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I dont get it
well i have a lots of great friends, but they are all shit talkers, and so i just found out that my "best" friend was talking crap about me, and it was things that were so harsh that she even had a hard time saying time, now what do i do, should i confront her, or keep it until i need to use it?
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I think u should talk to her,Aske her why was she saying all that crap about u,that she suppose to be ur best friend.Maybe she said all that stuff because she is mad or just because she isnt a good friend.Ask her for an explanation if she was mad at u try to fix up things,and if she is a bad friend,then u better move on.Dont keep it all to urself because ur going to explote,all those feelings and emotions will stay inside u,and u may take it out in the wrong person,Just try to talk and tell her how she saying all that stuff made u feel.
Good Luck,hope it helps
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Ok honey~ The first thing you have to learn when your a teenage girl is that no matter who you think your best friends are~ girls are girls~ and the majority of them are going to talk shit about everyone! The thing is, most girls dont have the nerve to say it to the person they are talking about. So why even say it in the first place? Anyway, I think you should definately confront her about all this. Ask her why she is talking shit and why she couldnt come up to you and say it to your face instead of being immature and saying it to other people behind your back! If they were really harsh things that were being said~ then shes not really a great friend. Most girls say stuff behind your back because they are bored with themselves or because they are just jealous, but they wont confront you about it. And when you ask them about it they wuss out! Trust me its happened to me, but this person didnt have the nerve to call me and say it to me (they called my sister) cough cough! I find it hillarious~~ I swear some girls never grow up! Take it from me there are some crazy bitches out there~ Just be yourself and thats all that matters! Hope I helped!
Emily
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confront her.
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