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should i tell my parents
I am 13 and Bi should i tell my parents??? cause i don't want them to hate me so i need to know
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i think that if you definitely know that you are bi then you should tell your parents. your parents will love you no matter what, and they will definitely not stop loving you because you are bi. it's just the way you are and you should embrace that.
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I would if I were you.*Haleigh Ann*
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Well, the honest thing to do would be to tell them, yet seeing as how parents are, they would most likely take away all your privelages and confine you to your room.
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My advice is tell them if u really want to. If ur parents really love u with all their heart they will exept. GOOD LUCK
But if u dont that is up to u
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hey ..well dont sai ne thing yet becasue ur onlii thirteen u neva no if in like a year u`ll start gettin just attraked to guys i wood wait untill ur like 16-17 becasue then u will kno for a fact..but if u have like mixed feelings about it then i dont think u are but i doubt if ur parents wood hate u becasue u popped out ur moms clit why the hell wood she hate u lol so dun worrie about it wait a liddle ta see if its def..
xox *jessi*
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yes if i were u i would tell my parents tell them it wont hurt but be sure u r bi and dont think u r no u r or ur not
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It's best 2 be honest w/ ur parents if u are truthfully bi. Ur parents love you (or I'd hope so) so they would love you no matter wut. Just sit them down and tell them and that should be enough. Good luck! Let me know how everythign works out!
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i guess.
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Of course you should tell your parents...they should love you no matter what you do or what kind of person you are...there are many girl out there just like you and the best thing to do is to be open with your parents and talk to them.
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Sweetie, I am usually an honest person, but that is something that would be really hard to tell you parents. Before you tell them you should look at everything. 1) are you sure your bi? A lot of people (girls especially) have a hard time around 13 and 14! The hormones are racing and it could be just a form of hormones! You may not even be attracted to the same sex in the future. 2) Is this a life that you are going to take up? For example a lot of people are attracted to the same sex but still marry the oppisate sex for obvious reasons. 3) Are you christian? If so, pray about it! Ask for help and strength! 4.) Do you know how your parents will react? Some parents are totally cool w/ it but others will be very hurt and upset and may no longer trust you. THIS IS A BIG DEAL! *Now that you've looked at all the options its time to decide. Do you still want to tell them???? If you decide to then let me know and I'll help you figure out how. And if you have any more questions I'm always here for you! =)
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if you are ready to tell them then tell them. dont try and force yourself to be ready, b/c then you might tell them in a weird way and say the wrong thing. make sure you are ready and you are sure of what you are going to say. -PA
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Coming out is rough no matter what age you are; if you are sure of your feelings, then I would plan out the best way to tell your parents.
Do you think they'll make you feel too uncomfortable to talk? If so, a letter can help you get your feelings across without worrying about crying or becoming too emotional.
The happiest, and hardest, day of my life was coming out to my mother. It made me feel free and very accepting of myself, though her reaction wasn't that great. We didn't speak without disolving into yelling for a few years - but now she loves my wife and treats us as any normal married couple.
Feel free to email me or get in touch again if you have any other questions - I'm happy to help you in any way I can. I know firsthand how it feels to worry about your parents, and I think you're a strong person to think about confronting them.
Your parents love you and want you to be happy - it's up to you to tell them what will make you happy.
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ok .. well whenevr you're ready to you should tell them .. i don't personally kno ur parents so they might be a litl "disappointed" .. but ur parents love you and nothing can replace that love .. they'll eventually get over it and it will all go back to normal..my cousin did this and my aunt really didn't care i guess and he jst told the rest of my family and personnaly i don't care it's his life .. but what i'm saying is he felt so much better after getting it off his chest so u'll feel much better the sonner u do it =) good luck if u wanna talk jst im me er leave me a message =)
hope i helped
xo <3 candice
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wait a few years to see if you feel the same
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i'd wait a year or two to see if you feel the same
if you still feel the same by the time your a sophmore or a junior, like 15-16 years old then tell them, but right now you're just experimenting the different type of people you could like
Good Luck, choose what you want, but this is my opinion
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yes being open and honest is they key in life.
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i think you should tell them. but understand going into it that they may not like what they hear. but you know they will love you. they can't and shouldnt hate you for something like this.. or ever. no worries.. if you need more encouragement.. drop some in my inbox. good luck.
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i don think u should tell ur parents that ur Bi until ur a little older they dont need to know now
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well since you're only 13, i think you should hold out and wait to tell them until you are older. just becasue you may just be going through a phase, and you may nt feel the same way when you get older. give it some time, and see how you turn out.
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