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hey, okay hes the scoop,
My friend brittany likes this guy, and then my other " friend " is a slut, they have been hangin out alot and she had sex with this guy that brittany likes,then they stopped hanging out and everything, i don't balme her, brittany came to me and started saying shit about her, this girl ( the slut ) before she had sex with him didn't like this guy now she says she has feelings for him, and my firend brittany, shes always been betrayed by the slut, and the guy lieks the slut, how do i drive this guy away from the slut, and try to get him intested in brittany,
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Tell him what a "SLUT" she is and tell him she is a betrayor.
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personally thats brittanys job, not urs, and its his choice not urs, hope i helped
<3 Nicole
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Honestly, I don't think there is anything you can do other than be there for Brittany. It's sad that she feels betrayed, but trying to force a couple together when the guy isn't interested will not be good for either party in the long term. Also, give this other girl and the guy a chance - of course you want to stand by your friend Brittany, but that doesn't mean you need to try and sabotage this guy's relationship or label his girlfriend a slut - after all, isn't she somebody you used to consider a friend too? I know it's hard, but you want to stay as neutral as possible and avoid getting personally involved, as it will most likely only make the problem more tangled. Good luck!
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whoa thats mess up. I think that u should tell "the slut" to back off.and tell her that she is wrong. tell Brittany that to dont waste time on him.cuz after he been with 'the slut"im sure she would not want her left over.
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This is a difficult situation. Well "the slut" still has feelings too and I don't think you should try to "drive her away." Maybe giving her advice could help. Write her a letter and say "look, i know you slept w/ one of my friends crushes and I think thats wrong but i wanna help ya'll out. my friend is really crushed right now and you are too it sounds like! i want you to know that sex can usually be mistaken for love. Its not love and I think u and my friend should move on. He'll only continue to use you guys" Hope I helped! =)
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you cant change peoples emotions.. they have to change on there own.. your <3 decides who it wants to like and who it doesnt want to.. maybe he only likes her because shes easy... well thats how you play the game right? your not gunna go after a challenge.. yer gunna go after someone thats easy =/, sometimes "sluts" need to realize how other ppl feel, and what they are doing and getting themselves into... =/ she'll get over him... but your a GREAT friend for : " how do i drive this guy away from the slut, and try to get him intested in brittany, "...well gl! <3
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The guy obviously likes sex way too much to dump the slutty chick. If all he cares about is sex,then feel lucky he's not interested in your friend.
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Well , like we all know is that the guy must of got it from the "slut" easily because, you mentioned that the girl didn't even have feelings for the guy before she slept with him but now she does . Anyway, I think that you really should tell your friend to talk to this guy about her feelings . Wasting time on pursueing him while the "slut" is useless because, we all know that he'll have the slute because she's easy . If guys can have it easy , they will . It depends on whether he likes a girl that is a challenge or not . Once Brittany talks to this guy and tells her how she feels about him, then it's really up to her . I mean does she like his reaction . It's really up to your friend . Tell her to talk to him . See how she likes his reaction and if he doesn't like her, then tell her to move on . There are plenty of more finer men out there .
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You don't. Stay out, it's not your problem. Let them sort it out themselves.
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wow.. its so funny how you keep refering to her as "the slut" lol. but yeah... if this guys like the slut then there is really nothing you or your friend brittany can do about it. it sucks that the slut had to go and be a slut anf fuck the guy brittany likes, but what can you say? shes a slut... thats what sluts do. and if that guy is seriously interested in a slut like that, then your friedns shouldnt want him anyway, he's obviously low class. find a guy who wants a good girl.
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