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ok this is a really long story. Ill make it short. I use to be friends with these 3 girls. They are like stuck up girls really who are not popular or anything but they think they are. Well they said that i got on their nerves and that they really dont want to be my friend anymore. So like a regular person I was hurt. I was the one who helped them meet each other. So I got upset and decided that I was going to hang out with my other friends. One friend told me she was sorry but i was mad. I said that it was stupid that they all ganged up on me all at once for no reason and even talked behind my back about it. She said that the other two girls said that I got on their nevers because i put ketchup on my chikin. so that made me more mad. Then this really big fight happened and we are no longer friends. I even told her that i was sorry because it was acctually my fault a little because i yelled at her. She started to tell lies that I had said i was going to kick her ass and she got her mom to call the school and stuff so that i didnt look at her ( stupid she rides me bus) every time i pass by her and the other girls try to make me mad and I had told her that there was no way that i was going to get mad because God did not put me on this earth to try and impress her or anyone else for that matter. I think that made her even more mad. now i dont now if i should tell her that i was sorry or if i should be mad... i feel like i am a push over. what should i do.
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Hi Sweetie,
Do neither. If you are mad scream at a pillow or write a letter or... diss them on the internet. Don't actually go cuss them out because that's how people say things that they later regret and stuff. But do not apologyze either. ...Unless you want to apologyze for your temper. But don't apologyze for making them mad or for the entire situation... none of it was your fault. Anyway, if you DO decide to apologyze for your temper say something like "I'm sorry I yelled and was angry... I should had acted much mature." But don't say things like "PLEASE BE MY FRIENDS AGAIN!" THEY need to apologyze to YOU, AND they need to EARN your friendship back. Otherwise they aren't worth it. Don't be mean to them... if you are polite to them it'll hurt them worst to see what a great friend they lost. But don't go out of your way to be nice... that just looks desperate.
My best wishes!!! Take good care!!! ~Blessed Be...
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First of all. do NOT say sorry. You didnt do anything wrong. They got mad for putting catsup on your chicken? WTF is that all about? They are not good people and you should leave that crow for good. Let them have their fun, but you can move on to greater things.
Hope I helped!
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Don't do anything. Just ignore them. You don't have to be friends or enemies, you can just not hang out with them. Neutrality is always a good option. Hang out with other people, you don't have to acknowledge their existence.
-Farren
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That is the most unfair thing ever! i feel sorry they did that! well, i kinda went through that also. If they felt the need to ditch you, then thats retarded. They're probaly jealous. Anyways, you shouldnt say sorry 4 being ditched, or for being letdown! good job with the " God did not put me on this earth to try and impress her or anyone else for that matter". Just stay cool and standup for yourself! :D , hope that helped.
xoxo katie
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