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Why do I get in trouble for the simpleist things, honestly I think my parents are out to get or keep in the house forever. I'm like grounded for like 2 months and all that's keeping me up is karate and ever second I'm being punished, all of the times I'm trying to be nice to them and seriously that's all I am doing. I'm 14 and I can't move out so I have no other choice. I'm seriously thinking of getting tape and taping my mouth shut. I get good grades and things but my parents just think sometimes that I'm like a bad daughter, that's the impression I get from them. Help me... =(
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Hey, my idea is that maybe you and your parents should go to a counsler, or talk to your guidence counsler at school about how you feel, they can make your parents understand, i went to a counsler with my mom and now we're pretty close, i tell her pretty much everything and feel pretty good about my reletionship with her. Talk to somebody it should help both you and your parents out and help you to deal with them!
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They just want to protect you and keep you as their little girl forever. You have to expect it and just try to deal with it because they aren't going to stop unless you can show them that you're growing up and don't need to be babied. The first step would be to try not to get grounded and show them you're mature enough.
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My parents used to be like well actully my mom still is. I stoped putting up wiht it. It wasnt like I was doing any thing bad they would just bitch at me for no reason! I just avioded them for like a month only talk to them when you abolutly have to!
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i'm in the same boat. try to stay away from them and give them their space. don't bug them right when they come home from work or are cleaning or watching tv. don't tape your mouth shut cause that's just unhealthy. you are not a bad daughter. they might punish you and get mad over little things because of problems between them or work related stress. don't blame it on yourself. when you try to be nice they probably take it the wrong way. it's not your fault... just remember that. hope i helped!
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I'm sure they had a legitimate reason to ground you. You're being too easy on yourself. Use karate on yourself.
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Are you the only child or are you the oldest child? Because I am the oldest and I know what you mean. Parents tend to take out their anger or yell at their children for no reason like that. If you are the oldest child, then they expect you to do the right things and make the right choices and stuff like that. But you have to remind them that you are a teenager and that nobody in this universe is perfect. Or is their anything that you did to someone else or to your parents that made them to where they couldn't trust you anymore?? What I would do is with my mom or my dad is separtely go somewhere with them, like in the car going shopping, etc, and talk to them about your feelings. Trust me, it works everytime.
Happy to help, (sorry its so long)
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