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bored with sex?
I lost my virginity in Feb after my 15 birthday. Since then my boyfriend and I have had sex atleast twice a week. He pulls out so we have never completely finished, and we have never had a pregnancy scare. Recently our sex has felt diffrent though. Like it has lost the unique, wild touch it once had. Could I be bored with sex? I get the same pleasure, but instead of feeling fulfilled afterwards I just feel-there. Can someone explain this to me? I'm so confused...
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I know it's all you hear, but birth control is the best thing for you at this point. When you are on the pill, you won't have to deprive yourself of the pleasure you get normally. Condoms are messy, and easily break or slip off, plus its not as fun for the man.
Also, variety is the spice of life. Change things up, maybe with different positions, a different setting, or even a different partner. I would try the first two of those options before the third. Once you are a little more experienced, I would suggest finding the Kama Sutra.
Hope I helped, Redlion.
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You should use condoms and go all the way. Also, do different things to spice it up. Go other places, use props or toys, have more forplay, make it more exciting.
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um i think you should bord with him if you change to have sex with some one else you might feel alittle different
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Well, first of all-- use condoms! I hope you know that you can still get pregnant, even though he pulls out before he is "finished". Plus, having unprotected sex is putting you at huge risk for catching a sexually transmitted disease. If you are going to have unprotected sex at the age of 15, then you are not mature enough to even have a fulfilling sexual relationship. This is really more about you taking care of yourself and making smart choices than it is about you getting your sex-life spiced-up.
That being said, what happens in the bedroom is usually a reflection of what is going on in all areas of the relationship. If things are falling flat with him in general, then sex is going to fall flat, too. Do you have fun with him? Do you trust him? Do you feel close to him in any way other than sexually?
If you are not enjoying sex with him, then stop having sex. Even if he pressures you to keep having sex with him. And for crying out loud-- take care of yourself!
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lol u prolly just do it too much and yew are gettin bored with it...try new thingz! good luck!
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Well you horny person!!! lmao...........
just try new stuff...
get a book on it
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OK DUDE THATS THE STUPIDEST THING EVER U BETER BE USING A CONDOM OR UR PROBABLY PREGNET RIGHT NOW AND THATS WHY IT DOEST FEEL GOOD. OR ALSO BECAUSE U'VE HAD TO MUCH AND NEED TO TAKE A BREAK BUT JUST TO BE SAFE GO TO THE STORE A BUY A BIRTH TEST THING. GOOD LUCK.
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Maybe, take a break from it I think u r having to much!!
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that's wat happens when ur having sex so young. u get bored and u don't feel the same zing. maybe talk to him bout it and see wat he has to say. but make sure to tell him that he's great. cuz sex is lots less fun for girls than guys. srry if i didn't help
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just have sex it feels good. Just remember to covor your stump before you hump!
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maybe play a game, or try a different position. Truly it's up to you to make it more interesting.
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you should really talk to your boyfriend about it. It's really up to you two to make things more interesting.
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hey...yea some people can get bored of the same old routine all the time..well at least i do...but you two should try new things,things you havent done sexually..like play games ...there are also different places to go to like adult shops and websites...just try new things and have fun with it..you naw mean?
--PinoyBoi
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myabe hes not into it as much as the first couple of times.. i guess u could try to get himmore excited n maybe he'll show it more
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if ur getting bored y not experement with him. its not sex ur bored of its the way it happenes. if its the same all the tym y ask him to try sumfing new. good luck!!!
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Well, this happens. If you're having sex the same way every time with the same person, you will eventually lose the initial excitement. How to fix it?
First, make sure nothing else is going on with your relationship. Problems with sex can often indicate that there are bigger problems in the relationship. If you're both still as in love as ever, then I'd consider spicing things up. (I'll leave that to your imagination!)
Finally, I'd say that contraception is an issue - there was no need to mention it in this question, but you did. What to do? Well, once you start having sex, you'll need to see a gyno every year. Make that appointment now. You should be using two forms of birth control...for example, the pill to prevent pregnancy, and condoms to prevent disease/pregnany.
Withdrawl is not a method of birth control - precum can get you pregnant. You've been very, very lucky...but mathmatically, the more you have sex without using protection, the more likely you are to get pregnant.
Best of luck with everything.
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Well the first thing I’d say is that you may not have had a pregnancy scare yet BUT the ‘withdrawal’ method of contraception is not safe and you could very easily wind up pregnant. You don’t know how lucky you’ve been so far. Visit www.ex.ac.uk/sshs/apause/ and click on the ‘iweb’ link on the top of the page and then click ‘contraception’ – from hear have a look round at the various contraception / sex education sites. The bottom line darling is you are practicing unsafe sex – you need to get the relevant information (as does your boy friend) before you go on having sex. As for how to ‘spice up’ your sex life – ask me again when you’re using a proper method of contraception! BUT perhaps not having to worry about withdrawing before your boy friend ejaculates so you can at least relax a bit more might be a good starting point.
Derfel
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if the sex is boring, then do something about it, pick a new place, position or even motive. for all u know your boyfriend might have a fanatsy and u could make it happen, and same with you, sex is a pleasure sport but it is also a very intimate thing you do with someone you love, its not the sex, its the relationship, livin it up and you will last forever
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I think sex is supposed to be special, and maybe you are just over doing it. Is that all you and your boyfriend do? You probably are bored with it. I suggest you guys give it a rest for a while and just apriciate eachother mentally, then when you do have sex again- it'll be good again. :-)
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You can try puting a condom on and finishing... that probably gets boring if you dont get an orgasm or anything. Maybe try different position... that might spice things up!
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Maybe you should put on a condom and finish up.....doing it everytime and not finishing can be straining on the body and mind....
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