Gender: Female
Location: Phoenix, Arizona
Age: 18
AIM: Mallisssa
Member Since: September 18, 2004
Answers: 57
Last Update: February 5, 2005
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My dog just died today and I'm soooo sad! =( She didn't suffer, thank god, but I just can't get over it. She was the greatest dog, and I love her so much. What can I do to feel better?
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To be quite honest. There really isnt anything to make you feel better. Sure some thing will make you laugh...but overall, the dog will be on your mind for quite a while. I lost my dog too. He was my best friend. You will just have to ride the sadness wave for a while. Im sorry this isnt any help at all, but its best you knew it straight up.
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my boyfriend spends a lot of time with me at my house, but the problem is that i have a lot of siblings (they are close to my age, not much younger) and he always talks to them. he'll just disappear and hangout with them more and it feels like hes ignoring me. i dont really want to talk to him about it cuz i told him i wanted him to get along with my family so i dont want to be a hypocrite.. what should i do and is there any way that i should just deal with it? (link)
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Well its good he gets along with your family and all, but ditching you? I think you need to talk to him. You wont look like a hypocrit. He should talk to them yes...but not ditch you. Thats just not right. So my advice is to talk to him, and ask him not to leave you hanging.
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ok this is a really long story. Ill make it short. I use to be friends with these 3 girls. They are like stuck up girls really who are not popular or anything but they think they are. Well they said that i got on their nerves and that they really dont want to be my friend anymore. So like a regular person I was hurt. I was the one who helped them meet each other. So I got upset and decided that I was going to hang out with my other friends. One friend told me she was sorry but i was mad. I said that it was stupid that they all ganged up on me all at once for no reason and even talked behind my back about it. She said that the other two girls said that I got on their nevers because i put ketchup on my chikin. so that made me more mad. Then this really big fight happened and we are no longer friends. I even told her that i was sorry because it was acctually my fault a little because i yelled at her. She started to tell lies that I had said i was going to kick her ass and she got her mom to call the school and stuff so that i didnt look at her ( stupid she rides me bus) every time i pass by her and the other girls try to make me mad and I had told her that there was no way that i was going to get mad because God did not put me on this earth to try and impress her or anyone else for that matter. I think that made her even more mad. now i dont now if i should tell her that i was sorry or if i should be mad... i feel like i am a push over. what should i do. (link)
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First of all. do NOT say sorry. You didnt do anything wrong. They got mad for putting catsup on your chicken? WTF is that all about? They are not good people and you should leave that crow for good. Let them have their fun, but you can move on to greater things.
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I am 16/f and my boyfriedn and I are planning to get married when I am 18, My bf is 21, but my mother said she wont except this marriage as i am too young and have to finish my education first. I dont want to hurt my mother as she is very upset. But i am absolutely in love with my bf and so is he. We are totally sure about this marriage. What should I do? (link)
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Well. You will be 18 so she cannot tell you what to do. However I myself say wait a little bit longer. You may be sure now, but things can change. I think education should come first. So I agree with the mother in this case.
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ok well im a little overweight and when i wear tight shirts you can see my stomach ... so my question is, is there ANYTHING i can do to temporaraly make your stomach flatter. i thought of duck tape but that would hurt like a mother but i want to wear a cute outfit tomorrow but it is pretty tight on me. but i am going to work out every day after school and tonight so PLEASEEE answer ASAP!!!! thank you in advance and i will rate 5s to almost anyone :) but i need your help cause even my mom calls me fat
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chubby lil me
pS i asked this before and you deleted it but please dont this time i really need some answers and this is not a joke question (link)
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Wear a gurdle. Itll help.
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wtat happens when your friend is friends whith someone who is verey evil and they are ignoring you like keeping secrets and she is grounded and but her mom said that she gets to pick one friends house and she picks the evil girls house which she went to before and never been to mine. not like i'm joulis it's just i'm scared.
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lost with out you
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I have to say get a new friend. Its quite obvious, that she is not a true friend. Let her have fun with this "evil" person. If she means a lot to you....then I spose you should talk to her. Let her know how you feel on this situation. Dont let her get hurt, ya know?
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im a 13/f.....no one likes ne at school everyone speards rumors and talks about me, my friends r backsabing bitches!!!!! no one knows how i feel im really depresserd, if one person doesnt talk about me its the other!!!!!
Please help!!!
I RATE 5'S 4 every answer that doesnt piss me off!!!!!
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Get new friends. Ignore teh rumours. They are but words right? it doesnt matter. As long as you know they are not true. Also, I am sure not everyone hates you. This is just like 2 years of your life as opposed to 80. Why let some losers ruin it? Get your education, make lots of cash and show them who is victorious in the end.
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OK guys please answer this.. girls u can help too...
for v-tines day i think im getting my bf...
sliky boxers... cologne... and maybe like a movie gift certificate?
is that totally stupid???
if so tell me... and also can you guys give me some ideas on somthing to get him!!
thanx in advance!!!!!!!!!
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Dude. That sounds awesome! If I were a guy I would totally take teh underwear! That is a great Idea! Mind if I take it?, eh, eh? *Nudge Nudge* ;)
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when are you "old" enough to wear makeup (not just lipgloss and glitter) (link)
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Pretty much anytime. Although I will admit when a 13 year old or something of that sort wears it, they look like little prostitutes....jk....(actually Im not. I just know someone is going to get offended. Whatever.) Anyway. Just wear it if you feel comfortable.
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Hey yall im in need of help. I cant explain how i feel fo my friend riana. but i cant stand when people talk bad bout her.plz help and tell me whats goin on i think im in love. but i dont know if she likes me.what should i do. (link)
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Just talk to her. Simple as that. Get your feelings out. Dont pass this chance up as love man. Life goes by pretty fast. Are you going to let it pass you up? Take all your feelings and just say them to her. Use a calm smoothe level tone. Show confidence. Lifes a picnic. Dig in mate.
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ok well i have this issue with my apperence(sp)..well its a little depressing to me because ive been made fun of for it..well my problem is that i have a witch type nose.i cant take it anymore i try to hold in my tears but i cant hold them back, can you please help me i need a way to deal with this or something...
p.s. please dont make fun of me because this is the first time i said this to someone. i have never let out my feelings and it truely wont go away its a cut thaat will never close by the way this isnt the first time ive been made fun of.i was made fun of 3 years ago and i can remeber every single detail to when that happened thats why i cant bare it anymore (link)
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Everyone has a flaw. Yours is on the nose. Be a bigger person and suck it up. Sometimes life is hard. Everyone gets made fun of. There is nothing you can do about it. Well plastique surgery....but I dont recommend rhynoplasty. I knew someone who got that and they call her "Rino"...back on topic. Just dont think about it. Hard I know. If someone makes fun of it, shrug it off. Tis but words comming from a loser. Things will get better.
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This one's a question for guys....how would you feel about getting a teddy bear for Valentine's Day from a girlfriend? Or is candy a better alternative? (link)
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To a guy who really cares about you, they dont care what they get. Even if its nothing. As long as you see them they are happy. However to properly answer teh question get both? That will take care of that predicament. However if thats not an option. Get teh bear. Candy lasts a few days...bears last years.
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hey..ok, this is akward but i need sum adivice lol. lets just say im not that big in the boob department. im 13 and most of my friends are like really big, i used 2 be bigger and now i have like shrunk or something! i got a paded bra, but now in the summer guys will see that im way way smaller in my bathing suit!! i heard chicken makes them grow...? :S
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Chicken will not make them grow? Where tf did you hear that? HaHa. However. You are 13. Whats the big rush to get big boobs? You need to grow more. Time will make them bigger. Just dont worry about it. Guys your age wont even care anyway.
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i have a lot of best friends but sometimes i feel like some of them really aren't my friends and r just acting like it. but how do i no if they are or not and how do i no to trust them???? please help me b/c its makin my brain hurt. (link)
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I would just ask them. Talk to them. Watch their body movements. Try to tell if they are lying when they say yes. The best way to find out something is to just go up and ask. Dont be afriad of the outcome. Its better to know and be hurt, then live a lie.
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Me and my boyfriend of a year had sex not too long ago, and we didn't use protection. He said he didn't cum or even pre-cum but I don't think he is a hundred percent sure. Is there a possibility I could be pregnant? What are the signs of being pregnant? I really don't want to be pregnant I am only thirteen! Where are good places to get protection. Oh, and we didn't have sex for long! It only last a minute because we were really worried! (link)
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I would bet on that you are ok since you didn't do it for long. You can buy protection at most drug stores and grocery stores. I would go to your local "planned parenthood" clinic- they give out panflets at free condoms and can help you with everything you need. You can visit them online at: http://www.plannedparenthood.com/
Before you get worried, I would wait and see if you miss your period. But if you really want to make sure, the emergency contraceptive pill will kill sperm up to 5 days after intercorse.
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How mych money do u get paid for babysitting a couple of littel kids for about 3-5 hours?
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4 dollars an hour flat plus 1.50 per each extra kid.
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Ok i know this is going to souond stupid, but im willing to take that risk. ok how many holes does a girl have in her vagina? Because i looked and there was only 2 (counting your butt hole) but wen i wear a tampon i can still pee. Me and my friend were discussing it (i have NO idea why) so just give me an anwser please! (link)
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There are 2 vagina holes plus one butt hole. You can learn everything you want to know at: http://www.afraidtoask.com/woman/index.html
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ok my bf and i hav been going out for out for 8 days and we went to the movies he didnt act like he was going to break up with me but he has not called me today and he calls me everyday so what do i do i have tried calling him and he didnt anwser on either his cell or home phone and i dont want to seem like an obesive gf so i dont want to call again what do i do and how do you think i should wait b4 calling again plz help i rate!!!! (link)
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I would suggest that you just relax, maybe you could call your friends to hang out- just to take your mind away from him. He'll call eventualy. maybe he's busy with family and can't call you?
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I asked my mother what would be the appropriate age to start seeing a gynocologist. She told me that I don't need to see one for a while (I'm 14). I don't know what she meant by "a while". What would be a good age to start seeing a gynocologist? And, out of curiosity, can they really tell that you've had sex/been fingered/ etc? What is it like going to the gynocologist? I'm quite nervous about even going at all because I hear it's uncomfortable and painful. Can anyone fill me in on your experience and share your knowledge about this? (link)
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I'm 18 and havent had to go yet... But I know that a lot of insurances require that you go when you're 18.
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okay i sit with him all the time at lunch. But this girl(lets call her gerble) that used to like him and he used to like sits there too. He never talks to me when shes around. And shes around all the time!! she never leaves. But then this other kid Johnny likes gerble. She likes him too. Do you think that if my friends and i get them 2 hooked up then she wont be mad at me and jeremy if we get somem going? i have all kinds of problems dealing with this same situation.
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I definatly think you should hook up johnny and gerble. Since they both like each other, she won't be mad... and then you can move in on jeremy.
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