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I am 17/f. I had this childhood friend of like 8-9 years. We were best friends, but then we hit a ofrk in the orad and she turned to drugs about a year and a half ago. When I fisrt found out that she did it, I was pissed and told her that she was dumb and shouldnt do it again. She told me she wouldn't, that she was just tryingit so I gave her the benifit of the doubt. Her and I stopped being friends about 6 months ago. She started becoming really selfish,and just always pissing me off. She was telling me she was clean but I know her too well and could tell by how she wasacting that she was lying to me. Now she hangs around with my younger sister who is 16. I just found out the other day, that just as I thought, she is still using. My sister told me she snorts heroin in front of her all the time and that she is getting really bad. She also told me that she offered her soem to try but my she told her no. The fact that she had the nerve to offer my sister drugs really pisses me off. I feel like calling her up and telling her off. I have been debating on doing this for like the past 3 days. I cant seem to stop thinking about it. I understand that she is ruining her life but why would she encourage someone else to do the same? I wanna call her or so bad! I am so mad! I don't know what to do. (link)
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You should call that girl and yell at her like your all alone in your room and no one can't hear you. Drugs are bad everyone knows that and the fact that she is offering your sister drugs is even worse so CALL HER AND YELL YELL YELL!!!
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ok well there has been a lot of things going on and i've gotten really depressed. im on medicine for it but it doesnt seem to be working anymore. its like the 5th kind of pill that i've tryed. im always crying and thinking about the bad things but i can't help it. i used to be able to write about it in my poems but now i just kinda can't. i really need help and i dont know what to do. i dont want to cry myself to sleep everynight.
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1st of all i don think your really depressed if you dont know what your depressed about taking pills and crying isnt gonna help anyone. i think u should just try to be a hapy person and think positive
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I heard that if you eat 6 small meals a day, instead of 3 big its better for you. Any truth to this? (link)
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it seems like its the same 3 big meals= 6 small meals its just like math so i think its da same
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ok I love my friends so much but I get tired of sum like Jake Yves Chantal I don't they're cool but most of them they get on my nerves I'm going to high school and I know alot of pplz there but I don't want to ditch Chantal and Jake the closest ones I have what sh0ould I do?....I need new friend other then sum (link)
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only because you're going do high school doesnt mean to have to ditch ur friends they will still talk to u and hang out wit u but they need to understand they they cant be the only friends that you have, you should keep your old friends and find a couple of new ones 2!
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(I'm 14) I've been going out with my bf for awhile, and I always knew that he USED to smoke pot, and stopped like 6 months ago,and sometimes drinks a lot because of family problems...Well about 3 weeks ago he left a voice message saying he wouldn't be able to call because he got grounded because he "got caught doing something...very bad" and wouldn't tell me what it was, well his parents disconnected his phone and I found out yesterday from his friend justin (i had to practically beat it out of him...because he was afraid i'd go off killing my bf or something...) that his parents caught him smoking (which explains why he cant run 2 miles anymore) and that he used to have a big stash of cigs in his room, but that he quit after his parents caught him...then he asked if i was gonna break up with him, i said "i have no idea" And i haven't talked to him because he's grounded, and as selfish as it is, it pisses me off..
I dunno what to do, should I break up with him or not? I know all my friends will say I should, because I'm in the "good" group of friends, a lot of them go to church and have very strong beliefs and have never done any of that stuff,(we live in a small town in farmersville u.s.a so that stuff is a big deal) I'm in with them...but barely (my family is screwed up) it's like i'm teetering on the edge of good and bad...and i always fall for the messed up guys, and I know my bf is messed up..but i love him, and I don't know...he's never pressured me or ANYTHING, he's not like that, but I know dating someone with that many problems isn't good and will lead to problems, because drugs and alcoholism run in MY family too..but no matter what he does i can't hate him
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It seems like you and your boyfriend have a really strong relationship and he really likes you. He is making the wrong decision but if he never told you to smoke or drink or if he doesnt preasure you, you would make the wrong decision braking up with him since he seems like he cares. But if you do decide to dump him don't do it because you know its bad for you that he's da once smoking but break up wit him because he needs to learn that smoking is good for him or anyone around him.
Good luck on making the right decision :)
YouRZ tRuLLy ~ ADvIICe ChIIckA~
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if you stop drinking soft drinks, will that help you lose weight (link)
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You might not lose weight and you can lose weight if you stop drinking soft drinks. It all depends on what kind of a soft drink it is.
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My friends aren't acting like friends to me lately. We all used to be one group and now its breaking off in smaller groups. One of the smaller groups went to the mall. I don't mind them going to the mall together, but when they go 20 minutes after i ask them if they are doing anything. And when they go with 2 other people and dont bother inviteing me, Then puting it all in there away messages, profiles, and talking about what happened in front of me. Then i get pissed. I am trying to seperate myself from them, but i tried that and it creates more of a problem. I want to explode. But i cant, I just started highschool and i am trying to make new friends. ( not working out well) so if i break myslef completly off then i will be a outcast and be alone. I don't know what to do. Please help.
*i know this is long, Ill rate high* (link)
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some of my friends do da same to meh but its better if u spend a lil time alone and get some rele cool things u and ur friends mite wanna do together wit u like throw a party or something i think they hung out wit da same person for 2 long and they have nothign to talk to u about because they already told u all their secrets so ask them to go to da movies or plan a party together hope it works out for u
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My name is Christine and I'm a 13 year old girl. I don't know what to do, I can't trust most of my friends anymore and everyone is pissed at me, I don't know what i did! One of my friends, Chantal, doesn't keep any of the secrets I tell her amd now she's mad at me cause she said I talked behind her back, but I didn't...what can I do??? (link)
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obviesly some1 hates u and are trying to get every1 else to hate u 2 so if u have a computer make a lil password between u and ur friends and they will know who they are talking to and they wont be mad
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ok im 13 and schools about to start, im 4ft11in and 80 pounds, nd evrone tells me that thats fine for my hight, but i wanna loose some wieght before school start im pretty skinny but the top of my legs and my stomache have some excess fat, that i want to get rid of, schools about 2.5 weeks away! please help me and tell me any excersices or diets tht u would suggest to loose weight in the areas i mentioned! i want to look good for schhol! please help me asap! i will rate high! thnx! (link)
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biking and running help alot to lose weigh i know i do it myself but its not just excercise its wut ur eating thats making u fat when u go to da store u shud look for foods that are fat free or at least not 2 high and by 2 hight i mean over 4 grams or so
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What are some ways of getting rid of just a lil fat and like getting toned? Like just dieting tips and workouts n such. My problem areas are my thighs (inner mostly) and stomach. Thanks (link)
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u can get some fat of by running or biking its da easist way or gett into some sport u rele like and avoid fat foods
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ok hi my name is Anik I was talking to my boyfriends friend and well he was getting all jealous about us and now he broke me and my boyfriend up cuz he kept saying I was his girl friend and told my boyfriend I was breaking up with him which is a big lie and well I want him back but I don't know what I can do cuz his friend Nathan is always there blowing kisses my way and stuff...help me plz
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i think ur boyfriends friend is a little loney and i guess he likes u so chair himup wit u fo a dai or 2 and trust meh hell leave u alone its wut i did and it worked
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I've been friends with this girl heather for about a year or so now...she's a good friend, dont get me wrong, but all summer she has been ditching me and my other friends for her family..i know she's busy with diving and everything but whenever we ask her to hang out she usually says sure and then blows us off to go hang out with her family. she was rude to her boyfriend and drug him out to visit her relatives whenever they were supposed to have alone time and it interfered with their relationship and they are now just "friends" I really don't know how to tell her she needs to come out with us instead of the family without hurting her feelings... what should i do? (link)
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I think heather eathier loves her family more then anything in da world or she just hasnt seen them for a long time and she wants to spend time wit them but u shud tell her or at least ask her to go to da movies wit some of her rele good friends instead of always being with her family family is great don get me wrong on this 1 but friends are important 2 and i think she rele needs to know that
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Hey
I was wondering - do you think eyeliner looks better if you put it directly under your eye or where your eyelash like is? (link)
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i think eyeliner looks a lil better if its put under your eyes
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what do they do when you get a sports physical? anything with your privates?
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no they dont do nothing wit ur private they just check for any illness that u mite have
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My sister and i sing. And we sing well. Sometimes friends and family will ask us to sing but if we are not together, we feel uncomfortable doing it alone. Alot of the times we need a few drinks to loosen us up. How do you get over the fear of singing in front of large groups and also how to do it without someone? (link)
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when ur singing in front of a big group of people u shud pretend ur all alone and in ur own little imaginary world being some plave else when ur on stage really helps and for the singing alone i think u should just enjoy wut ur doing and know that people are gonna love it when u shing to them u need to practice alone first anyway so just enjoy what you do and be proud!!
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anybody have good quotes dealing with community?? (link)
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Hear me, four quarters of the world - a relative I am! Give me the strength to walk the soft earth, a relative to all that is! Give me the eyes to see and the strength to understand, that I may be like you. With your power only can I face the winds.
The first duty of a human being is to assume the right functional relationship to society -- more briefly, to find your real job, and do it.
One generation plants the trees; another gets the shade.
Never doubt that a small, group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.
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I am 13 and Bi should i tell my parents??? cause i don't want them to hate me so i need to know
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i don think u should tell ur parents that ur Bi until ur a little older they dont need to know now
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