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Make a move, or move on?
I like this guy. We flirt a lot, but he really likes someone else. Some people said he likes me, but i know its not true because of how much he likes this other girl. i know its not a cover up because, you can easily tell how much he really does like her. anyway, we have these dances on friday nights like once or twice a month. There's one tommorow (feb 4) and me, him, and the girl he likes will all be there. He's already saving a dance for her. She said she doesnt like him enough to want to go out with him, plus she wants to be single. She dumped her boyfriend a few weeks ago even though she still loves him just so she could be single. Im really not sure what to do, i was going to ask him to dance tommorow, but if hes gonna be dancing with her, than i dance with me would mean nothing since im obviously no match for her. what should i do? should i just forget about him and move on?
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Hi Sweetie,
Obviously the dance is not a good idea. Well not the dance... but the thing you want the dance to do... have him like you. It doesn't matter, sadly, how cute and nice you are. He likes some other girl (even if she doesn't like him back) and you have to wait for him to move on. Maybe if you asked him out or to be your boyfriend or something he might say yes but the relationshiop wouldnt work out so grgeat because he's not over her yet. It would be really unhealthy.
What you should do is not give up on him completely... be patient. BUT also have some time for yourself and time to discover new love interests. You may think "but I like him. I won't like any other guy." I'm not telling you to like some other guy. I'm telling you to be open-minded and you might just end up... meeting someone else. Don't let him stop you from possible great guys.
For now treat this guy as a friend. He'll either get over her and then take some time to be alone with no love interest and then notice you have been his friend for a while and you are a good friend and you're pretty and he'll start liking you. OR you'll get over him and meet some other great guy and... you two will still be friends.
I sincerely hope it works out for you one way or the other. I do because you sound like a nice, cool person. Take care and... be "open-minded", Hey, it worked for me :) And I really thought I liked the other guy... but it was unhealthy (especially since hthe girl he liked rejected him... then we became friends... then he started hitting on me...) Best wishes! ~Blessed Be...
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you should deffinitly dance with him. regardless of his feelings for him, you still like him, and have every right to dance with him. just be confident, go over to him, smile at him sweetly and tell him he's dancing with you. don't let her intimidate you.
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No get you a dance with him anyways.. forget she probably missing out on a good guy.. jus get your game on when you go to this dance and dance with him.. it can be like a friendly dance..~*DEZ*~
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