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Question Posted Thursday February 3 2005, 10:51 pm

Alright..well I consider myself a pretty outgoing person!! But recently people have been telling me how quiet I am! I never realized I was quiet...lol I mean I am EXTREMELY outgoing and crazy with people I know...but if I just meet someone I am shy but sooner or later I warm up to them! I am afraid people will think I am snobby if I first meet them and I'm shy..you know? I want to be able to be outgoing around everyone...not just people I know! Also this is around the same problem...when I am with my boyfriend (if I have one at the time) I am shy too and I don't know why! I could know him for a while but I get shy and quiet! Don't get me wrong I am not COMPLETELY quiet around them...like I do get majorly hyper and stuff but I mean it seems my relationships go slow because I never make any moves...I want to be able to go faster...and it be ME making th first move...Anyone have anything to help me?

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l0stiNth0uGht020 answered Friday February 4 2005, 12:32 am:
OMG, you are JUST like me.. I have the exact same problem. With new people, I just try to talk more.. I'm really really shy around people that like aren't at least friends with my friends though.. You could just strike up conversations with people in your classes, like ask what your homework is or other stuff and then go from there.. at least, thats what I do.. And with boyfriends.. I have no idea.. I'm still working on it! lol! I hope I helped a little bit!

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Teza answered Friday February 4 2005, 12:21 am:
relax.. its fine if your shy and you wont be after a lil bit. you dont have to worry about making the first move because the guy is usually supposed to do that but you can to! like at school you can give him a lil kiss on the cheek or somehting ! x0

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briana answered Thursday February 3 2005, 11:13 pm:
i think you should just relax. i mean when your around new people adn your boyfriend you want to leave a good impression... u cant think about that too much . just stay relaxed and calmn and be yourself!!!

xo briana

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