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ok well i have this issue with my apperence(sp)..well its a little depressing to me because ive been made fun of for it..well my problem is that i have a witch type nose.i cant take it anymore i try to hold in my tears but i cant hold them back, can you please help me i need a way to deal with this or something...
p.s. please dont make fun of me because this is the first time i said this to someone. i have never let out my feelings and it truely wont go away its a cut thaat will never close by the way this isnt the first time ive been made fun of.i was made fun of 3 years ago and i can remeber every single detail to when that happened thats why i cant bare it anymore
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You have been made fun of twice. This may not sound like much to most people. I understand it though. I look like a boy. This is also the first time Iv'e said it to anyone. I look just like a boy and I'm constantly being teased, asked and talked about behind my back. For me, that wasn't the problem. My problem was that every time I looked in the mirror I saw my face and see how much I look like a boy. And every time I got teased, my hate for my own face would double.
I don't have this problem anymore- I still get teased ad stuff, but now I like my face. I improved my self esteem by loving myself and how I look. The best way to do this is to look in the mirror and (although you sound like an idot) say "I am beautiful" several times. Then sit down and compliment (out loud) what you think are the best things about your appearence- your eyes, your hair, e.c.t. Only focus on the positive things. Also, buy face moisturiser and other beauty products- anything that will make you feel good about yourself.
More importantly, remember its whats on the inside that counts, and although you might (I did) feel that your opinion is less valued because of your appearance, that anyone that is your friend will not care at all about your nose at all. You can be popular easily. I never believed this. Just be yourself.
Finally, don't be afraid to let out your emotions by writing poems, songs, random notes or other things. Just try to avoid crying if you can- it makes you think that things are much worse than they really are. And in the end if you really can't live with your nose, there is the option of plastic sugery, though I would completly avoid it. Good luck, love yourself, and remember to send me a question if you need any help whatsoever.
Zoinatrobe. (sorry the answer was so long).
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heyy, dont worry, everyone has flaws! shit, even i do haha. But if its really bothering you, and your parents understand your feelings and the pain your going through, ask them 2 see a plastic surgen and see what he/she can do to make your life happier!
xoxo katie
P.S. the less you look at it, or focus on it, the
better you'll feel!
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There's plastic surgery for these types of things, but I don't think you need it. We all have certain things about ourselves we dislike. You need to realize that appearance isn't everything, despite what popular media leads you to believe. You should accept yourself.
I'll pray for you hun.
-Farren
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Aw im sorry, just ignore those jerk offs. They only make fun of you becasue they have no life. Your nose proabbly looks fine.
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Everyone has a flaw. Yours is on the nose. Be a bigger person and suck it up. Sometimes life is hard. Everyone gets made fun of. There is nothing you can do about it. Well plastique surgery....but I dont recommend rhynoplasty. I knew someone who got that and they call her "Rino"...back on topic. Just dont think about it. Hard I know. If someone makes fun of it, shrug it off. Tis but words comming from a loser. Things will get better.
Hope I helped!
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awe, just belive in yourself. You're beautiful! Just remember that! and you can be beautiful on the inside too! but you are beautiful! dont worry about what other people say!!!
Always there-->
Kels
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You are beautiful no matter what. Anyone that is going to make fun of you is only insecure about themselves and deserves to die. I hate my nose too, but unless you have an extra 4-6 thousands dollars handy, you can't change who you are. I almost did and now i'm glad i didn't because my fiance loves me for who i am. I promise that once high school is over, nothing will matter but what's on the inside. I hope i helped. Don't do anything drastic.. 311 and incubus are good bands to listen to when you just feel like you can't be positive. You're alive! be thankful!
Good luck beautiful.
PEACE
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Well I would't Ever make fun of you because I know how it feels to be made a fool of and it isnt fun at all. We all have our specialalities. Mine is that I have an outie bellie button so I hate being in my bathing suit in front of other people and other guys that I like. People who make fun of other people have even worse lifes than we do. They are so stupid for making fun of you and other people to. I really hope that this helped you!!!
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