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my boyfriend...
my boyfriend spends a lot of time with me at my house, but the problem is that i have a lot of siblings (they are close to my age, not much younger) and he always talks to them. he'll just disappear and hangout with them more and it feels like hes ignoring me. i dont really want to talk to him about it cuz i told him i wanted him to get along with my family so i dont want to be a hypocrite.. what should i do and is there any way that i should just deal with it?
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Maybe you can ask your parents to take your siblings to the movies one night so that way you 2 can be alone and than when they come back you'll just have to deal with it... or you can go over his house one time instead of yours.
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you have to tell him "are relationship is breaking,spend more time with me"
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Ok I know what you mean I had an ex that did that to me he got so close he started calling my parents Mom and Dad really creepy!!! Just like when he does it go find him and tell him to go and try and get him to spend more time with you...you know like make an excuse..plus tell him how you feel he may not know and if you tell him he may start spending more time with you because he may just do it because of the fact that you want him to get along with ur family
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Well its good he gets along with your family and all, but ditching you? I think you need to talk to him. You wont look like a hypocrit. He should talk to them yes...but not ditch you. Thats just not right. So my advice is to talk to him, and ask him not to leave you hanging.
Hope I helped!
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I had this same problem with my bf and his friends, because we always hung out with them. If it really bothers you just tell him in a polite way that you really want to hang out just you and him now and then. He shouldnt get angry with you for being honest and its not being a hypocrite. I hope you work it out!
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hang out WITH them....i totally understand where your coming from...it gets really annoying when people do that...it feels like they leave you out and stuff...but look on the bright side...atleast he does get along with your family...what if he hated them and they didnt like them? it would suck!! next time hes over be like...you know its GREAT that you get along with my family but i kind of want to spend some time with just me and you today...is that okay? and just be like i know you like my brothers and sisters but i see them EVERYDAY i dont see you everyday..(idk if u do or not) but if you really dont wanna say nothing then just hang out with them i guess
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