..(the beginning of october) but now he has a gf .. he makes fun of me alot..like when i say something. he would imitate me . is he flirting with me? or is he just being a jerk? (link)
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er...being a jerk. castrate him
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my best friend,james, has a major crush on me and he doesnt know that i know... not only does that make me feel awkward, but his other best friend is my boyfriend, brian. brian goes to a different school and has asked me to his prom and i want to ask him to my prom. but james is wanting to ask me to our prom... and although i think it would be so much fun to go with him, i really really really want to go with brian. james has already asked permission from jared to ask me(i'm not supposed to know). i dont know what to do when james askes me: should i accept? should i reject? HELP! (link)
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reject...it would be leading him on...that's bad.
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I understand exactly what ur saying to talk to my boyfriend now to see if i can trust him.But if i tell him what if he tells every1 else, i dont want the whole world to know. i love my ex and i like my boyfriend.He knows something about my previous relationship becauz his cousin is real good friends with my ex. If he asked me if i was in luv with my ex i'll be honest but when it comes to tellin him i luv him i cant be honest. (link)
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well...then maybe you shouldn't be with this new guy. you really need to be able to be honest and trustworthy if you want it to work
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I love my brother. We had sex. When should we tell our parents? (link)
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never...unless you want to die...or asap to see if you can get your parents in on the action.
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okay well there is this girl at school she goes to CHS and she is so anoying! i mean everytime i try to get rid of her she allways is there and she is so anoying!!! ahh help me! and she is so rude and stuff i think that she oes drugs i really do, she is allways so hyper and well her name is Rachel! (link)
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fuck you
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me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while. He asked me if i thought it was time to go the next level and ... well you know.
what are your views on sex before marriage (link)
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do it...hard.
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Ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a month almost 2 and he doesnt talk that much(hes really really shy.)Well when we do talk we end up getting into fights.Im in a fight now with him and havent tlked to him since Friday.He told my friend online that I tell him all the time I dont love him and I dont care and it hurtz him...the problem iz I NEVER EVER SAY THAT 2 HIM becuz I love him ALOT and he sayz he luvs me 2 but I think he thinks I dont love him even tho i tell him all the time I do.I dont understand whats happening between us we were REALLI GOOD 2 GETHER in the beginning but then it just changed I guess u could say. Im totally confused and I kno I love him but I'm thinking about breakin up with him. My guy friend told me he realli likez me and haz 4 a while and I had feelings for him beofre my boyfriend but pushed them aside when my boyfriend came into the picture.What should I do??????? Im 15/f if it helpz
Sry itz so long (link)
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things change...and so do people. dont feel bad if you've changed your mind about this guy. it happens all the time. the best thing you can do is be honest with him.
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my mother 2 months ago got married, to a man she met over one of those dating websites, hes from england, and in the one week he came over to visit, they married. he left for a couple a weeks, and now he will be here till january. hes been here for 2 months so far, and hes annoying my mom, (me also) and he won't pull his weight, and hes not helping with bills or anything, so now my mom said if he doesn't bring in his money for a job he got then shes divorcing him in january. well with that now said how do i explain to my friends, that now i prolly wont be going to england, and that my mom is going to be divorcing the man that she recently married, and met over the internet... its put so much stress on me about my mom coming to talk to me about how she can't stand him, and my grades are slipping and shes mad about that, but she doesn't realize shes putting it on me... what do i do?
-sometimes im miserable, but thats so typical-
-but of all the things i am-
-i am beautiful- (link)
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it's kind of none of your friends business. if you really want to tell them then just tell them the truth.
Now w/ the mom thing...just tell her that she's stressing you out and that you jsut need some time by yourself every once in a while to get things done and sort things out.
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What do dreams mean? What about those that keep repeating themselves? Is there some kind of connection between dreams and real life? (link)
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dreams are usually influenced by whatever is going on in your life. repeating dreams are usually a sign of stress or anxiety about a particular topic. if the dreams are disturbing try meditating before you go to bed, or stretching to help relax your mind and body. even a shower might help.
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I lost my virginity in Feb after my 15 birthday. Since then my boyfriend and I have had sex atleast twice a week. He pulls out so we have never completely finished, and we have never had a pregnancy scare. Recently our sex has felt diffrent though. Like it has lost the unique, wild touch it once had. Could I be bored with sex? I get the same pleasure, but instead of feeling fulfilled afterwards I just feel-there. Can someone explain this to me? I'm so confused... (link)
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you should really talk to your boyfriend about it. It's really up to you two to make things more interesting.
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well i have a lots of great friends, but they are all shit talkers, and so i just found out that my "best" friend was talking crap about me, and it was things that were so harsh that she even had a hard time saying time, now what do i do, should i confront her, or keep it until i need to use it?
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confront her.
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HEy uh i love this girl but im afraid to tell her.I told her once that i liked her but she seemed to dislike me even more and all her freinds hate me.What should i do? (link)
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whatever dirkman said.
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I noticed that sometimes you give people answers that are more on the humorous side, which is fine, but I'm hoping you'll be more serious with answering my question, because it's important to me. I'll try my best to keep this short - otherwise it will just be very annoying.
So basically I've really been working on trying to find a guy that I just love being around, someone that I can trust and have become my best friend.. you know, just an all-around great boyfriend. Well I've been hanging out with this one guy lately and it became aparent to me that he is exactly that which I've wanted. I have the greatest time ever when I'm with him, everything seems perfect. It was also quite the struggle getting to where we are now, because of complications with other girls wanting his ass. We've talked about things before and have decided that we just don't want to rush into things because he wants the same things as I do. For some reason today, for the first time, I had a weird unexplainable feeling about things. Like I started questioning, 'is this really what I want?' & 'Is he the right guy for me?' Things like that. He's perfect, and seems to be all I've wanted - So what the hell is going on? I know it doesn't sound like a big deal, but really, it is. I don't want to fuck this up.
So much for making that short, my apologies. (link)
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I know what you're feeling. It's that whole feeling of now that i have what i've wanted for so long, do i really want it? I would stick it out a little longer and see what happens. You might want to talk to him and tell him what's been going on. He'll most likely give you a reason to keep this thing going, or to end it. either way, you'll have some closure.
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Why do I get in trouble for the simpleist things, honestly I think my parents are out to get or keep in the house forever. I'm like grounded for like 2 months and all that's keeping me up is karate and ever second I'm being punished, all of the times I'm trying to be nice to them and seriously that's all I am doing. I'm 14 and I can't move out so I have no other choice. I'm seriously thinking of getting tape and taping my mouth shut. I get good grades and things but my parents just think sometimes that I'm like a bad daughter, that's the impression I get from them. Help me... =( (link)
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I'm sure they had a legitimate reason to ground you. You're being too easy on yourself. Use karate on yourself.
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I am not looking forward to thanksgiving this year because everything is so messed up. My boyfriend (of 5 and a half years) was best friends with this guy for 6 years. Now they are complete enemies (I won't get into why, it'll make this ? way too long). Well, this guy he was friends with, lets call him "dildo," has been with my sister for 2 years and they are now pregnant together so he is now in my family. So my family is all getting together and stuff for thanksgiving and Dildo is going to be there with my sister and my b'friend was really looking forward to going until he found out Dildo was going. Now of course he can't. My family says they can't both be there because no confrontations can be stirred up because my grandmother is old with a weak heart. So they (as in my mother and my sister) decided to choose to let Dildo go because he can't go to his families because they all hate him. (Dildo is an Italian tough guy who is a thief and con artist type of guy), they chose him even though he is the one that left a threatening message on our answering machine because he decided to jump to conclusions one day and listen to false accusations. I am so mad! The rest of my family would have chose my b'friend over him, but they have to pretend to be nice for my sister's sake, so they kinda gotta stay out of it. My b'friend is a Sonny Corinthos from General Hospital type of guy who if you betray him he doesn't forgive (no, he's not an Italian mobster). Now I am supposed to go over there with my 1 year old son and just leave my b'friend here at home alone. I am supposed to eat there, come back home, and then go to his family's. But eating takes so long, I'll be there so late I know it, my b'friends day will suck so bad for him waiting for me alone (we have 1 car, he has to wait). I am tempted to just stay home with me, him, and the baby and skip thanksgiving dinner altogether (I don't know how to cook birds). I don't want to spend the entire day at his family's either cuz they're all bi-polar psychos who just argue all the time. Sorry this was so long, but what do I do??? Thanks to whoever can help. (link)
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Explain to your family how awkward this situation is for you and then i would definately recommend staying home with your boyfriend and son. It will be more enjoyable for all of you.
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ok i have a big problem. ok heres the scoop: i just moved to kentucky from chicago. its been real tough. i met my best friend and now we are always together, we are inseperable. but in the beginning of october her brother asked me out. he said that he really liked me and he told every1 i was the one for him and that we were going to run off and get married so now i am like in luv with this guy. he has the religion though of a penticostal and one of their beleifs is abstinence. and well i was raped when i was younger so technically i am not a virgin. his cousin has a really big crush on me though and when he found out that i was with his cousin he decided he was gonna make up a whole bunch of crap about me. so he told him that i screwed 20 guys and he broke up with me not even hearing what i had to say. now he wants nothing to do with me and i told his sister the reason i was not a virgin and now hes still like he cares but its not the same. he still wont even look at me. i dunno what i did wrong we were so happy. Ive been crying over him for about a month now and 3 days ago i started going out with this guy that is my other best friends boyfriends cousin. ( if that makes sense). and today he told me that he likes me a lot and that he loves me. he dosent understand how much weight that puts on my shoulder. i like him but i dont now if im using him to get my ex off of my mind. i want the relationship im in to last because i dont wanna fall apart again and have a breakdown but i really dont know what i should do. and i dont want to break his heart b/c i know hes 4 real. but how do i express what im fellin? please just tell me what you think i should do i need an opinion from someone who knows the basics. thankyou for reading please help me out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
confused/tjlover (link)
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Well first off, I recommend commas and capitalization...it was very hard on my eyes. But other than that I'm proud of you for using periods and such...
I suggest dropping your ex on his ass (or on spikes) because he fucked up...and explain to the other guy the situation that you're in. If he really feels the way he says he does, he'll understand and help you through it. And if he doesnt, then he wasn't worth your time.
I also think that telling the new guy what's going on will allow you to find out if you can really trust him.
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